It's Over

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Pappy--

I know that we haven't gotten along. I just wanted you to know that I know how you feel. Sorry about that. I fully understand what you are going through.
 

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Pappy said:
...I will survive this!!

It probably doesn't feel like it right now but, yes you will. And you will be happy and in love again.

PS; go buy lots of condoms and have some fun!
 

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Hey dude, I hope you're doin all right with things now. Something like that is never easy to go through, but you're a really strong guy and I know you'll get through it.

For the present time, I'm with Kink though. Go buy some condoms, get out into the world, and have some fun buddy :smile:
 

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Well...I'm not going to say "sorry to hear that "....Im going to say "you are better off with out him." Cheating in a relationship should never be tolerated. I was cheated and got the worse end of of his cheating. Count your blessing you still have your health.
One day you will find the right one...so never give up hope.
Be strong .....:biggrin1:
 

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Pappy,

We all love you. There is this thing called character. You have it. If you had both had an understanding that you could have other sex partners for recreartion, it would be different. But you didn't.

If i were single and and lived close to you, who knows. But I am committed and I don't plan to sever that bond.

Hope you find someone who deserves a man such as you.

Freddie
 

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Well I'm supposed to meet the Fed-Ex guy tonight for drinks and see where things go from there.

Thanks for all your support and well wishes and I'll let you know what happens.
 

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We met , we drank, things went and went and went.........if you get my drift. Just a bit of oral and mutual jerking. Going to take things slow and see if it works.
 

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Pappy said:
We met , we drank, things went and went and went.........if you get my drift. Just a bit of oral and mutual jerking. Going to take things slow and see if it works.

He's a loudmouthed jerk? :biggrin1:
 

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This is going to sound totaly lame... but

Don't any of you gay guys have 'built in'
'Don't ask Don't tell' clause drawn into
you relationship agreement? Many many
of the longer term couples that I know have
quietly spoken agreements to 'allow' some
subtle indiscretions to occur occasionaly.
Why try to mimic straight couples?
 

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Anyjoe said:
This is going to sound totaly lame... but

Don't any of you gay guys have 'built in'
'Don't ask Don't tell' clause drawn into
you relationship agreement? Many many
of the longer term couples that I know have
quietly spoken agreements to 'allow' some
subtle indiscretions to occur occasionaly.
Why try to mimic straight couples?

I'm sure there are a lot of couples out there (gay and straight) who have agreed to an open relationship where they don't share details. The key point is that it was discussed and agreed upon ahead of time.

Pappy's guy cheated on him. That's a significant betrayal of trust, not a minor indiscretion.