This is something that's driving me crazy, and I don't even know why...maybe you guys (or girls) could give me some insight? Please help!! I'll try to keep this short... I'm a 30-year-old Canadian guy (hence the nicname) and I met this 32-year old European girl at work a couple months ago. We started having coffee, lunches, etc. And it wasn't long before we started taking about relationships and sex. Things were going well... So one day she brought up (I don't remember how) that several years ago, she saw her friend Robert's penis while drinking at a party - and it was 'enormous'. She said it was so unbelievably thick and long that there was no way she could ever have sex with him, so she declined his invitation. A couple weeks later, we start having sex. it's fantastic, and she says that I'm 'very big' and give her incredible orgasms. Which of course makes me feel great, because hey, I'm a guy and it's all about the ego-stroke for us. Over the following 8 weeks or so we continue to have great conversations - and sex - and every time the issue of size comes up (whether it's as a joke, while we're watching porn, etc.) she would joke that Robert's was SO massive, and bigger than any porn star she'd ever seen. This didn't bother me, and for whatever reason we would both laugh about it. So anyway, last week we're lying in bed after a great session, and we start to casually talk about our past lovers. Size comes up, and I ask who was the 'biggest' she'd ever had, and she said "OK, fine - I never told you this before, but I slept with Robert a couple years ago". She said that she didn't want to intimidate me, so she lied before. And then proceeded to explain that it was not enjoyable, but very painful with Robert - and that she was crying because it hurt so badly. NOW, for whatever reason, I can't stop thinking about this guy with the ENORMOUS cock that she had sex with. Even though mine is pretty large (almost 9"), I still have this feeling that she'll always be thinking about this gargantuan dick that nearly tore her in half. Why even bring this up at all if it wasn't enjoyable for her? She obviously thinks about it all the time since it was 5 years ago?! And why the lies? We weren't even having sex at the time when she first brought it up, so what was all the secrecy about? I don't know...for the first time in my life I'm starting to feel inadequate with a woman. I can handle the fact that maybe an ex had 1" or even 2" on me - but I'm freaked out by the fact that this guy who is hung like an elephant banged my girlfriend, and literally half a decade later she's still talking about it like it was the defining moment of her life (yet denying she enjoyed it). GOOD LORD...please someone help. Anyone. Please. Thank you in advance.