It's time to end it.

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Oh My Goodness! I am hardly on LPSG these day but I saw this thread and just read thru it and I feel like I have to comment!

Please don't take your own life! Last week one of my friends husband took his own life and I had no clue that he was even depressed. I have been crying for the past 4 days and this was just an acquaintance friend. I knew his wife had mental issues so it was shocking to hear that he was the one that took his life, but you never know.

Getting married may not be the happily ever after it is portrayed to be.


Also I am dealing a little bit with some of the same issues with my teenage daughter. She is introverted and she doesn't know how to interact or carry on conversations with her peers. She wants to stay in her room all the time and be on the computer. She cries because she doesn't have any real life friends. And of course right now, I don't know anything, I am the stupidest person on the planet in her mind and she won't do anything I ask her to do.

But the truth is......there isn't a mountain I wouldn't climb for my child. I just do my best to give her opportunities to practice her social skills with her peers. That is all I know to do.


By the way Jinglschmidt you do have a nice cock.
 

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TO FAYDREH regarding her prior response

You must not have read my other 5 posts to this man.....and the point is, life is not perfect, and never will be. And there are a lot of people worse off....and this man is very intelligent, has been given help and can certainly articulate his feelings and his response to medications and treatment to the doctors that treated him...but it seems he didn't want to take his meds or maybe even take sage advice from other people who have experienced life, no matter what their "condition" or state of mind is. If you want to fight everybody all the time about everything, and your opinion is the only opinion you accept....help will be hard to get and accept regardless of the source or professional status of those offering or giving the assistance....that's my point.

I've seen a lot of people fight their personal demons and have been around the most horrible things that people can do to themselves and to each other for a lot of years...and have learned that while you shouldn't give up on helping, at some point the other person needs to be open to ideas, treatment or suggestions to ease that pain or to alter their situation...but if that person fights all intervention, no matter who or how that help is offered it becomes almost impossible. This is a road that a lot of people have gone down, and a lot have been able to change for the better, at least as compared to their "former self" but at some point they had to want to change and/or accept help from outside resources or sources.

There are people out there functioning with all kinds of problems, both physical and mental...some they were born with, some that were thrust upon them through no choice of their own, or some that were through a conscience decision on their part to engage in some type of behavior or activity....but they somehow make the best of it...and have PROBABLY accepted other's help in doing so...becuse it is near impossible for anybody to do it all alone.

The mere fact that he put the "call for help" out on this site and the fact that a lot of people who were total strangers to him prior to this posting took time out of their lives to reach out and befriend him on this platform to offer their suggestions or input to hopefully make his self described torment more bareable IS life....and they should all be commended, and he is intelligent enough to see that and should heed their advice and suggestions IF and only IF he wants to make his life a better place in both his mind and in his interaction with others.

That is HIS choice and it's one he IS fully capable of making as evidenced by his well srtuctured responses and acute knowledge of his circumstances regarding his condition.
 
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Well said, yoursgetsmine. People often say that asking for help is the first step. And it is. But it only does any good if the person asking then ACCEPTS the help offered wholeheartedly.