To Lord Pendragon: Britain displayed valor, but the facts are that the world was not interested in stopping the genocide of a foriegn population. Of course, i don't blame them, that sort of altruism is practically unheard of.
Now to the matter at hand:
If you want to understand who is causing these problems you have to understand the structure of incentives in the region.
Continued violence is the greatest threat to Israel's survival. Considering the continuation of the state is pretty much Israel's only goal, their interests lie in amelioration.
The Palestinian's are living in a false consciousness based around the impossible dream of the recapturing of their land. I'd say they have a pretty big motivation to destabilize things (though the goal is a chimera).
Anyone who thinks the Israelis are trying to wipe out the Palestinians needs to smoke more crack, even their most violent actions in terms of civilian palestinian death while quite bad, never reach the level of brutality with which the other Arab nations treat them. On the other hand Israel has stopped mulitiple campaignes BECAUSE of excess civilian casualities on the Palestinian side. All the while, Jordan routinely massacred palestinian civilians in the 60's 70's and 80's.
In my view, the Palestinians are a people plagued by demagogues who feed them all sorts of bullshit about the nobility of living in a perpetual resistance, -of fighting an unwinnable war- or that they might actually beat Israel. Unfortunately, these views, though attractive, are dangerous to Israelis and Palestinians alike. The sad fact is that there is no innate consequence that one suffers from toying with radicalism -if you think about it. The incentive has to come from Israeli consequences.
Another issue: the average palestinian iq is hovering around the 90's, the Israeli IQ is significantly higher (conservative estimates range from 110-115), the number is probably higher for just the ashkenazis as the average is lowered somewhat by the Arab and Sephardic populations. If the Palestinians accepted peace, they would likely become a permanent underclass, comparable to the black population here. Affirmative action could only disguise this painful fact to a minimal degree; a proud people would be forced to play second fiddle in the economy. I suspect this has a fairly significant role in Palestinian reluctance to de-radicalize, they
would prefer to blame their culture's failure to functionally adapt to modern realities and their economic woes on Israeli aggression rather than innate incompetence.
All of the internal disfunctionality of the Arab world is made extremely salient by the utter success and sanity with which Israeli internal affairs are conducted, you can complain about their foreign policy but they manage their society far better than the Arabs manage theirs. They can't blame westerners for their problems forever when the reality is that it goes the other way around, the west foolishly involves itself and gets mired in the absurdities of the middle east and then it appears as if we started their problems when we really just got stuck in those which already existed and they manage to blame us.
oh and to those western supporters of palestinians, I see no reason why you should not be allowed to keep poison in your closets, but you must refrain from passing it about in cordials. Your views are of no harm to anyone in our society, but if western support should inspire just one palestinian to radicalize, his blood is on your hands.