This is gonna be long, sorry, but if so many people take the time to help me, Im gonna answer them!
Hmm well 700 bucks does seem like a lot for what it is. I'm not sure but I think its a lot less or even free for people in the UK (not sure though since I've never asked).
My ex did say that the IDU hurt a lot when it was first going in and it has to be removed every 3-4 years.
Of course I think that an IUD is preferable to taking extra hormones which can really mess with your body and moods / sexual appetite.
Would probably be best to see your doctor though as maybe there are other methods you could try. Also you could ask them whether an above average penis would have problems with an IUD.
Then you could post the reply here because I'm actually curious what the answer is.
I thought it seemed like allot of money too, but I went to Planned Parenthood, but since they dont take insurance here, I have to go through my insurance, and they are gonna send me to whatever clinic they choose.
Fine with me though, caise no way I can afford 700 on BC right now.
The one Im getting can be in for up to ten years, but I will probably have it taken out when Im around 26 or 27, if the pain isnt crippling.
I did consider other methods, but this is the only hormone free one, because I got clots while on the pill a few years ago. So eff that, haha.
I will def post what sex is like with it in, I know how curious I am, I'll help out other ladies and men, that have the same questions.
i have one and the strings have bothered my ex partner a few times, it was just the positioning, i think once a string, which is like wire LOL, rubbed him and he freaked out. all we had to do was just change positions and it was sorted. also me being on top led to him hitting it and it hurting me. the small mishaps with the IUD were better than the alternative of having an unplanned pregnancy.
he didnt want to use condoms and i cant take the pill, so if its not an IUD, the next step would have been him getting snipped.
Ahh, I would hate for it to hurt when Im on top of him. Ack...
But that doesnt sound so bad, mostly for him and the wire, hehe.
I agree, any mishaps, as long as they arent life threatening, are waaaaay better than an unplanned pregnancy.
Your answer helped though, thank you so much.
I had an IUD put in after my daughter was born. After 18 months I couldn't stand it any longer. My ex-husband was quite lengthy and no matter how aroused I was, if he put just a little pressure on my cervix, it hurt like hell. Maybe it doesn't retract so much with an IUD sitting in there.
Btw, it's been 5 years since I was near his tool so don't remember too well; I'd guess 9"-10" though.
Another thing I found after the IUD was that I did not get pregnant even with a couple years of the pull-and-pray method with occasional slip-ups. Nothing too odd about that except that I was always a fertile Myrtle. I could get sneezed on and knocked up. Other IUD users I have talked to have all had the same issues- pain when the cervix gets bumped and difficulty getting pregnant again afterwards. I would not recommend them.
So its kind of sore, after? Or is it more like when a man just slams into the cervix?
But I dont think that would feel good at all, having a piece of plastic poking your insides. But since my boy isnt as big, I hope I dont have those problems.
Ouch, I would think something that long wold hurt anyways, no?
I did read that you could not get pregnant for a year or more after having it taken out, but Im not that worried about that, since Im only 21, Im terrified of having kids.
Thank you for your answer.
7 1/2 X 6 here .. wife has IUD .. it hurt her like hell for the first day they put it in (we did not have sex, the insertion itself hurt), since then there have been no issues we would recommend it.
Ahh, you're about the same as my man, and no crippling pain for your little lady? (Sorry if Im getting to personal.)
Im ready for the insertion pain, I think, less pain than the alternatives.
Thank you for that, its now one recommending, one not.
Or two for it, as you said "we".
I had an IUD years ago. My husband would complain about "feeling something" during deep thrusting. He's only 7" long, but his girth is huge. I also got pregnant with my last child while on the IUD. Maybe he dislodged something?
Ooh, I dont want that, but I guess he'll have to endure it, lol
Oh wow, I heard its bad for the fetus if you get preggers while its in?
Or did it just come out??
I've had my IUD for a few years now without many issues. I've only been with a couple of "larger than average" men in that time, and they rarely noticed it.
The only drawback, in my case, is that I already had painful periods. They are now twice as painful because of the IUD. However, to me, this is a small price to pay in order to avoid dangerous hormones or surgery.
Note: I had mine put in after a procedure, so my cervix was already dilated. I have no idea what insertion would feel like under "normal" circumstances. I'll have to get it removed and replaced soon, and I'm a bit scared about it :frown1:
I usually have bad cramps, but Im hoping I can handle them with some ibuprofin, after I have (most likely) have this done...
Aww, dont be scared when you go in, you know how they say you cant be tense for thigs like that, it makes it hurt more.
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Do you realize that the cervix is not that far into the vagina that only a large penis can hit it? Depending on the angle of thrust, an average-sized penis can hit it.
Don't blame her discomfort on her.
True, I've had smaller men than my bf hit it, but I will say, it didnt feel as intense.
