Is your libido getting weaker or stronger as you age?

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At 40 I have no complaints about my sex drive, but it certainly isn't like it was when I was 26... which certainly wasn't what it was like when I was 16.

I do have a couple of libidinous talents now that I didn't when I was younger, though. I sometimes have double orgasms, one right after another; I started a thread about this (alas, the double-orgasm thing seems to have been a phase that lasted many months but might be over now). And, after I cum I often don't lose my erection; I can just keep on going if I want to. How cool would it have been to have been able to do that all along?! I'm just glad that I can do it now.
 
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55 here. horny as ever. wife and i bang most every day. stress / worries are the only exceptions. i too take cialis. that shit is magic
 

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57 and it is going well.
Maybe the fact that my current gf is 36 has something to do with that.
Although I have always been a horny guy only now I am an older horny goat.
I thank my lucky stars as my peer group sounds like there are lots of issues.
Thankfully as well I do not need chemical assistance.
 
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My sex drive is strong as ever but I want to do it with one person now, not lots of people
 

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early 50's... hardly slowed down at all. Actually more active, because I chose that.
cock slowing down a bit, don't shoot like when I was a pup, but still feels great.
I'll nibble very small amounts of a Cialis sometimes... makes my cock 20 years younger, adds
a lot of fuel to the fire. So that's pretty cool.
I think ya gotta keep using the thing, or it forgets :)
 
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No discernible change for me, but then I'm only 26. I have more "control" now than I used to - for example, non-sexual stimulation, like the vibrations from being in a bus - aren't so likely to result in me getting hard now, but that's not really libido as such.

In short, the need for sex and for the release can still be overwhelming.
 
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Libido has become wiser, put to better use than when it once was. Hopefully.
 

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I'm only 33 and have high libido, but I can't say I'm as horny as I was when I was 19. But who is? I'm impressed with guys who say theirs have increased. I can't even imagine.

As others have said, I do have better control win is nice. Premature ejaculation happened more than once as a teenager. (Of course, I was rock hard again in minutes, so that sort of made up for it.)
 
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I have had a strong sex drive Libido since a very early age . I had problems with premature ejaculation as a young man ,
would cum involuntarily while petting or masturbating a girlfriend . I was at my best in my 50s not realising I was losing some sensibility .
After cumming the first time , I soon regained an erection that would last and last . I could go on fucking for up to 3hrs , while my then girlfriend orgasmed many time before my cumming again . I am now 78yrs and still have the desire for sex , but maintaining an erection is an awful frustration . I have a beautiful wife 55yrs , who had an early menopause and has lost interest in sex , though we do have regular penetrative sex once a week . My wife has developed hangups about health and hygiene , so she won't french kiss anymore , no fingers in her hole and only rarely can I persuade her to let me go down on her or 69 ; which as an older man I could do with pleasure all the time .
 

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I have had a strong sex drive Libido since a very early age . I had problems with premature ejaculation as a young man ,
would cum involuntarily while petting or masturbating a girlfriend . I was at my best in my 50s not realising I was losing some sensibility .
After cumming the first time , I soon regained an erection that would last and last . I could go on fucking for up to 3hrs , while my then girlfriend orgasmed many time before my cumming again . I am now 78yrs and still have the desire for sex , but maintaining an erection is an awful frustration . I have a beautiful wife 55yrs , who had an early menopause and has lost interest in sex , though we do have regular penetrative sex once a week . My wife has developed hangups about health and hygiene , so she won't french kiss anymore , no fingers in her hole and only rarely can I persuade her to let me go down on her or 69 ; which as an older man I could do with pleasure all the time .
I am right behind you hoping I can eat pussy right on up until I can't bend over anymore. I hope I'll be able to fuck my wifes pussy as long as I live because that makes a man feel like a man. His cock is his pride and joy! I hope we're able to 69 and do anything thing else we feel like doing. Fucking is one of Gods greatest gifts to mankind! He could have made the sex act with no feeling at all. Just a feeling less act with no feeling. That tells me He mean for sex to be enjoyed and meant for us to enjoy the release it gives us all. We all also know that being able to fuck your wife helps keep the bond alive that keeps a couple together,
 

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As measured by the amount of masturbation I do, my libido is way down.
As measured by the amount of sex I have with other people, my libido is in overdrive - stronger than ever.

I spent too much of my life resisting my libido. Now it seems I am making up for lost time. I fuck and fuck and fuck, trying to claim the experiences that most guys had in their teens and 20s. There may also be some midlife crisis desperation motivating my explorations. It can be a wild ride at times, but I can't say that I regret it. I'm filling needs that have existed my entire life.
 
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I am right behind you hoping I can eat pussy right on up until I can't bend over anymore. I hope I'll be able to fuck my wifes pussy as long as I live because that makes a man feel like a man. His cock is his pride and joy! I hope we're able to 69 and do anything thing else we feel like doing. Fucking is one of Gods greatest gifts to mankind! He could have made the sex act with no feeling at all. Just a feeling less act with no feeling. That tells me He mean for sex to be enjoyed and meant for us to enjoy the release it gives us all. We all also know that being able to fuck your wife helps keep the bond alive that keeps a couple together,
As measured by the amount of masturbation I do, my libido is way down.
As measured by the amount of sex I have with other people, my libido is in overdrive - stronger than ever.

I spent too much of my life resisting my libido. Now it seems I am making up for lost time. I fuck and fuck and fuck, trying to claim the experiences that most guys had in their teens and 20s. There may also be some midlife crisis desperation motivating my explorations. It can be a wild ride at times, but I can't say that I regret it. I'm filling needs that have existed my entire life.


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I think I can relate. Fuck is my favorite word. Maybe pussy and cock 2nd & 3rd.
 

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51, and absoulutely no change to my libido, actually a little stronger that when I was 18. All natural (no pills), rock hard erections, strong ejactulation, and just as sensative as ever. I average cumming at least twice a day, usually in the morning with a quickie jack and later at night through sex or lengthy edging sessions. My cock and I are still best friends!!
 

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55 and as strong, if not stronger, than ever.....I think with age (and hopefully some success) you create more opportunities for yourself also. I think about sex all the time, watch porn like my plane is going down, and try to find a conquest when I can. I'm discreet and don't let my desire get in the way of life...we all have a job to do...but it is ever present.
 
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Probably as I have become older, I find kinkier, more intimate things excite the libido, it can be just a kiss as well. Other than that, it's still the 'same as it ever was' :)...