well i can say i have ever "obsessed", about the issue but i have thought about it to be honest... for example being by being a bodybuilder myself,,, at 5ft 9 218ish lbs. i quite larger and look much different that the avg. guy out there... this being a given,,, i still feel "small", like 170lbs, its insane but i feel this way despited being called names like "the big guy, the JUICED DUDE, bluto, and many others"... at almost 7.5 by 6.3" i know by my measurements im deff above avg. and compared to avg. porn i can hold my own... still yet i guess from a "POV", perspective i still like many men have some insecurities about my phalus size, even though every single woman i have been with have said i have been the largest length "but 2", and all saying i have been the largest girth they have been with... i guess its just some sort of wierd mental vexation, who knows...