Issues with approaching young women
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It's amusing because someone revived this year and a half old thread of mine and the current discussion has virtually nothing to do with the original post.
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Damn near every thread @sangheili90 makes gets locked. I predict that happening soon. His posts always produce a shit storm of man rage.
Imagine if the captain of the Titanic kept insisting that the ship wasn't sinking the whole way down
That's where this thread's at rn
That's where this thread's at rn
Not true. There is one female poster that myself and at least one other woman on this site are fed up with, because of all the stuff they post (which has a surprising amount of similarities to stuff you post as far as stupid generalizations).
There are several other women I've seriously disliked for a variety of reasons on this site over the years. Promoting/encouraging taking advantage of someone who was intoxicated was why I intensely dislike one. The handful of others I'm not fond of encourage stupid stereotypes/generalizations about women.
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I've gotten onto several females on this site for bizarre and unfair attitudes toward men. There's far less females to get onto for anything around here. We are such a miniscule population here at lpsg.
Say I got into an argument with 5% of females here. I've gotten nowhere near getting into an argument with, say, 5% of males on lpsg. I'd have to be on here 24/7 for 38 years to get to that percentage based on male to female ratio.
Say I got into an argument with 5% of females here. I've gotten nowhere near getting into an argument with, say, 5% of males on lpsg. I'd have to be on here 24/7 for 38 years to get to that percentage based on male to female ratio.
All i can say, is you have an extremely unhealthy outlook of women. And that is a shame, because you are basing your opinion of us all on a very few bad experiences you've had.
There we go again. It's female rage in this thread and not man rage. This is exactly what I mentioned before; no sense of reality.
#delusional
Sure it does. It continues the theme common to all of your threads. Dude is a massive failure at cultivating a long-term relationship well into his twenties, yet continues to think that rephrasing the same dumbass attitude is both "learning" and "working".
No, being nice to women isn't a sign of weakness... ever. But there's a big assumption here- that the niceness is genuine. IF (not saying you are) you are "being nice" as a means to get what you want (sex, arm candy, validation), many women can smell that BS a mile away and will gladly take your attention and material things as a quid pro quo. If you're genuinely being nice, a quality woman will never take advantage of it.
And re: spreading legs very early on... this can be really tough thing to balance for a woman. Some guys have the expectation that you'll give it up by the 3rd date (if not sooner) and if not, you're a prude and they move on. Some sex-positive women want to know if you're compatible between the sheets before investing to much emotion, and if she does it "too soon" by society's standards, she's a whore. I've been on both sides of this issue... and it's beyond frustrating. But I also suppose it's validation that I wasn't in the right relationship... and it sounds like you haven't been either.
Asking women how to pick up / treat women is like asking a fat person how to loose weight. It doesn't work that way.
You don't even know why you fall for a man. You just do. It's biological and that's the end of it.
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I'm basing my opinion on not only my first hand experiences but on general observations I have made on young women of my generation, "millennials". I don't think ALL women are like this, but being aware of general trends and the overall outlook these young women have is not incorrect.
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The overall trend on this forum is that women can do no wrong and that everything is the man's fault.
No, the "trend" is that what you are doing is wrong, that your refusal to accept solid advice is your fault, and that the proof is that you're pushing thirty with no LTR's. Nobody is always wrong or always right.
Explain what he's doing wrong. After that explain the solid advice.
Now it's obvious you need some education on the subject, so I'll be happy to do so - free of charge.
The value of a man goes up with age whilst the value of women decline with age.
So technically the most clever thing a man can do is stay single until he's 30-35 and has built enough value to attract the best female, ideally a female in the age of 18-22.
Guys, just don't act desperate. If she's doesn't seem keen on you then leave her be. She's not for you. Internet dating is a waste of time if you're a guy. Don't do it. Ever. Grow some balls and get out there. I know it's hard, but never look at women as sex objects only. A sure fire way to not get any action. Ladies have a keen sense of clocking bullshit so don't even try. Be your self.
You think that because you only read what You Want to in order to validate your opinions. You don't want to see the women being told what we do/say is wrong, so you don't. You just want the echo chamber.
I know my posts are being ignored anyway so fuck it.
You don't respond to genuine help, you just want validation. Whatever.
There we go again. It's female rage in this thread and not man rage. This is exactly what I mentioned before; no sense of reality.
#delusional
It was not a woman in the other thread that I saw (which was locked) who dug up information on the OP and posted it, including photos. It was a man. Yep, no sense of reality.
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You may be right... my most recent partner is NOT my type for a bunch of reasons (he's a slightly pudgy ginger who isn't super tall, isn't particularly blessed, isn't where I typically date $ wise, has a beard, is balding, etc.), but he has got something that TOTALLY works. Charisma, confidence, "game"... whatever you want to call it. It sends my lady parts into a tizzy. That said- he's not someone I'd want permanently. And that's ok for both of us- for now.
BUT my comment was not referring to how to pick up a woman... I'm referring to how to treat a woman (although I'd say it's how to treat people in general... is to be nice & genuine). How to get a woman and how to keep a woman are very different. From skimming the older posts, the OP seems to want a LTR... I was commenting that being nice/genuine is always the right choice in my book. Granted, I'm not some basic bitch who's looking for dinners or material things until something better comes along. If you want a quality girlfriend, you gotta be a quality boyfriend. Looks and money only keeps our attention for so long.
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