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is this gay?
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i think theres a difference when someone offers to suck your dick and pay you than you telling them u have to pay them to suck ur dick. its practically like a tip. in other words u have sex with someone and they give u money without saying something about it before hand, so that makes u a prostitute bc u took it?
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If I was heterosexual, I wouldn't be worried about sexuality labels. I'd be more worried about being a prostitute or a whore.
I'd either try my darnedest to rationalize taking the $200 and still being able to not consider myself a prostitute or whore, or I'd turn the money down and still let it happen because a mouth is a mouth and has no gender and a penis in a mouth knows no gender.
Then again, I'm not heterosexual so who knows if in my current state, I can honestly say what I would actually do.
I'd either try my darnedest to rationalize taking the $200 and still being able to not consider myself a prostitute or whore, or I'd turn the money down and still let it happen because a mouth is a mouth and has no gender and a penis in a mouth knows no gender.
Then again, I'm not heterosexual so who knows if in my current state, I can honestly say what I would actually do.
I think that this is a preposterous way to explore one's orientation.
As a general rule (and I agree with those who hate labels) a man who is 100% straight would not be able to get into sex acts with a member of the same sex. But, there are many men who can as an example hop in bed with another male and perform every sex act under the sun, and yet, they jack-off to straight porn and claim or profess heterosexuality.
I don't think that repulsed is really accurate, the words or description I would use would be more like the 100% straight guy would not be able to become aroused. It is sort of like loving a live baseball game or football game and hating the same sport televised.
If you can easily perform with a member of the same sex the only thing it means is that it would be possible for you to develop emotional and physical attachments to a member of the same sex. It does NOT mean that you WILL develop those attachments. It simply means that you could if you found the right person and under the right circumstances.
This whole mess is kind of why the percentage game exists on this board with percent straight or percent gay. It all comes down to circumstances and the chance meeting of Mr. Right.
Now, that having been said, let's address the prostitution issue.
I worked in and around the entertainment industry. The really high class people in prostitution both male and female are far more expensive than $200 for their services. There are both male and females in the "pay and play" program who get $2,000 for a night between the sheets. Hollywood Vice has busted many of them over the past decades.
Personally, I really hope that you are using this example, to explore definitions to try and explore your sexuality. Once you have done this kind of act for pay, it is an experience from which you can never return or push the "reset" button.
I personally did some volunteer work at the Hollywood Free Clinic many years ago. I really could find very little to recommend that as a money making enterprise. Risks are extremely high unless you are a "call biy" to the rich and "infamous". If you ever get "busted" for it you would find yourself automatically disqualified for many future endeavors in life.
As a general rule (and I agree with those who hate labels) a man who is 100% straight would not be able to get into sex acts with a member of the same sex. But, there are many men who can as an example hop in bed with another male and perform every sex act under the sun, and yet, they jack-off to straight porn and claim or profess heterosexuality.
I don't think that repulsed is really accurate, the words or description I would use would be more like the 100% straight guy would not be able to become aroused. It is sort of like loving a live baseball game or football game and hating the same sport televised.
If you can easily perform with a member of the same sex the only thing it means is that it would be possible for you to develop emotional and physical attachments to a member of the same sex. It does NOT mean that you WILL develop those attachments. It simply means that you could if you found the right person and under the right circumstances.
This whole mess is kind of why the percentage game exists on this board with percent straight or percent gay. It all comes down to circumstances and the chance meeting of Mr. Right.
Now, that having been said, let's address the prostitution issue.
I worked in and around the entertainment industry. The really high class people in prostitution both male and female are far more expensive than $200 for their services. There are both male and females in the "pay and play" program who get $2,000 for a night between the sheets. Hollywood Vice has busted many of them over the past decades.
Personally, I really hope that you are using this example, to explore definitions to try and explore your sexuality. Once you have done this kind of act for pay, it is an experience from which you can never return or push the "reset" button.
I personally did some volunteer work at the Hollywood Free Clinic many years ago. I really could find very little to recommend that as a money making enterprise. Risks are extremely high unless you are a "call biy" to the rich and "infamous". If you ever get "busted" for it you would find yourself automatically disqualified for many future endeavors in life.
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Umm dude, who cares? If someone offers me $200 bucks to suck my dick, he is not gonna have to ask me twice, I am gonna unzip and stick it in his mouth...well unless he is a total troll. I usually let dudes suck it for free. LOL
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Well you've definitely got a nice cock! If I had two big ones laying around, I'd be tempted to get in line!
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No and if it still bothers you then don't take the money and enjoy a free bj. Hell i'm straight and would gladly let a guy suck my dick just cuz it feels good.
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That's payment for a sexual service, so maybe it's not gay but it's still prostitution. Not that there's anything wrong with prostitution but you know...:tongue:
I have to say though I can't imagine anyone wasting 150 dollars on cuddling and some being watched, sounds dubious to me.
The fact that your claim that your a virgin suggests only to me is a bit of confussion of what you like..Would it be different thinking for you if you did,nt feel like like money had to be involed to consider it?? The fact you brought money into it, was that to make you feel straight after the deed was done,lol. Now i am confusing myself. Lastly, i will put it this way. I have been with women and still considered myself as gay by preference.Labels,labels,labels.
I think he's trying to "warm me up" to where he can get to the point that he can suck me off. All of his previous "guys" he has sucked off so it's only a matter a time before he makes a move on me. It's not going to happen though.
Also, there are a variety of reasons he does this. One being a spine disease which prevents him from having sex. So he has to get off using other methods. It might sound like a waste at first, but it makes sense if you put yourself in his shoes.
