is wrong to say it's big?

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I LOVE when a girl tells me im big.

Its usually not always said since its kind of just an understood thing. But I still love hearing it. never gets old.
 

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I think in some cases size does matter (for the better) and women don't want to admit it to their bf by noting their size out loud. It is about power in a relationship.

Its about ownership Petite ;)
 

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I was visiting a friend overseas a few years ago and when my friend's wife and my gf were talking, my gf told her where me and my friend could hear, "he has the the best penis." I was embarrassed because it's never something that comes up in conversation with me. But I was also kind of impressed and turned on that my gf would be bold enough to say something like that and not think twice about it. Although she didn't say "biggest" so I don't know if that qualifies. But she has told me I was the biggest she's had and she's said stuff like, "your huge cock fills me up just fine" when I suggested a bigger dildo. That really got me excited. If women knew men, they would know you can never compliment him enough on the size of his wang. But don't spoil him, just bring out a hot comment every now and again. My gf seems to have this down to a science. Too bad we're are in a weird stage right now having much sex at all, but at least I have the memories.
 

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If women only knew how appreciation goes a long way. Do you reciprocate somehow?

Yes, actually I enjoy telling her on occasion how her pussy tastes like sugar (not always) and is the best feeling and snuggest ever. I think she likes it too. We fit well together and she likes to admire my penis, but I'd bet she wouldn't be upset if I was a bit smaller. Oral sex would be easier and probably done more often, and we could go longer without her getting sore.
 

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I could be wrong, but judging from the nature of the OP's situation, I'd say this has more to do with girls talking about their bf's size in front of other guys. Judging by the fact that most guys are only 5-6 inches on average, I'd imagine many women aren't comfortable admitting how much they enjoy it (if they do in fact enjoy it). We care a LOT more about size than women do.
 
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I like to hear about my size when woman are licking and stroking but have found that when i'm pressing inside them the only thing i hear is how it hurts. I'm not that big and I take it easy going in... but have found that 5-6" is really all most woman want of my dick - that last inch or so tends to cause a little wince on their faces.
 

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in a conversation i had this morning with a female friend of mine,she had sex for the first time with her new bf,i asked how it was since she bought up the subject.and she said "different" i asked how so.she got kinda quiet and then she blurted out somewhat embarassed"HE'S BIG! O.K REALLY BIG!"
i asked her why she acted like that,but she just said"no girl can tell a guy that he's big."
is that true?

I don't see why not.

Dirty Talking gets erects me almost instantly in all cases. I don't like "Pornesque" Dirty Talking, as like, "Do you want me to suck on your Big Cock?", I prefer more of a, "hopefully, she's telling the truth", as in, *penis is whipped out* *girl goes, "Oh My God, *giggles*".
 

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Did I misunderstand the question? I thought you were saying that she couldn't tell her bf that he was big. Did you mean that she didn't want tell you that her bf was big?

I don't tell anyone how large anyone else's penis is, regardless of it's size. I consider that to be personal and private information. I know this isn't how everyone else does it, but that's just me. I like the same discretion from the men whom I've slept with because I consider whatever they learn about me in bed to be just between the two of us. If I talk about a personal experience I have had, I am careful that I don't reveal anyone's identities. My intention if I talk about a personal experience isn't to expose or embarrass anyone.

I am open about the bf here because we've discussed it and it does not bother him. What I say here has been cleared with him.

I would agree with this. I think you misunderstood.
 

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Every girl I have been with has mentioned my size being big (and I'm by no means LPSG mega-big at 7.5x5.5 if I'm feeling generous) and all it has done is made me more confident with her, leading to better sex.

I see no issue, no reason to never say it, just don't over-do it.
 

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If a guy is big, I typically have no problem telling him. We could be in the middle of sex and I'll tell him or we could easily be just watching a movie.