it's funny/weird, but still sorta a relationship issue...

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There are some fetishes that I just couldn't get on board with - the one you posted is one. Coming home and finding my man getting it one with a stuffed animal would kill it for me. Other fetishes, I might be ok with - depends on what they are and on the guy I guess.
 

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It depends on the fetish.

For the most part, as long as they're cool with me not indulging in it, then there won't be an issue.

If it's something that I find absolutely disgusting or illegal(like scat and the like, beastilaty, pedophilia, etc), I wouldn't be able to look past that.
 
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As long as there's consent (meaning adult, informed, capable of making reasoned judgments, etc) and no permanent harm involved then I wouldn't want to insult anyone by judging.

Exactly. It's all about consent.

Children and animals can not consent to sex and you can be sure as shit I'm going to judge your for it.
 

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is akin to my sketchy porn rule...anything crossing over into potentially harming/shifty consent is a horny/relationhip kill switch.

my own kink roster would probably ruffle folks here

course not judging someone's kink ain't the same as being willing to join in. anything that sets off my giggle is going to reduce the amount of nekkid time I'll spend with you :smile:
 
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I think I could handle most kinks and fetishes. Some kinks I would welcome into the bedroom with open arms. With others it may be a case of them having to do their fetishy stuff alone, then screw me later.

Raccoon guy? I wouldn't have a major problem with his fetish, but I wouldn't be able to take part. I really don't think I could keep a straight face watching him fuck a stuffed raccoon.
 

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i wouldn't be able to leave him home alone with my teddy bear :eek:
*am only half joking*
*chastity belt on Seymour*
 

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I see nothing wrong with what the guy with his stuffed racoon is doing. If my parter had that fetish, I would help by holding the toy if I was allowed. It is just an inanimate object just like a pillow or other comfort item. I am pretty open to anything as long as it has nothing to do with children or animals, I am all good.
 

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I am not against fetishes as long as they do not lead to illegal activities. If the fetish involves fantasy about illegal activity, then it needs to stay a fantasy. Dolfette and her sharp toys is an example of that. Mr. Stabby does not actually get to chop off anything important.

As an artist, I am used to having bizarre images and those who produce them around. In a relationship, the ability to love the one you are with is paramount. I'd drop a person who could no longer enjoy ME when the fetish was not present.
 
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Obviously the illegal shit isn't going to fly with me. Beastiality, people being underage, necrophilia, snuff... then there are some things that would either gross me out/that I wouldn't be able to stop laughing about.. that would be impossible for me to find sexy. I don't think I could participate in a partner wanting to hump a stuffed animal. Also, there would be hell to pay if I saw them humping any of MY stuffed animals. Coprophilia, roman showers, farting, etc. Nope, nope, nope. Race play? Not going to happen. I already find it irritating when there are people whose primary attraction to me is my ethnic background.

Beyond that? Pretty damn open. Piss, blood, furry/anthro, hentai, etc. Doesn't bother me. Rape play? Sure. If I trust you enough. Choking? Same thing. Both play off fears/bad past experiences, but I'd be open to trying them if I really trusted a person.