Its really hard not to feel down about penis size when...

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  1. B_Lewis1

    B_Lewis1 New Member

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    eventhough you know its almost nothing you can do about it
    eventhough you know some guys are bigger and some are just smaller
    eventhough you know girls & guys say it does not matter but make a deal out of it if its big
    eventhough you know that there is a ton of guys who feel the same way you do

    its hard not to feel down about penis size when...

    you see guys bulges and it just seems like almost everyone is bigger than you
    or your at a locker room and everyone at least seems to be a big-average
    or your friends discuss penis size and assumes your bigger and go on to make fun of the ones smaller than they are

    it just makes me sad-mad-depressed sometimes

    smh
     
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    amen brother
     
  3. B_Lewis1

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    lol u agree?
     
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    yes....
     
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    I wish I were smaller. I'm above average but I get off on feeling like I'm "too small".
     
  7. Golfbuddy

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    Goodness gracious people! Get a life! What is it about Americans who seem to think that the measure of a man is the size of his dick? Go live in Europe for a time. They don't care. It simply isn't a matter of discussion, or worry, because it doesn't matter. It doesn't matter to most people south of the border. For most of the world it's just a stupid American hang up. Get over it. Yes, all over there are some men and women to whom size matters, but in general, it's Americans (ok, and some English) who care. Americans are so immature in matters of sex.
     
  8. D_Brecock Evileye

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    I am big, and I worry about it being big enough. People talk about it, and the size gets exagerated untill I am afraid that when a woman sees it she might feel let down, expecting it to be larger. We all have insecuritys, you have got to work past them.
     
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    Dude I feel the same way!
    In highschool I sent a picture or two and it got around and people were always like "so I heard so-and-so has a picture of your dick" and I've always been worried if someone saw it in person they'd be like "wow, it looked bigger in the picture. You're dumb."
     
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    Thjere is ALLWAYS going to be a guy with a bigger cock than you. Get used to it, and enjoy what you have.
     
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    I think the issue a lot of guys have is a concern over whether anyone else will lol
     
  12. D_Brecock Evileye

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    I had this problem at my last job. People were always making comments about my VPL. I stared to feel like I was being held to impossible standerds and that they belived I was like a foot long.
     
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    No offense, but if you choose a username like "Serpent", you maybe should expect to be held up to certain standards.

    Whether or not anyone is happy with their size is determined by what they themselves think - not others.

    My advice is to keep it clean, keep it wrapped when you should and enjoy it when you get the chance.
     
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    It is funny you say that, I didnt pick serpent for penis resons. I realy like snakes a lot. I have owned several, also, 13 is my lucky number. Assumptions is what I am bothered by. Thanks for illustrating it for me. :redface:
     
  15. D_Jared Padalicki

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    Tbh man, if you feel sad and mad and depressed because of it, you better don't visit a site focussed on it :rolleyes:
     
  16. Jake90

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    I sucked a guy the other day who couldn't have more than 4" in length, because I could wrap it in my hand. That was kinda hot and of course it all went in my mouth easily. He also got my off with a great finger fuck. Probably one of the best experiences I've had so far.

    I find the variety in cocks one of the fascinations, so don't worry about it, learn to use what you've got well and enjoy!
     
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    Lewis stop worrying about ur size please. Such worries only can lead to erection problems and that will really be a downer. I myself am only a 6 inch guy but I don't feel badly for myself when I look at some of the guy's dicks on this site. Size doesn't determine the power of an orgasm you can have. Learn to use what you have to pleasure urself and your partner to the max. Your use of your tongue in another organ of pleasure giving as well as your hands and fingers. Learn to use your entire body and not just your dick as pleasure tools. Good luck and remember no matter what your size, you are not inferior.
     
  18. D_Humper E Bogart

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    A-fucking-men! And praise the lord!

    I know this is a large penis forum, but people have to be pragmatic. Sure, there's people with monster dicks and there are people with micros, but worry about REAL WORLD (that is, clothing, relationships, women/men issues) rather than some strange demons that are lurking in the back of the mind, created by porn and artificial expectations.

    Too many men are ruining their lives by becoming obsessed with something they cannot change, and the vast majority need not even worry about!

    The huge majority of people, are able to please their partners and will have happy and full sexual lives, for the extreme end, there's here, at the other, there's meassurection, but if you have a penis at all, then the majority of problems are in your head.
     
  19. B_Lewis1

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    what a dumb ass comment
     
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    well the point of the thread was that eventhough you know everything there is to know

    its still kicks in sometimes and can make you feel down
     
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