It hurts my wife

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  1. scoobydoohoo

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    When I got married I was a virgin *GASP* I know it doesn't happen very often, but I was. (so was my wife) Needless to say our honeymoon sucked because my dick was too big for her...

    About 3-4 months into the marriage it finally got better where we could actually have sex without her hurting her very much.

    3 years later and it still hurts her. It always has to be slow and methodical (which is nice sometimes) but every once in a while I would like just bang the fuck out of her. She always tells me after how much hurt or didn't hurt. For awhile there, I couldn't cum when having sex because I felt bad about hurting her.

    It sucks.

    Obviously some of you have run into this problem? Are there ways to help it not hurt her so much? or am I doomed?
     
  2. tball2222

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    Scoo- time does heal all wounds. Wait til she has her 1st baby. That'll open her up pretty good. Good luck.
     
  3. fowfer

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    Yes, I have lived with the same conditions for 43 plus years virgin and all It was bad enough when I was 7" x 5.5" then like a fool I increased my size to 8.75" x 6.25". Needless to say, vaginal sex is almost nil. Lucky we can still do oral. The decreased vaginal sex just makes it worst when you do try.

    Good Luck
     
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    Babies didn't help with mine. She had C-secs with both.
     
  5. joejack

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    The famous Dr. Kinsey and wife decided shortly after they were married to have a doctor surgically open up the entrance to her vagina so she could accomodate his extremely large erection. The operation was a "huge" success.:cool:
     
  6. scoobydoohoo

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    I don't think she will go for an operation and we don't plan on having kids for a couple of years....

    Hmm....
     
  7. joejack

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    It is done under local aenesthesia as outpatient. It isn't that big of a deal. Maybe you and she could rent the movie "Kinsey" and watch it together. Watch how she reacts. Liam Niesen and Laura Linney. One hot couple.:cool:
     
  8. decoyB

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    I believe his wife's issue was actually an unusually thick hymen, despite what the movie may have depicted.
     
  9. jayagoose

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    Yeah, I had a similar problem with my first GF. I'm not enormously hung, she was just reeeeeallllly tight. The first few times it was difficult if not impossible. It sucked because it was a real turnoff knowing I was hurting her, it felt like I was raping her or something. Using lots of lube helped a lot and I gradually loosened her up :)
     
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    Hymen, schmeymen, Doc Kinsey was definitely hung!:wink:
     
  11. RandyL

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    Get her a dildo to use. She can work on stretching it out some at a speed that won't hurt her.
     
  12. Love-it

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    I feel for both of you. Increasing diameters of dildos is all I can offer for advice. I will be following this post to see if therer are any new idas.
     
  13. duke67

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    I found using extra lube helps alot.
     
  14. arliss

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    try anal
     
  15. dolfette

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    lube, lube, more lube.

    have her see her doc too.
     
  16. dolfette

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    and.
    if she's expecting pain then she might be tensing up.
    have her squeeze & release you while you're in there, so she can tell when she's relaxing the muscles.
     
  17. dolfette

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    i don't think she needs one.
    i think the guy knows shite about having a vagina :wink:
     
  18. arliss

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    suggesting a threesome are you?
     
  19. D_Danny_Doubledong

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    how did you increase your size can you share.
     
  20. scoobydoohoo

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    definitely true! ;) i don't have one. :)

    it's getting better....
     
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