Is this a new trend?

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Being straight but also interested in guys? I'm really starting to see this a lot. In and out of this forum...

Four years ago everyone was coming out as gay, so is like everyone bi now?

I just don't really get people. If there is so much sexual liberation now, why can't I still get married?
 

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The younger are more liberated. The old men still make the laws.

As they die and we younger make the rules, it'll change. Though it sucks that it can't happen sooner.

Yeah that was cruel.
 
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Hhahahahaha....Nah, each generation makes way for the next. Things don't change overnight, it takes time, when they do finally change, a new movement begins to change them back again. Something about a circle? If things are kept in flux the status quo is kept...everybody is not totally happy or totally sad.
 
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Well, someone who identifies as straight either mostly prefers the opposite sex or can, as a bisexual choose only relationships with the opposite sex. Just because you say you are straight, doesn't mean you are a special breed that can't be aroused by sexual, sensual experiences and touching no matter where it comes from. According to many studies, the brain is sexually sensitive to both genders, its just usually only intense and personally relatable to pursue and consider one or the other. Straight or gay doesn't mean the brain is dead to sensual behavior and touch by a gender that you don't prefer relationships and sexual fantasy with.

Attraction is more fluid than people like to admit. I'm sure some of you may have noticed the profile percentages in the straight/gay ratio. So maybe you generally go for women, but that doesn't mean that men are a total turn off. That you can't experiment around for a while because a piece of you has broad enough sexual horizons to experience more than just what you generally expect to be satisfied with.
 
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jasono has it right...sexual orientation is not a black and white matter as it has made out to be. i love women almost everything about then but a muscled big cock gets me hard. i dont see myself as settling down with a guy its just they are arousing. It is also worth saying humans werent meant to be monogomous so the whole gay straight thing is labeling a flawed system...look at bonobos the only thing they dont fuck is mother to son
 
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I don't know about a trend, but it is crazy that we want everybody to fit perfectly in their little box with a label on it. Who cares if people are gay or bi or straight. If you're attracted to somebody or fuck somebody, it should be their business. If you're gay and you like to suck some other guys cock, maybe he should try and stop worrying about if he is straight. How about he just isn't in to you and leave it at that. I'd consider myself to be a man first and foremost, and a man that has needs and desires. Most with the opposite sex, but it doesn't mean I'm not allowed to do anything else that I please.
 
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The younger are more liberated. The old men still make the laws.

As they die and we younger make the rules, it'll change. Though it sucks that it can't happen sooner.
The sooner it happens the sooner it will be you that's old.
Youth is wasted on the young.
 

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I see lots of messages on craigslist M-2-M pages that say things like "I'm completely straight, but I like to suck dick every now and then." I think this is the height of self-delusion and denial. The "gay" label is so negative to such men that they somehow can convince themselves that if a "straight" guy wants to suck an occasional cock, it isn't even a gay act.
 

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Really, I believe that everyone is curious at some point in their life, or really, if anything, humans are just naturally bisexual. They can say that they're strictly straight or strictly gay, but then when the right person comes along, they're "swayed" over to that side a bit more.

It's why I say that I'm "99% gay/ 1% Straight," because while I'm perfectly comfortable just being attracted to other men...who knows? A woman might come along that I find myself insanely attracted to. It hasn't happened yet, but it always could in the future.