Is this a women's issue?

[B_subgirrl]

Thanks, I appreciate that.

I think you're right..... although, does it still constitute a 'gangbang' if there's only a couple of other people there? Surely that's just a threesome? Or foursome?

Indeed it is only a three or foursome. But I think it might be better to try it that way first and see how you feel.

 

[D_Sparroe Spongecaques]

Will you show me what real women are made of?

On topic...

If the OP wants to know what a gangbang is like then maybe they should join Gangbangers Anonymous? The fact that you want similar stories and experiences is a pretty "big" (hehe) indication that you are a guy.

Again? Of course!:tongue:

Gangbangers Anonymous? Are you joking? I don't need graphic "wank bank" descriptions! FFS! I am a girl, I'm new to all this and I was hoping for some constructive advice from those more experienced than me!

Which is what you recieved...

Thanks, I appreciate that.

I think you're right..... although, does it still constitute a 'gangbang' if there's only a couple of other people there? Surely that's just a threesome? Or foursome?

That isnt a gangbang,that's a 3sum/4sum which is quite different from a GB

 

[D_Tim McGnaw]

There are a lot of gender fakers around that's why people are somewhat suspicious of un-verified members who post this kind of thread in Women's Issues, don't take it personally.


OT- I've had a fair bit of group sex, a couple of times with a partner, and frankly both those partners were guys with whom it was kinda a mutually agreed fact that there was little more to our relationship than sex.

Sure some people have swinger type relationships where two people who love each other have multiple other sexual partners (sometimes all at once) which seem to work but honestly the number of these which work and are healthy are few because most people despite their protestations to the contrary find the idea of sharing their significant other with other people in reality extremely difficult.

Whatever the cock sizes of the guys your BF wants you to be gangbanged by if you decide to turn fantasy in to reality be prepared for the consequences if you are in a loving relationship with this guy. If you and he are just about the sex and having fun then who knows you might be embarking on a fun period of your life, but if their are real feelings involved I'd be extremely cautious.

All of this is presuming you're straight up and on the level of course. If you are a bloke and this is just wank fodder then meh at least I didn't contribute to that bank-o-wank.

 

[dirtydefiance]

Thank you hilaire, for presuming I'm on the level, which I am.

You've made a really good point, one that I hadn't really considered... I don't like the idea of sharing Alex (That's my partner) with anyone, I'd get too jealous to watch him having sex with other women. Evidently for him, that isn't an issue, to him I'm a sexual object and he's able to detach his emotions.

I have genuine feelings for Alex and he tells me he has feelings for me but that doesn't change the fact that he believes he'll be turned on by watching other guys fuck me. I do struggle to understand how you tell a person you love them with one breath but that you want to watch someone else fuck them with another. I haven't really considered that we might get 'down to it' and he might feel differently..... But since Alex is currently travelling through Europe and most likely fucking a fair few ladies on the way, I'm tempted not to worry about him changing his mind and just have some fun since the fantasy does turn me on!

 

[D_Tim McGnaw]

Thank you hilaire, for presuming I'm on the level, which I am.

You've made a really good point, one that I hadn't really considered... I don't like the idea of sharing Alex (That's my partner) with anyone, I'd get too jealous to watch him having sex with other women. Evidently for him, that isn't an issue, to him I'm a sexual object and he's able to detach his emotions.

I have genuine feelings for Alex and he tells me he has feelings for me but that doesn't change the fact that he believes he'll be turned on by watching other guys fuck me. I do struggle to understand how you tell a person you love them with one breath but that you want to watch someone else fuck them with another. I haven't really considered that we might get 'down to it' and he might feel differently..... But since Alex is currently travelling through Europe and most likely fucking a fair few ladies on the way, I'm tempted not to worry about him changing his mind and just have some fun since the fantasy does turn me on!

My honest opinion on that is dump the cunt. "to him [you're] a sexual object and he's able to detach his emotions" WTF? Whatever those emotions are they don't sound like they're all that deep or intense if he can just detach them.

If you want to explore this kind of fantasy in real life, that's great, but don't do it with a guy like this one. Do it on your own terms and with someone with whom the boundaries of your relationship are clearly defined and not about deep emotional connections or "love".

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

Dirtydefiance....what is your favorite tampon or maxi pad brand and why?

 

[HazelGod]

Dirtydefiance....what is your favorite tampon or maxi pad brand and why?

:biglaugh:

You rock, Red.

 

[Tickled Pink]

Alex is currently travelling through Europe and most likely fucking a fair few ladies on the way, I'm tempted not to worry about him changing his mind and just have some fun since the fantasy does turn me on![/QUOTE]

Sorry honey but if 'he' is doing what you say he says he is doing (which is always dubious) then why would you want sloppy seconds anyway????? He has stuck that dick in other womens pussies - why would you want it in yours? Eeeew! Definitely do not put it in your mouth!!!!

Basically, if he has been poking his cock in other pussies, why on earth would you want him to stick it in you?????

Back to you being fucked by other men whilst he watches? I think you will find that that is fantasy porn, not real life. Do not degrade yourself for this 'mans' satisfaction, only do what YOU want to do, if he don't like it, then fuck him right off!!!!!!

 

[Wish-4-8]

You'd be better asking your girlfriend yourself rather than us.

Have a good day sir.

ZING!

