Is your own dick your visual standard of size?

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well i can say i have ever "obsessed", about the issue but i have thought about it to be honest... for example being by being a bodybuilder myself,,, at 5ft 9 218ish lbs. i quite larger and look much different that the avg. guy out there... this being a given,,, i still feel "small", like 170lbs, its insane but i feel this way despited being called names like "the big guy, the JUICED DUDE, bluto, and many others"... at almost 7.5 by 6.3" i know by my measurements im deff above avg. and compared to avg. porn i can hold my own... still yet i guess from a "POV", perspective i still like many men have some insecurities about my phalus size, even though every single woman i have been with have said i have been the largest length "but 2", and all saying i have been the largest girth they have been with... i guess its just some sort of wierd mental vexation, who knows...
 

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I am curious about how men who are hung perceive the size of other men's penises. My question is: Are your impressions of the size of other men's penises determined by an implicit comparison with your own? In other words, do other guys look "big," "small," or "medium" in size to you according to whether their dicks are bigger than, smaller than, or comparable in size to your own?


Great thread, Calboner, but I'm amazed at the consistency in the responses you've received so far with most guys comparing to themselves. I must be weird, but I tend to judge a cock's size as compared to average. Having seen a great many cocks and balls over the years (and being a devoted connoisseur of same) whenever I see a cock just slightly smaller than my own (say 7" length and 5-1/2" girth) my immediate thought is "Wow, that guy is hung!"

My first recollection of this phenomena goes back to my teenage years when I went through a growth spurt and wound up at my max height of 6' 6" while still in high school. I'd be walking down the street with someone a few inches shorter than I approaching and I'd think to myself "Wow, that's a tall person" even though they were less tall than I. It's like you say, perspective, and my view of the world is to me just like everyone else's view ... i.e. based on the norm, rather than a comparison to myself.

Getting back to cock size, as opposed to height, I've had several regular suck buddies over the years that hung better than average and whenever one of their cocks is staring my in the face I'm impressed with its size. But when we put our two cocks together (as in the attached photos) I'm always amazed at how much larger mine is. On the few occasions that I've had my own cock up against one that was larger I have been equally amazed at how small my own appears.

Again, it's all a matter of perspective .... but it's all a lot of fun in the process as well!
 

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Having seen a great many cocks and balls over the years (and being a devoted connoisseur of same) whenever I see a cock just slightly smaller than my own (say 7" length and 5-1/2" girth) my immediate thought is "Wow, that guy is hung!"
That is an interesting point -- though I suppose it is not very surprising once you think about it: if a guy has looked at a lot of dicks besides his own, from an impressionable age, then he will visually estimate penis size according to what he has seen rather than in comparison with his own piece. The egocentricity that I and a lot of others report is probably due either to our not having been cock-watchers in young manhood or to our not having had a lot of opportunities for observation!