It’s Annoying That Black Men Are Only Considered Tops

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I’ve noticed that race plays a part in what sexual position you’re forced to be in. Asians are always bottoms, blacks always tops, whites get to choose what they want to be.

I’ve noticed this in porn too. You will never see an Asian man top a black man. But you’ll find tons of videos of black men topping Asians. Races are always categorized into stereotypes.

I know for a fact that so many black men are racially sexualized to having a “bbc” “dominant alpha male” “thugs”. And when you’re messaged on many of these apps by other non black people they will assume you’re these things in the bedroom. But if you’re none of that, and you’re a bottom they become enraged or disappointed they are not getting their “jungle fantasy”.

Like how many of those bottom white men message you expecting you to be some bbc top
 

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I’ve noticed that race plays a part in what sexual position you’re forced to be in. Asians are always bottoms, blacks always tops, whites get to choose what they want to be.

I’ve noticed this in porn too. You will never see an Asian man top a black man. But you’ll find tons of videos of black men topping Asians. Races are always categorized into stereotypes.

I know for a fact that so many black men are racially sexualized to having a “bbc” “dominant alpha male” “thugs”. And when you’re messaged on many of these apps by other non black people they will assume you’re these things in the bedroom. But if you’re none of that, and you’re a bottom they become enraged or disappointed they are not getting their “jungle fantasy”.

Like how many of those bottom white men message you expecting you to be some bbc top
I think all of these assumptions based upon race are asinine. Personally, I've never associated race with sexual roles.
 

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Are your perspectives coming predominantly from porn? If it is, you have to remember that it is a business. And what is produced is based on what will sell. If bears sitting in a circle, eating twinkies, with raging hard ons, while surrounded by K9s chewing on bones was the current cash cow; you'd see an over abundance of that on the porn sites.
 

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I've known many black bottoms.... or versatiles.
That’s not what I’m getting at. They are many. I’m saying that many times non-blacks assume or insist that you’re their bbc alpha dominate top because you’re black. Even if you’re versatile they want you to be that top.
 

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Are your perspectives coming predominantly from porn? If it is, you have to remember that it is a business. And what is produced is based on what will sell. If bears sitting in a circle, eating twinkies, with raging hard ons, while surrounded by K9s chewing on bones was the current cash cow; you'd see an over abundance of that on the porn sites.

its not. It’s based on real life. However, porn has a massive influence on how people view sex, and sex roles. And real life stereotypes are enforced in porn.

The main issue I have with porn. Even though it’s fantasy. Is constantly labeling black men thugs, or putting them in racial stereotypes. But why do whites get the freedom to play every role? The whole gang bang business where you have ten black men to some white person is one of the most blatant racial tropes I’ve ever seen.
 

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I’ve noticed that race plays a part in what sexual position you’re forced to be in. Asians are always bottoms, blacks always tops, whites get to choose what they want to be.

I’ve noticed this in porn too. You will never see an Asian man top a black man. But you’ll find tons of videos of black men topping Asians. Races are always categorized into stereotypes.

I know for a fact that so many black men are racially sexualized to having a “bbc” “dominant alpha male” “thugs”. And when you’re messaged on many of these apps by other non black people they will assume you’re these things in the bedroom. But if you’re none of that, and you’re a bottom they become enraged or disappointed they are not getting their “jungle fantasy”.

Like how many of those bottom white men message you expecting you to be some bbc top

You’re hanging out in the wrong places...
 
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I’ve noticed that race plays a part in what sexual position you’re forced to be in. Asians are always bottoms, blacks always tops, whites get to choose what they want to be.

I read your other posts, and thought I would give my 2c worth.

You aren't here for a discussion. At least, you aren't here to listen. Your posts are hyper generalized, racialized, and all about the perception of white privilege bleeding into the sex arena.

You are racist against Caucasians.

So, for that alone, I have to dismiss this mockery of discussion. This isn't a 2-way thread. This is you on your soapbox, pulling your racial stereotypes out of your ass and flailing them around, playing the victim, and shitting on white people. In a nutshell, that is. Paraphrasing can be your friend in times like this.

See, your position is based on whatever racial assumptions are floating around in your head. None of it is based on reality. I'm sorry that wherever you are in life, your perception has become so tainted and angry. You should take a hard look at what you are saying, and the message you are conveying. It is, simply, irrational.
 

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Yikes!

What Toocool99 said is something that I have experienced too. I am a tall black guy and I have had white guys come up to me at parties and bars and say they want my big black cock in their ass. I walk away. I have had drunk white women at gay bars say some very ignorant things about wanting to get plowed by my big black cock. I walk away.

I choose to walk away from these ignorant people.
 

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I’ve noticed that race plays a part in what sexual position you’re forced to be in. Asians are always bottoms, blacks always tops, whites get to choose what they want to be.

I’ve noticed this in porn too. You will never see an Asian man top a black man. But you’ll find tons of videos of black men topping Asians. Races are always categorized into stereotypes.

I know for a fact that so many black men are racially sexualized to having a “bbc” “dominant alpha male” “thugs”. And when you’re messaged on many of these apps by other non black people they will assume you’re these things in the bedroom. But if you’re none of that, and you’re a bottom they become enraged or disappointed they are not getting their “jungle fantasy”.

Like how many of those bottom white men message you expecting you to be some bbc top
Since when...?
 
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Yikes!

What Toocool99 said is something that I have experienced too. I am a tall black guy and I have had white guys come up to me at parties and bars and say they want my big black cock in their ass. I walk away. I have had drunk white women at gay bars say some very ignorant things about wanting to get plowed by my big black cock. I walk away.

I choose to walk away from these ignorant people.
Thank you. It’s like some people in here are choosing to ignore the race aspect of all of this.
 

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I’ve noticed that race plays a part in what sexual position you’re forced to be in. Asians are always bottoms, blacks always tops, whites get to choose what they want to be.

I’ve noticed this in porn too. You will never see an Asian man top a black man. But you’ll find tons of videos of black men topping Asians. Races are always categorized into stereotypes.

I know for a fact that so many black men are racially sexualized to having a “bbc” “dominant alpha male” “thugs”. And when you’re messaged on many of these apps by other non black people they will assume you’re these things in the bedroom. But if you’re none of that, and you’re a bottom they become enraged or disappointed they are not getting their “jungle fantasy”.

Like how many of those bottom white men message you expecting you to be some bbc top

I do understand the the frustration about this, but I’ve always found the most productive way to break stereotypes in society is not by ignoring or dismissing narrow minded views, but rather provide an more accurate vision of reality (on the days you have the energy for it) by simply reminding them that stereotypes are NOT an apt description of humankind in ALL instances. Although it is very common topic, it is very stereotypical to assume most white men share the fetish for black monster dick dominating them, as it it very stereotypical to assume most black men are dominant.

each race has those who fit into a certain concept, whether it’s having a real huge dick or being a big slut, it’s not restricted to a certain race... we are allowed one preference over another, but that’s all it is, preference should not equal obsessiveness.
 

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I would say its mainly a porn stuff that has slowly leaked and built stereotypes. Plus, it probably stems from the "Blacks have big cocks, and Asians small ones" which then goes on to make the big guys always tops and the asians bottoms. Leaving white guys in a strange in between.