 

[Wish-4-8]

To the OP. There is an unofficial list of clues that go into gender fakers. Some of the really good gender fakers have gotten away with it because they understand these simple observations:
1. Username- Most obvious give away. Ladies usually pick something girly, clever, or cute, maybe sexy, but never vulgar.
2. Profile pic- Ladies normally use something more tackful.
3. Nature of requests. If you read the Women's issues forum, real ladies do not normally ask questions in the way you asked. To a pervert, its actually quite boring.
4. Date you just joined. To me, this is the dead give away for troll who have been banned before. They navigate so well on this site like they have been here for years, and have less than 30 posts, and just joined in the same month.
5. Behavior and conduct. There are certain patterns that ladies follow whether they are aware of it or not. Most members who fall out of these patterns normally turn out to be fakes.

Im sure others could add more to the list.

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

You know what this means Wish???

It's time for Rougicles to write a new blog to accompany this blog.

 

[Wish-4-8]

You know what this means Wish???

It's time for Rougicles to write a new blog to accompany this blog.

Oh wow, now I'M falling in love with you. :redface:



Just as a side note, when you wrote that, in response to my thread, I had no idea you were PM.

 

[dirtydefiance]

Dirtydefiance....what is your favorite tampon or maxi pad brand and why?

I really don't feel that this justifies a response and I'm not entirely sure how knowing the names of sanitary products is going to prove that I'm female but since you asked....

Tampax. Why? Because they're the brand my mum uses so naturally, when I started my periods and she talked to be about it/bought me sanitary products those were the ones she bought. Although she didn't buy me tampons straight away, I used pads and she bought me Always.

Anything else you'd like to know. The type of contraceptive I use. The pill. Brevinor to be precise.

Why do I get the feeling that this will still not be enough to satisfy you?

 

[dirtydefiance]

1. Username- Most obvious give away. Ladies usually pick something girly, clever, or cute, maybe sexy, but never vulgar.

I don't think my username is particularly vulgar, it isn't something like "hugecocksucker", "asslicker" or something equally obscene. I joined this site to facilitate a particular fantasy not to have smoke blown up my ass by a bunch of guys telling me what a cutsie lovely girly girl I am.

2. Profile pic- Ladies normally use something more tackful.

"tackful"? I assume you mean 'tactful'? Another way you can distinguish a lady from a man, they can spell. But since you mention it, yes, there are many more 'tackful' avatars on here... pvc incased heaving bosoms for instance. What is so indecent about a girl, (That would be ME!) with red lips wearing a fascinator?

3. Nature of requests. If you read the Women's issues forum, real ladies do not normally ask questions in the way you asked. To a pervert, its actually quite boring.

Did you know there are over 3.2 billion women in the world? I find it incredible that you know enough of them to generalise the way "real ladies normally ask questions".

4. Date you just joined. To me, this is the dead give away for troll who have been banned before. They navigate so well on this site like they have been here for years, and have less than 30 posts, and just joined in the same month.

So I'm a new member, I'm sure lots of new people join this site every day. And "troll"? Charming.

5. Behavior and conduct. There are certain patterns that ladies follow whether they are aware of it or not. Most members who fall out of these patterns normally turn out to be fakes.

Again, I'd love to know when you carried out your research into the "patterns that ladies follow". To be able to make sweeping generalisations like this, the research must have taken years. Perhaps you did at the same time you studied for a Masters in Cognitive Psychology?

Im sure others could add more to the list.

I'm sure they could. Although perhaps, instead, if people don't feel I'm genuine and don't have anything constructive to add they could just step off their soap box, remove it from the playground and say nothing? Just a suggestion.

 

[D_Sparroe Spongecaques]

"tackful"? I assume you mean 'tactful'? Another way you can distinguish a lady from a man, they can spell. But since you mention it, yes, there are many more 'tackful' avatars on here... pvc incased heaving bosoms for instance. What is so indecent about a girl, (That would be ME!) with red lips wearing a fascinator?


.

Well,if you've got it.......which i have.....and mine are not lopsided either!!:wink:


BTW...the word is encased not incased

 

[Serial Kisser]

You tell em' dirty.

 

[Enid]

"tackful"? I assume you mean 'tactful'? Another way you can distinguish a lady from a man, they can spell. But since you mention it, yes, there are many more 'tackful' avatars on here... pvc incased heaving bosoms for instance. What is so indecent about a girl, (That would be ME!) with red lips wearing a fascinator?

Since you so tactfully corrected Wish I will go ahead and correct you. It's encased not incased.


:smile:

 

[Wish-4-8]

OK...
I have been here longer than you have and am a regular poster. I read a lot, I notice patterns. I only speak for what I have seen and observed here. I dont need to observe over 3.2 billion women to form an opinion since they are not members here and I have not read thier posts.

And you are going to "get me" for a misspelling or a typo? I think there are bigger fish to fry.

Believe it or not, my list was to help you understand why you are getting a lot of flack. (did I spell that right?) Those are the typical signs that gender fakers fall into.

 

[HazelGod]

Since you so tactfully corrected Wish I will go ahead and correct you. It's encased not incased.


:smile:

Don't forget, it should also be connected with a hyphen to the preceding PVC...which, of course, should be capitalized. :biggrin1:

 

[Enid]

Don't forget, it should also be connected with a hyphen to the preceding PVC...which, of course, should be capitalized. :biggrin1:

You're such a smartypants, I love it. Gets me all hot and bothered. :yup: