When I got married I was a virgin *GASP* I know it doesn't happen very often, but I was. (so was my wife) Needless to say our honeymoon sucked because my dick was too big for her... About 3-4 months into the marriage it finally got better where we could actually have sex without her hurting her very much. 3 years later and it still hurts her. It always has to be slow and methodical (which is nice sometimes) but every once in a while I would like just bang the fuck out of her. She always tells me after how much hurt or didn't hurt. For awhile there, I couldn't cum when having sex because I felt bad about hurting her. It sucks. Obviously some of you have run into this problem? Are there ways to help it not hurt her so much? or am I doomed?