Yeah, can someone please explain to me why you would go through something like this? It looks incredibly painful and unnecessary...or is it just something that guys are self conscious about, like why women get work done on their breasts for example?
and to answer why i did it, simply because i wanted to. didnt need a nosejob to feel pretty like many people do, i wanted this.
Having been through it as an adult, I can tell you that it is NOT incredibly painful. The procedure was done under local anesthetic. While I was given painkillers, I only took a single one, to help me sleep the night after the operation. The pain was no worse than a knife cut on a finger, and it subsides rapidly.
No, it is not necessary, any more than a nose job or a boob job is necessary. And just as with those procedures, it is and should be a decision that any [male] adult should have the choice to make for himself. We make such a big fucking deal about a woman's right to choose what to do with her own body. It's disgusting to me that we can't show men the same respect, and that other men on here feel the need to criticize the OP's decision. He's not telling you what to do with your body; allow him the freedom to do what he wants to do with his.
I have my personal reasons for why I chose to get circumcised, and I couldn't be happier. My only regret is that I waited so long to do it. That's only me. A lot of guys looking to get the procedure done PM me with questions, and I answer them as best I can, but I never press or encourage them to go ahead with the procedure. They need to do their research and make the decision that's right for them.
thanks for all of the comments.
in the last couple of days the swelling is almost gone, and now im starting to se what i think it will look like.
i was simply concerned without any reason - but its a sensitive place.
and to answer why i did it, simply because i wanted to. didnt need a nosejob to feel pretty like many people do, i wanted this.
he's an adult. he was free to choose.
it's like saying, "do you want cake or pie?"
I don't think a thread on a medical question is an appropriate place to interrogate someone on their personal preferences.
I don't believe that anyone is "interrogating" him, with all that that word implies. There is, after all, such a thing as natural curiosity. And it is only natural to be curious about his reasons for taking such a big step--reasons which could possibly be helpful to others who might be undecided.
No, it is not necessary, any more than a nose job or a boob job is necessary. And just as with those procedures, it is and should be a decision that any [male] adult should have the choice to make for himself. We make such a big fucking deal about a woman's right to choose what to do with her own body. It's disgusting to me that we can't show men the same respect, and that other men on here feel the need to criticize the OP's decision. He's not telling you what to do with your body; allow him the freedom to do what he wants to do with his.
To the rest of you repeatedly asking why he had a circ done....knock it off. There's thousands of threads on here that have debated that very question into oblivion. Do a search. This thread does not need to be mucked up with a bunch of debate about why vs. why not.
I don't think anyone was debating. It's human to be curious. Don't be so touchy.
It's funny how it's so fine for guys to ask girls similar questions...but we aren't allowed to do the same.
My post really wasn't directed at you. If you'll read Young Native's post (the post directly above yours), he hit precisely on what I was getting at, and he's 100% correct. I wasn't as clear as he was. My apologies to ya.
in the last couple of days the swelling is almost gone, and now im starting to se what i think it will look like.
Bravo! It looks great and I can't wait to see the results after the stitches are removed.
Good for you! To me it looks fine, and once your healing is over, I am sure you'll continue to be happy with your decision.
Great. Take good care of the wound and it will heal up quickly without leaving a dark scar line. wish you have a nice circumcised penis.
what did you do with the scar? i bought some e-vitamin oil. is there better things?