"It's too big!"

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  1. Symphonic

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    How many times have you heard this, and from how many individuals? You can tell us the size that made your partner utter these glorious words.

    My Stats:

    1 Person has said it to me. Oddly enough, my GF.

    Size: Not that you care, but 8x6, The Standard Cock.
     
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    Sorry, but 8x6 is not the standard size cock anywhere. Not even in porn. 8x6 is a big, fucking dick. :cool:
     
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    never really heard it. but then im 7x5.3 so i am below standards
     
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    lol uhmmm well for me hearing 'its too big' is a bad thing cuz that means we cant fuck...duh....
     
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    Hmmm. Well, "it's too big" has been said to me more often than not when trying to go for anal sex. It's been said by more than a few women, at least when starting vaginal sex, but after a few, careful, minutes those concerns usually aren't voiced again. Now "you're too deep," is another thing all together.

    BTW, our endowments are very similar. And as NJQT has pointed out, it is quite a bit bigger than most guys out there, and no doubt can be a bit intimidating at first for a woman who hasn't found out what something that size feels like inside of her.
     
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    I won't argue with you about that; since it's mine, it doesn't look very impressive to me?

    I can see your point alt89, and I guess that does apply sometimes, but not always; as for you my small lemon friend, it looks like I have it wrong anyway. You just made the cut. Welcome to Standard.
     
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    lol well whenever a girl has told me its too big and wont fit or it hurts, that means no more sex.....idk what else it could mean or why u'd like hearin that if it means the girl is uncomfortable n doesnt like it lol
     
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    ... How big would that be... ? Like... 15"?! I'm kidding, but yes comfort is an issue though you can often coax your partner to open up; it's pretty rare that a girl really cannot take a penis, though I suppose that depends on her comfort zones and how aroused / intimidated she is by you amongst other things.

    Blah blah blah, I prattle on, but you're right in regards to caring about your partner, and I agree. I'm rather happy not running about running into the 'no go' message myself.
     
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    Only one person has told me I'm too big and we didn't fuck.

    However, I have been told it's too big to suck many times. Which I understand as not a single woman has been able to suck more than three inches of my dick. One woman wanted to suck my dick recently and I told her that in order to suck my dick she would have to suck my whole dick - not just the head. After looking at it, she didn't think she could so I told her not to worry about it. Then she asked if we could fuck. I told I would need to bury my dick deep inside her (she had just told me that inserting one finger into her pussy was uncomfortable) pussy. I asked her if she ever had a dick my size and she said she did but made him stop after only getting the head in. I told her that I wouldn't want to stop and if she thought she couldn't handle my dick then don't even bother. She told me she didn't think she could handle it so - we didn't fuck.

    But it's cool. Other than that one instance - no woman has EVER turned me down because of my size. In fact, I've had more women WANT to fuck me simply because of my size. I lost my virginity to a girl who never had/saw a dick my size and wanted to feel it inside her.

    Only one woman has wanted to fuck but I turned HER down. Don't get me wrong - any other time I'd love to pound her pussy into submission. But we're too good of friends and I don't want to do ANYTHING to mess that up. Pussy isn't worth losing a great friend over.

    Simba
     
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    i dont think ive just made the standard at all. what is the "standard" anyway. ive heard im big, im just careful enough to make sure it doesnt really hurt. first time i had sex i heard it. been with the same girl since then, so i havent heard it any more. when you get some pics ill believe your standard.
     
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    Eh, I had pics a long time ago and I took them down particularly because I find it rather uncouth for me to be wagging my penis around, even here, and I'm monogamous too so I've only had one partner as well, my current girlfriend, and you're taking things far too seriously; "The Standard" is just a fun concept I made up on the spot; it has nothing to do with any real socially recognized things.
     
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    Whenever I've gotten with a really hung guy, I ask him that. Several guys have said they've been turned down by both men and women many times.

    Me, I'm a good sport: I'll always blow 'em.

    Like this guy (check out the pic at the top, and realize how small the hand looks: http://cocksearch2009.blogspot.com/2009/05/51009.html
     
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    well just once my self, she said it hurt cuz I was too big but I think It could have been for another reason
     
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    Really? :confused: What other reason do you think it could have been? :confused:
     
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    I've only heard it once, and even then it was said as a joke.

    "It's too big, we're not going to be able to do anything," she says as she grabs it.
     
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    I dunno I guess she just was used to smaller ones
     
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    I have heard it several times, and each time I reassured the girl that I've successfully had sex with quite a few other partners and I would go slow and I wouldn't hurt her. Each time they agreed and each time it was good for both of us. I'm 7" by 6" and most of the girls were when I moved around some Asian countries for a while. Never happened with a non-Asian girl.
     
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    Three stories from my Freshman year of college.

    1. Dorms, drinking, start making out with a girl on my friends bed, my friends leave the room for us. She is moist over her clothes and I'm raging hard in my jeans. She reaches down, feels my bulge, traces it with her fingers, and squeezes it, looking startled and unsure, she stopped. Kissing ended, she was done. That one wasn't that fun. She then proceeded to tell her Gay best friend who then never stopped bugging me that year.

    2. Made friends with this attractive girl, she was a bit promiscuous and one night when she was drunk she confessed to me that she could deepthroat, and her ex had an eight inch dick. Later she admitted that she had exaggerated to me because she had a crush on me and that was part of her way of showing off. We became closer and eventually kissed, on night we were chatting online and penis size came up, I admitted that my ex was very petite and that fitting me caused problems often for her, she admitted that her ex was not really eight inches big, and then begged me to tell her my size. When she found out that I really was as big as what she claimed her ex to be she was stunned and it seemed to turn her on. Time went by, she later turned into a huge drama queen and I stopped talking to her, one night a few months later I was talking to her friend. Talking about that girl, (we'll call her amanda) the friend said in passing, "Yea she was scared off by your dick", I was shocked and questioned the friend even more, she finally admitted, "Well she told me about you, you didn't know that you scared her off because your dick was too bigg?"

    3. That summer I reconnected with my old ex, the very petite one. She had the most trouble accommodating my dick.More than once, we would be going at it, I would be inside of her, she would usually get off within the first 3-5 minutes, then again after about 10, and if I took more than about 12-15 minutes to cum, she would have to stop me because it became too painful for her, "You're rubbing me raw." She would say, usually with tears in her eyes.

    Sometimes she felt soo bad for having to stop she would try to keep going, and tell me to just keep fucking her, she would place a pillow over her face to cover her expression because she was in too much pain but wanted me to finish. Those occasions weren't too fun.

    I will admit that the routine of going to the kitchen to get her advil and an ice pack every time after we had sex was a confidence booster in a twisted way, and even more fun when her roomates learned why I would always go get them for her...
     
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    Many times when dealing with proffesional ladies(mostly in Asia) Very flattering....untill you realize it is a stock-standard phrase like "Love you long time"
     
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    That's really funny, because I thought for the longest time that I was average--it took an ex to tell me otherwise.
     
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