Well its not necessarily that I have become totally selfish, but I find myself leaving my bf without an orgasm alot of times lately. It's not at all that I don't make the effort it's just extremely hard to get him to orgasm and by the time he gets anywhere near it, he has pretty much worn me out. I'm debating about telling him we can stop using condoms, i know hes std free and im on birth control, its just that little extra protection that there is no chance im getting pregnant. Does anyone know of any thin condoms for bigger guys that will hold up well during sex? We have tried a few kinds but they have all broken and he ended up going back to Magnum xl's which he says fit him best. I think its really just a bad combination of my orgasms being so intense I just don't wanna move at all after them, and him taking a massive amount of stimulation. With oral sex on him, I pretty much am on the virge of lockjaw by the time i can get him off. :frown1: I've never had any issues pleasing the other guys i've been with, its just tough to keep up for very long with sex or oral sex because my orgasms are so intense with him, coupled with the fact that I am getting pretty sore pretty fast. Any constructive advice will be much appreciated.