This story is way too long for me to write in just one sitting, so it will be broken down into more than one post.:deal: I have been with my fiance for 8yrs & we are getting married in a few weeks. We started out like any typical couple. We met in college, and went through the normal stages of dating. I did cheat on her a few times in the first 2years of our relationship, because I wasn't sure she was the one, but have been 100% faithful for the past 6years. Our sex life is GREAT and we still have sex almost everyday, menstrual permitting after all these years.:banana: Around year six we started seriously discussing marriage, & I confided in her that one of my major apprehensions was my lustful nature. I told her that I wasn't sure that I could be with only her sexually for the rest of my life, and that I was afraid that one day in the next 50 years I may cheat.:dunno: Our discussions lasted several months, & she got to the point where she really respected and understood how I felt. She understood that my lust for other women did not mean that I desired her or loved her any less, it was just how I was wired. Our talks led to her to revealing a secret that I or nobody on this earth knew, that she's been bi-curious all of her life, and always fought her urges.:naughty: She said that she too wasn't sure if she could go her whole life not being with a women at least once. So we decided to try to recruit a sexy lady to join us!