I have always liked guys younger than me. I rejected this for the first part of my life for obvious good reasons, and my tastes have matured as I have, but I still am attracted to younger guys. They bring an energy to my life, they help keep me connectd to the modern world and culture, keep me from slipping into the past, and give me a fresh perspective that comes from being in a different generation. Here is my take--if the attraction is natural, i'e., it has always been there, and you share comon interests outside the bedroom, can communicate well, are willing to learn from each other, and balance each other lives, and have a mutual honest physical attraction and can satisfy each other, pretty much all other factors don't mean anything. If on the other hand, you are looking to fill some psychological need that comes from YOUR issues, and it isn't a real attraction to that person, then some counseling may be in order; relationships based on personal issues and baggage usually are destructive to all involved, and cause more hurt than healing. Relationships based on honest attraction, common interests, and respect usually are healthy and last. Take a deep look inside, and think about your past and what led to your decisions, choices, and attractions. Decide is it is just your natural tastes, or did some event triggered it, and go from there. I wish you the best of luck!