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Ill start off by sayin that i have been a bit curious for a while but havent really made a step to goin further with it. But anyway, I catch myself kinda teasing gay men by lifting my shirt or make the outline of my crotch bolder and, biting my lip...well you get the picture. So is it wrong that i do that? I kno a str8 guy is the forbidden fruit but it intrigues me. I kno its a form of leading on but i guess i lik the attention guys give? Since it is diffrent than a girl. Idk? But id lik to hear what you guys think, please? lol
 

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It's the feeling of being desired, I think. I can definetely get into that.
I'm not into guys at all, but when someone is checking me out it doesn't matter who it is, it's the idea itself that counts. In my case it's probably just exhibitionism. Being seen turns me on, regardless of who sees me.

Also: a guy knows his stuff. Girls can be so bad at guessing your size... In my case, they usually give me more credit then I think I deserve. When a guy tells you you're big, better believe him. :)
 

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As long as you don't get bent out of shape if someone hits on you...ugh...I still find it irritating, but as long as ya don't get all "Dude, WTF?! I'm straight bro!" then whatever.

I don't mind eye candy. Just don't lead them on, by making them believe you'd have sex.
 
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Teasing and curious? Take the step and find out. Do not make such a big thing out of being normal, of being a human and being curious. There are a lot of humans out there that take the step to find out stuff about themselves and learn. Then again, there are a lot out there that do not take the step and judge others for taking that step.

In fantasy, not all is the same in life. But to learn while understanding is the secret to the beginning :)..
 
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Sounds relatively normal to me, wouldn't say that's necessarily an indication of you being gay at all anyway if that's what you're worried about. It's pretty normal for people to like attention and if you get it from gay men looking at you then sure. Not sure why people view liking attention as a negative trait sometimes these days.
 

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goin further with it. But anyway, I catch myself kinda teasing gay men by lifting my shirt or make the outline of my crotch bolder and, biting my lip.


I would be a little wary with that sort of approach
There are more subtle ways than this
Often get folk crying wolf' oh poor me, a Str / Gay boy whacked me... you bring it on yourself?
Not all Gays are slutty enuf to be charmed by blatant sexual behaviours
We are prone to misbehaviours ya know..
 

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As long as you don't get bent out of shape if someone hits on you...ugh...I still find it irritating, but as long as ya don't get all "Dude, WTF?! I'm straight bro!" then whatever.

I don't mind eye candy. Just don't lead them on, by making them believe you'd have sex.

Bang on, as usual.

There's nothing wrong with enjoying getting attention by being a bit provocative. There's something very wrong with being a dick about it if someone takes the bait (unless he's an even bigger dick about it).
 

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I get pissed if gay guys tease with no intention of hooking up. Same with straights/bis. But I've come to learn there are exhibitionists out there who don't really want a hookup, just attention, so I try not to take it personal. The worst case was a young man at the university pool showers who kept getting hard for me. After I finally got the nerve to approach him, he reluctantly agreed to spend a little time at my place, but then disappeared as I dried my hair.
 

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It wouldn't really bother me. But my experiences involve a lot of cocks I can't/couldn't hook up with, so I'm kinda used to not hooking up with every dick wagged in my face. I'd appreciate the little show for what it was :)