I have a really hard time looking my husband in the eyes when we are having sex. He has a really hard time doing it too. The autistic issues we have makes looking into the eyes of another person when you are intensely serious like that very uncomfortable. We've been together for 12 years and i looked him in the eye while i was orgasming about a month ago for the very first time. It felt weird and i'm making myself do it more and more because it was interesting to see the look on his face. But i can only imagine that in porn you probably are so focused on looking right on camera that you don't even want to look into the eyes of someone you don't care about. I know i wouldnt.