Is this a gay scenario?

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  1. B_beltboy

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    Show up at friend's house. His wife at work, kids at camp. Get through the pleasantries...hello..etc. He continues with the housework. I strip down, whip it out and jerk off casually while he goes about his work. He stops now and then to chat with me, holding the laundry, answering the phone. It just normal for us...
     
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    Yeah, like Reset said, kinky, would'nt call it a gay scenario as it is.
     
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    Yeah, its kinky...im hard just thinking about it two hours later. But its a scene that we have played out hundreds of times over ten yrs plus...Its a male bonding thing.
     
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    Not sure how or if I would categorize this, but I'm pretty sure it's not a straight scenario, if that's any help.
     
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    Well of course, I thought everybody knew about this bonding experience between 'straight' men...:rolleyes::rolleyes:
     
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    Would this guy do the same at your house? :shocked:
     
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    Can I hide in a closet and watch?
     
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    what a kinky ritual! Only straights would do something as weird as this. Lol.
    Us gays would just go ahead and have sex.
    Sounds horny though. Hope you enjoy.
     
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    So you jerk off watching him do laundry, sweeping up and doing dishes?

    Housework has never really seemed erotic to me.

    At any rate it is always good to have good friends.
     
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    sounds a little weird to me
     
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    I'd say it depends on where your getting your arousal from. If it's from him doing housework or just him in general, then yeah I'd say it could be. If your just jacking off while he's doing some work and it's totally not a sexual thing between you, then no it's not. It's no more gay or straight than masturbation any other time. Just because another guy is there doesn't make it gay.
     
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    I'm not going to call it gay, from the jump off... But I am curious as to what has you sexually excited, and what's the focus that's keeping you erect and able to maintain the erection? I would definitely have to say that there is something going on there... but. damn. Normally if I do that, I'm about to get a blow job. Hmmm, I'm curious about this. And just so you know, straight best friends don't generally do that. Just want to put that out there.
     
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    Whatever you want to call it got me meaty just thinking about it! Come on over and watch me do some dishes!:tongue:
     
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    lol! Great responses...umm...what gets me off is the fact that there is casual nudity and sexuality, and a shared history going back to teenaged years. Its an unconsummated relationship, but we have pushed the limits of experimentation....
     
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    Then yeah... it's somewhat of a gay/bi bromance. Not a bad thing. Just your thing.
     
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    It's only gay if you are sexually attracted to the guy you're wanking in front of. If you just get off on the exhibitionism of the situation then it's an exhibitionist situation. If you get off on the male bonding aspect then its a homoerotic situation but not a homosexual one.
     
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    My 2-cents, if you are going home to a woman and you are committed to the opposite sex as your lifelong choice in a partner, it doesn't make you "gay" to experiment or have the occasional thing with a guy. Gay would imply that you are going for a guy all the time and that guys are "your thing". If women are your (main) thing, than you'd be straight. I have an open view on sexuality since people are so quick to want to label themselves, just enjoy what you do and so long as it doesn't cause problems, enjoy it.
     
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    Yet ironically you just labeled people according to your own personal definitions.
     
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