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  1. B_bigcnliltee

    B_bigcnliltee New Member

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    i am a str8 man been with my lovely girl for 5yrs and the sex is always good. im 23yrs old. i have a 7inch cock and thick but all i keep fantacisin about is her suckin on a big cock 9in+ while i fuck her til she is ready to fit his cock in her lil pussy.
    we are jus startin to expand our sexual desires, and hers is to be eatin and to be eatin pussy. i love the thought of havin two girls at once, im a man but i always end up thinkin that a tall, dark and hung bloke, will kick in the door and add more spice to the situation. i dont even mind watchin as long as his cock is BIG im cool. i even bought her a 10in dildo jus so she can practice for the big day.
    the question i pose is to everyone is: r those thoughts normal for a straight guy. its not like im guna touch it or whatever but i will definatly be turned on by that
     
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    dude....stop stressing. In my opinion, being gay is having a loving/romantic/sexual relationship with another man. Sex is sex. It's not like you are dreaming of a big hairy, burly, horse hung man to come in and pound your ass or anything...... just have fun man
     
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    i think her fantasy is cooler.:wink:
    i would rather have a girl on my face and another on my unit.
    but that is me,i have a friend who is like you and i do not think he is gay.
    everybody is different.

    overall if ya do anything be picky...you do not want someone
    who is out of sync with you guys.

    that is if she changes her mind.
     
  4. jeffnoth

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    The closest I come to "gay" is that I frequently take on the role of my wife in a scenario like that. I imagine that I'm this sweet, conservative woman that would never ever cheat on my huband. Then I meet "HIM". lol

    It's only a turn on if I picture it as her having sex with some fat cock stud. If it was me with the other man, it's not really my thing. I love the idea that a certain type of man could make even the most faithful wife forget her vows.
     
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    My opinion is whatever floats your boat at the time, enjoying sex with who ever is no big deal mate, i think the words straight gay bi or whatever forces people into a category, just enjoy the fantasy the sex with who ever without having the worries or hang ups mate:biggrin1:
     
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    everyone is in different places on that one man... if you think about every porn flick you've ever seen I'm sure you've always enjoyed watching some big hung guy doing the plowing... that's not being gay- that's being sexual. I think it's pretty normal that you'd be attracted to the big unit.

    I'd say ease up on yourself about the 100% or nothing- and realize that you might be somewhere in the 90-80% and that's totally OK dude. If it works for you, then leave it at that and don't take judgement from others on what turns you on- because it's your business and no one elses.

    Scratch that. It's your partner's business, too. If she's cool with the concept of a threesome- I'd caution to tread slowly and don't rush into that fantasy, because it can be very destructive to the relationship if it doesn't work out as you planned. Keep the channels of communication open with your lover and acknowledge that not all fantasies have to be acted upon to bring life to your relationship.

    Props to you for purchasing the dildo for playtime.
     
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    Men.. why are we so worried about how big our dicks are. What the fuck is it with EXTENZ etc,............. Why don't they invent a pill to shrink the vagina to a size a human male can occupy. Quit humping fire hydrants women. Lets get women back to size, take the pill bitch.

    jeffnoth..... your gay, you're a faggot, get a grip and and get over it! If your wife dosen't know it by now, god bless her.
     
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    :eek::redface: Gee Nikkiwadlin, hope you know Jeffnoth and those harsh comments was a joke !
     
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    Lucky for you that what you are thinking about has a name and a whole group of people who are into it to: cuckholding. You might want to google that (try cuckhold). The tall, dark and hung bloke is often called the "bull". For many cuckholds the fantasy is to have a hung "Black" guy be the one who is doing their partner, while they watch. Sometimes this fantasy becomes the bull forcing the cuckhold to be a part of it--suck his dick before he fucks the wife, or whatever. There are lots of groups dedicated to this and one of their discussions is "how gay is this?"

    So you aren't alone. Most of this also centers around humiliation, submission and domination. The question of how gay is it, really comes down to how much interaction you're willing to have with the bull or have the bull impose on you. If you take it from the bull then you might be leaning towards being more bisexual under these circumstances.

    I personally don't get cuckholding and it's not my thing but I can see how it's much more common than people admit to and it explains why so many guys are into the whole "are black guys hung?" discussions. Many want them to be to help fuel their fantasy.

    Hope that helps and good luck with it.
     
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    Thanks HH... you beat me to it. Just one correction, though: cuckold, not cuckhold.
     
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    Oops, my bad, thanks for the correction. For some reason I always think of the word as cockhold and have to remember that it's cuck--I guess the hold part sticks.
     
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    I wouldn't say it was "gay" to fantasise about your partner being fucked by another guy. Plenty of straight couples have threesomes without it being a gay thing at all. You can't beat a good spit roasting. I'd only class it as getting bi/gay if you fantasised about fucking, sucking or being fucked or sucked by the other guy, or did it for real, and even then only if it happend more than once. You've got to leave a bit of wiggle room for experimentation.
     
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    DO you imagine living your life with another man in a ROMANTIC way? NO... so having a desire to share your girlfriend with a 9"+ is not a gay thing! IT'S a sharing issue. IF none of you are bothered by that! GO ON and have your VERY str8 threesome! ;)
     
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    cheers for clearin that up everyone.
     
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