It... didnt fit?

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  1. Gecko4lif

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    Today I think I might have encountered a phenomenon I had passed off as "fish tales" of penis websites. I managed to seal the deal with a female I have been putting an exorbitant amount of time into so I particularly excited.

    Anyway after about 20 minutes of foreplay I slipped a condom on in anticipation for the main event but when I attempted to insert something felt... wrong. Im not sure exactly how to describe it but It felt kinda like I was trying to turn a small traffic cone inside out with my penis. I could barely insert more than the head in because of the pressure despite having quite a healthy erection.

    I am thoroughly baffled by this. I have never had any trouble like this up until this point.

    What exactly happened?
     
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    lube, dude... lube.
     
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    I agree, Astroglide. I've experienced the same thing. Lube made the biggest difference. Is she a virgin?
     
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    well i'm not real thick just avg i would guess i'm more long but my older brother is way thicker then myself and he told me lol with out lube there a lot of ladies he couldn't get in
     
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    I agree with others that lube would help. However, did she seem "uncomfortable" when you were trying to penetrate? And (just to be sure) was she wet?

    And finally, did you ask her if this ever happened to her before? I'm just trying to gather more info.

    Simba
     
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    Did she say ouch? What was her reaction?
     
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    it does happen sometimes...
    but i think if you spend enough time getting her hot & use enough lube, it can get the job done..
     
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    Vaginismus?
     
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    Yes she was which was part of my confusion.
    I asked her and she said it was the first time
    At first she looked as confused as I did then when I tried to give it a little push she winced
     
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    Clearly, you were trying to fuck a post-op transexual.
     
  11. Gecko4lif

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    That thought crossed by mind briefly :frown1:...
     
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    Well, she could be experiencing a problem with her hormones. My husband's penis used to fit and it doesn't right now, not without pain. Sure, it wasn't the best fit, but we could have pleasurable sex. Now, it really hurts if we attempt penetration. I think if he pushed, it would go in, but it would be excruciatingly painful.

    She said that the reason is that right now my estrogen levels are too low, which makes the tissue thinner and more easily torn and makes the vagina less elastic. It's a temporary situation. We'll be back to vaginal sex by Halloween. Boy, that's a long time!

    So, this is a problem I'm currently experiencing, but there's a medical explanation for it. It could also be vaginismus. There's several different things that could be going on.
     
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    weren't you able to say if "she" was really a "she"?
     
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    Im postive she was born a she but I have a habit of considering every option
     
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    Sometimes the penny don't fit the slot. I actually had a similar problem recently. It was cute cos she was wincing when the head was in and that's the thinnest part and actually really thin (lol). She seems eager though so we will work on it.

    If you want to keep trying with this girl then over time it can work if you both want to.

    The only time something like this doesn't work is where its a one night stand and/or she's not that into you. If thats the case then just put the notch on your bedpost and move on. Although I'm not sure it counts as a notch if you can't get it in...
     
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    Damn. There goes my silver lining.
     
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    That's what I'm thinking.

    Simba
     
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    I have run into this problem more times than i can count. Lube and a lot of patience is all I can suggest. Some women are just not comfortable with an extremely huge penis and the tighten up a lot. That just makes it worse![​IMG]
     
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    i have a platonic female friend who once lamented this very situation with her boyfriend.
     
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    Next time (if there is a next time with this girl), take more time over it and try it in the female superior position. You do your best to lie still and let her do any pushing. If you're both young healthy, and (importantly) both really into each other, there really shouldn't be a lube probelm, but as people have said use some lube if necessary. Once she's got you inside her, let her set the pace, at least until you can tell she's relaxed and properly enjoying herself. Good luck.
     
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