Is this normal?

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  1. landogriffin

    landogriffin New Member

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    So I had my first sexual experience the other day. I was with my girlfriend and two guy friends in my room. I didn't expect anything to happen because we were in the same room with other people, but next thing I know, we're on the bed, and I have my pants down under the covers. She was jerking me off, and I was fingering her. She didn't finish because if she had, it would've been messy, and the other people in the room would've found out what was going on under the covers. Anyway, this is my problem, I didn't jack off after that until two days later.... While masturbating, I realized that I couldn't get fully hard like I used to be able to. It also took me much longer to get to about 80% hard. ALSO, I couldn't keep it for very long.... I had to constantly be stroking it to keep it up. And finally, it took much more work to cum.

    I'm supposed to hang out with her tomorrow, and I have a feeling we'll get busy again, but I'm afraid I wont be able to get fully hard... And I'll lose it quickly if I am able to.

    So is this normal? Is it possible that because I've experienced the real thing, porn isn't as arousing? Is there anyway to fix this? Do I need to see a doctor... or will this just pass?
     
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    B_Hickboy New Member

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    How old are you? If this is your first experience, I take it you're young. Unless she damaged your penis the other day, I'm of the belief that it'll pass.
     
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    landogriffin New Member

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    Just turned 18 recently. I don't think she damaged my penis.... Would it hurt?
     
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    Did you ejaculate this latest time not in her presence?

    I can assure you, the "real thing" does not inhibit you from getting hard from porn.

    I'm sure when you're with your lady again, things will be rock hard.

    Enjoy & be safe.
     
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    landogriffin New Member

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    Sadly, I did not ejaculate. She got tired of pumping. Also, I hope so.

    Thanks for the responses guys.
     
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    Most likely the problem is now your used to someone else's touch on your penis. So what you used to enjoy is now not the same. I am sure all will be well next time.
     
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    landogriffin New Member

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    Does that mean that I'll never be rock hard by myself again?
     
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    B_Hickboy New Member

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    Yeah, it would hurt a lot. If you're dehydrated, depressed, overtired, frightened, or distracted it can cause trouble too.
     
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    You're 18, kiddo. You've got a whole lotta fucking and a whole lot of jerking off ahead. Just relax, and enjoy yourself. I have a feeling it's all in your head, and it'll pass. Give it time. I mean that. If you're not getting hard on a given day, wait a couple of days before stroking it or having sex; before you know it, your cock will feel like a brick! Even cocks need a break every now and then.
     
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    landogriffin New Member

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    haha! Thanks for the advice. I'm gonna take that to heart.
     
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