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horribleperson said:she wants to have a 3some and watch him fuck you in the ass
allmale said:CanadaDude30,
This situation would bother me too if I were in your shoes. It seems to me that she was less than honest with you to begin with. First she said that she could never have sex with him because it would hurt and then admitted later on that she DID do the nasty with him. She misled you.
I'd be thinking, well what does she really think about me? I think there is more going on here than just the sex between you two. Just my thoughts.![]()
Lordpendragon said:Europeans can be considerably more candid than North Americans.
You're having fantastic sex, you have a big cock. She may just think that having got to know you and to enjoy great sex with you, that you shouldn't have a problem that she once encountered a monster that was too big for her.
Why can't women be mesmerised by enormous cocks?
CanadaDude30 said:So one day she brought up that several years ago, she saw her friend Robert's penis while drinking at a party - and it was 'enormous'. She said it was so unbelievably thick and long that she declined his invitation....she said "OK, fine - I never told you this before, but I slept with Robert a couple years ago". She said that she didn't want to intimidate me, so she lied before. And then proceeded to explain that it was not enjoyable, but very painful with Robert....Why even bring this up at all if it wasn't enjoyable for her? She obviously thinks about it all the time since it was 5 years ago?! And why the lies? We weren't even having sex at the time when she first brought it up, so what was all the secrecy about? ...this guy who is hung like an elephant banged my girlfriend, and literally half a decade later she's still talking about it like it was the defining moment of her life (yet denying she enjoyed it).
OmahaBeef said:Many women are simply full of shit, for the sole purpose of establishing some sort of control or power in the relationship that they percieve that they lack in the first place. In simple terms: head games.
...She knows that you will ALWAYS chase the idea of bettering this mystery-man with the monster cock that may (but probably has not) has existed. And the more you chase that carrot...the more you try to do better and better...the more you will please her. Further, by taking you down a notch, she understands that this will weaken your ability to take pride in yourself and she can control your ego and emotions with a simple tug on those puppet strings. ......OB
I wouldn't belive her if she "elighted in smashing your ego".Standard Deviant said:This may be a correct analysis, but it's also possible she just REALLY loves you, but also REALLY loves Robert's cock, and is so confused by the conflict that she can't resolve it and actually thinks that by lying she will spare your feelings. Only she also hates to think she is a liar so she's starting to break down, dribbling out one admission at a time, like I said in my previous post.
In fact, the cynical view given by OB perfectly describes the last serious gf I had before my wife, who delighted in smashing my ego by telling me about a huge dicked partner she had after she dumped me for someone bigger. (The huge dicked guy came after the one who was just somewhat bigger.) She travelled halfway across the country to lay it on me in person. A real cunt.
But the other view, which I've given you, describes my wife, who truly didn't want to hurt me or control me, but just had a fucked upbringing when it came to understanding the importance of being honest.
Different women have different mindsets, reasoning, etc.
Well its ego I bet the "best sex" you had with the aveage guys was becasuse he belived he was the biggest,eh?stud_hunter said:Forget about it. The other guy's cock size doesn't matter. It's amazing how many guys worry and fret about their woman having had some bigger guy. Who cares? Worrying about that shows a lot of insecurity, and it's silly. Not to mention unattractive.
I generally prefer large ones but probably the best sex I've ever had was with a guy who is about average. He actually made me cum so mercilessly that on a couple of occasions I cried from it. So my point is sure, being on the large size can be an advantage but being insecure about your cock size is a turn-off and pointless, and I know among the women I'm not alone in this.
Well she done the relationship a lot of harm, Ask her what does she plan to do, if you don't like the answer, slip out the back jack, make a new plan stan .....CanadaDude30 said:<b>
I'm a 30-year-old Canadian guy (hence the nicname) and I met this 32-year old European girl at work a couple months ago. We started having coffee, lunches, etc. And it wasn't long before we started taking about relationships and sex. it's fantastic, and she says that I'm 'very big' and give her incredible orgasms. Which of course makes me feel great, because hey, I'm a guy and it's all about the ego-stroke for us.
Over the following 8 weeks or so we continue to have great conversations - and sex - and every time the issue of size comes up (whether it's as a joke, while we're watching porn, etc.) she would joke that Robert's was SO massive, and bigger than any porn star she'd ever seen. This didn't bother me, and for whatever reason we would both laugh about it.
So anyway, last week we're lying in bed after a great session, and we start to casually talk about our past lovers. Size comes up, and I ask who was the 'biggest' she'd ever had, and she said "OK, fine - I never told you this before, but I slept with Robert a couple years ago". She said that she didn't want to intimidate me, so she lied before. And then proceeded to explain that it was not enjoyable, but very painful with Robert - and that she was crying because it hurt so badly.
NOW, for whatever reason, I can't stop thinking about this guy with the ENORMOUS cock that she had sex with. Even though mine is pretty large (almost 9", I still have this feeling that she'll always be thinking about this gargantuan dick that nearly tore her in half.
1) Don't worry about it. First you're Canadian (unless your from Quebec then your canadien) assumeing Robert is European you're got nothing to worry about. 2) Larger guys are rare, so if she's sleep with someone bigger, just figure she slept with too many people _ this may backfire I had girl friend who said big dicks where her thing she acutally ask me to show it to her bcause she belived that only very dark skinned people could "satisfy" her. So I got on to go home not willing to show (I'm a grower). But she called be back and we "did it", A litte later she called me (I was out of the country) to say she breaking up, she's meant a Marine an Black marines were great in bed. I since i was on travel she not just going to sit around. Later she told me he was very big and I said you should be happy and have a nice life. She said later told me he was small and fast and she had just said it all becasue she wanted me to be much more agressive.
Why even bring this up at all if it wasn't enjoyable for her? She obviously thinks about it all the time since it was 5 years ago?! And why the lies? We weren't even having sex at the time when she first brought it up, so what was all the secrecy about?
I don't know...for the first time in my life I'm starting to feel inadequate with a woman. I can handle the fact that maybe an ex had 1" or even 2" on me - but I'm freaked out by the fact that this guy who is hung like an elephant banged my girlfriend, and literally half a decade later she's still talking about it like it was the defining moment of her life (yet denying she enjoyed it).
GOOD LORD...please someone help. Anyone.
Please.
Thank you in advance.
Desmond_decker said:Well its ego I bet the "best sex" you had with the aveage guys was becasuse he belived he was the biggest,eh?