is this normal

[Don12345697]

Hi all I'm a 22 y.o male. I consider myself str8 but not sure because I have only had sex twice. The reason I write this is because I wonder if this is normal or if I may be bi...

I love to watch porn and look at other guys cocks. I get off to other guys having sex and even two guys suckin each other off.

I have had sex twice in my life so far. But the big thing im worried about is that when I jerkoff I always think about my buddy.. My Buddy is great built and is my best friend. I have never had a friend like him up untill two years ago. I have seen him naked plenty of times but never hard or did anything sexual. The thing that I want to know is to know if it is normal to think about his cock and his body while I jerkoff... I don't know if i Love my buddy or if it is just that he is that good of a friend.. Also my buddy is 10% str8 he has a gf and everything..

Any help would be great! Thanks

 

[Charles Finn]

lol yes your normal whatever that is

 

[Don12345697]

anyone else... thanks

 

[conchis]

definitely. if you are gay it's normal to jerking off thinking about your buddy's cock. if you are bi it's normal in the same way.
so the percentage you wrote to describe yourself is correct. and honest.

did you see that famous rock opera about bisexuality? the main character sang Don't dream it, Be it...

 

[CALAMBO]

good day don...and you are very much normal...no labels of gay/straight/bi...you are in the prime of your sex life...you are allowed to think of any one in fantasy fuck's.....yes we all like our best friends body and cock...especially at your age...enjoy the jerk sessions...enjoy life and really enjoy your dick...

 

[killerb]

what's got you so worried?
what you've been feeling is quite common, so you're not some kinda weirdo...

 

[QuiteOne]

Don. Don't worry about labeling yourself. Just learn to be comfortable in your skin no matter who you are attracted to.

 

[kingkhan]

Like everyone else said its normal and don't pay attention to labels just do what you feel comfortable with.

 

[D_Jared Padalicki]

No worries Don, it's not because you fantasize it that you have to be gay. We all have/had our strange fantasies, nothing wrong with that and actually not strange.
If you are open for it, don't be afraid that you maybe have a bisexual side, nothing wrong with that man :smile:

 

[silvertriumph2]

Yes, it is very normal. And anyone who says they have not had
those thoughts or feelings is just kidding themselves. Thinking
or feeling these things does not make you gay or bi, it just means
you are having them....period....nothing more and nothing less.
And, it does not make you gay or bi if you love a friend...or even
have certain thoughts or feelings about a friend.

So, having them is normal for "most" people (I thought I would add
that since there certainly will be those who will disagree).

So, forget labeling...it is not important and it just confuses things
altogether.

You didn't say what type of sex you have had, but it really doesn't
matter, anyway.

Good luck and enjoy yhour sexuality.

 

[nicenycdick]

"Normal" is a construct of society. It has very little to do with what you feel, need or desire. What is the norm today was deviant 30 years ago. Don't let what other people think color your own personal desires. As long as it hurts no one, take your pleasure where you may.

 

[chrisj428]

did you see that famous rock opera about bisexuality? the main character sang Don't dream it, Be it...

That was just on the other night! I LOVE the late night picture show!

 

[D_Ireonsyd_Colonrinse]

Don writes, "I don't know if i Love my buddy or if it is just that he is that good of a friend.. Also my buddy is 10% str8 he has a gf and everything.."

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Don, if your buddy is only 10% straight, what are you waiting for? Go test the waters, dude!


Ok. I know that's probably a typo! But, seriously, it sounds like you're going through a lot of sexual growth right now. Sex twice is not a heck of a lot. But at least you have this huge support group here as you find your way (I am new to this site, but everybody seems to be so openminded; this is a good nonjudgemental place to anonymously discuss and explore your "percentages").

 

[JP0724]

Don.. don't worry about labels, just go with what makes you feel the best. If that's a girl on tuesday and a guy on friday, then go with it.