Is your husband like mine?

[D_Ellerby Eatsprick]

I'm not married, but I presume past boyfirends count:wink:!
I have had one boyfriend who was similarly fixated. In his case it had nothing to do with race, just penis size. We spent almost a year together before he confided in me about insecurities, feelings of inadequacy, all related to size.
I was really surprised because he had really no reason to be anxious, he was comfortably average, but also because I could not understand how size could be relevant to desire, pleasure and intimacy. I was even more amazed when he told me that in his fantasies, he pictured himself seducing me and making love with me, endowed with an enormous penis. I had some trouble convincing him that a large penis what not something I found interesting in itself, and that lovemaking had nothing to do with it. He had no desire to see me with another guy, it was just fantasies in his case.

If a large penis was not something you find interesting in itself, why are you here...if you haven't notice that this is a LARGE penis support site...

 

[AudreyB]

I'm here for several reasons...
To practice my English, because I'm fascinated with people and psychology, because I like to read and talk about sex, especially when I'm not dating someone, as is the case now.
I'm interested in the human mind, not in anatomical bits however savoury they may be in certain contexts:smile:!

 

[hungryman40]

stationary cycling my dear friends

I MUCH prefer the ones where you have the big black dildo fixed to the seat and you are riding THAT.

 

[Chark]

Sorta? He likes the thought of me sucking a hot guys cock while he's(hubby) fucking me. Does that count?

 

[hinat88]

I actually know exactly what your husband is talking about. Every since my girlfriend admitted to me that when had sex with a well endowed man, (who I suppose was coincidentally black) it was like she was, "in a trance". She even mentioned that at one point she was in doggy style and she couldn't hold herself up with her arms anymore and ended up having to rest her head against the floor. Veeeery erotic.
I struggled with this a bit in the beginning. I'm average(6'') and realizing that there are basic physical constraints can be demasculating I feel.
Obviously she dumped the black guy though, (proof I suppose that penis size makes a difference but not the relationship) and now, for better of for worse I get this overwhelming desire to hear her succumb to that intense physical desire. For her to admit to wanting to be "filled up" as much as possible and to admit in the throes of lust how much more of a difference it makes, (with lots of moans as well).
Iiit's pretty kinky I won't deny.

 

[B_crackoff]

I guess my hubby is a little out there on the edge, but kinky sex after 26 years of marriage is kind of appealing to me, especially if it is pleasing to us sexually. Not every one can handle the jealousy issues that may arise, I wonder if he can{he can, its only lust not love involved} He says he would love to watch my face as I cum really hard with a huge young mans cock inside me. The more I talk about it the more turned on I get.

Does he get to do a young, lithe, big breasted woman too with you! Equality rules.

I think that this is where dildos & strap-ons come into play, to keep the relationship safe.

More to the point, he probably is a little bi - how would you feel if he was jerking & sucking the guy's cock?

There are sooo many issues, maybe you'd be opening up a whole repressed Pandora's box in him that you definitely wouldn't want.

All my threesomes (MFF, but I'd be cool with a MMF in equal measures) have really caused difficulties, & all were suggested by my partners.

Over the years I've realised how rare my ex-wife was in fantasizing about me screwing someone in front of her.

In my experience most women aren't voyeurs, they like to be the centre of attention (which is a little selfish, but another thread!).

 

[B_Hickboy]

He could just be thinking, "Anybody but me..."

 

[Zayne]

Are you petting an orca in your avatar?

 

[lgej]

I guess my hubby is a little out there on the edge, but kinky sex after 26 years of marriage is kind of appealing to me, especially if it is pleasing to us sexually. Not every one can handle the jealousy issues that may arise, I wonder if he can{he can, its only lust not love involved} He says he would love to watch my face as I cum really hard with a huge young mans cock inside me. The more I talk about it the more turned on I get.

But, you did marry him and have stayed with him for 26 years, so his little cock must have had some appeal. No? I'm more endowed than your husband, average length, more than average girth. Neither my wife nor I have been with anyone else (monogamous since we began dating in our teens). Her curiosity for large black cocks has been satisfied by dirty talk, porn movies featuring a lot of black anal and dp, and use of a big realistic black cock (8'X6"). Somehow she still prefers my relatively average penis. While the THOUGHT of having a black man in bed with us is something we talk about (only during the height of sex) is very exciting, we'd never cross that border. As a result we still have very wild, satisfying sex...now just beyond our 40th anniversary. Is this not possible for you or has your direct experience with large black cock "in the flesh" the driving dynamic? That's certainly an element my wife has never experienced. Maybe that makes our circumstance "easier" for her to be satisfied with. You certainly appear to be a very sexy, sexual and exciting woman. In any event, your husband is a lucky guy. Just don't jeopardize your long (loving?) relationship. Tread lightly and slowly.

 

[RedScrotum]

stationary cycling my dear friends

Keep up the good work!

 

[B_curiousme01]

Hell f-ing NO!

 

[Bicuri69]

I'm somewhat like your husband. I'm married and fantasize about a MMF threesome, where the male would be very well endowed. My wife is happy with my size. I'm average and any larger hurts her (we have large dildos.) She told me about a past relationship where the man was large and black, and this turns me on to no end. I love watching porn threesomes where there are huge men taking a tight woman. Don't know what it is that turns me on. I also love watching FFM porn.

 

[Tahoe420]

Not me... I don't share well with others...

 

[petite]

Just wondering if other wives have husbands like mine. He is constantly looking a huge cocks imagining that they are fucking me. This turns hims on to no end and would love to watch a young, very well endowed man make wild passionate love to me.
He always asks me to tell him about a black boyfriend I had that had a really long thick cock which I loved. I have to tell him how he would dance slow dances and I could feel his long thick cock snake down his leg pressing on my crotch.
Dont get me wrong, I love to remember and maybe someday he will get a young hung man to fuck me, and, I will probably love the feeling a huge cock inside me once again.

Wow, that's hot. I just got turned on by your question.

Well, if we're sharing...

My boyfriend and I have also discussed this. I had a threesome once with two of my ex-boyfriends that I was hanging out with all the time. One of them was bi-sexual, not the other one. It was the best sexual experience of my life. Seriously. I think about it all the time and I wish I had been wilder when I was younger and intentionally sought these experiences out. It was that good.

My boyfriend actually discussed doing this with me and one of his friends, who happens to be bisexual and wants a chance for a roll with my boyfriend has offered to be the third in a threesome, but unfortunately he just got married two months ago. At their wedding, his bride saw my boyfriend and her brand new husband dancing and she came over to me and whispered, "That's the hottest thing I've seen all day." Which completely shocked me! So I think he not only told her about the threesome idea that I thought was totally dead because of the marriage and everything, I think she's interested in one with both these hot boys, too! I must be a lot more possessive than my boyfriend because I'm fine with sharing him for a night with his bisexual friend, but I'm not cool with another woman having sex with him. Not at all. Boyfriend is straight, so his male friend is not a real threat to me or my relationship. His friend's tall hot wife? Now that's a totally different story!

 

[VeryHung]

I never imagine other cocks doing my fucking.