I've been pondering this quietly to myself for a while

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My love, since we met 6 years ago has mentioned one day she would like to undergo breast augmentation. She has two other sisters, one older one younger. The eldest who is a little younger than I has had this done and is happy with the results.

I asked my love the other day whether she would still undergo the procedure, her reply was that she was " to old now to have this done" She is a couple of years younger than myself.

My intuition tells me otherwise, she has not had the finances to proccede due to other, lets say her family issues. She is the mum of 5 boys.

Would it be out of place for me to help her realise her wishes financially, I've helped with other stuff. But do you think she would take it as I would want her have it done, or something. Or, that she has always wanted but unable to do because she has put her boys first?

I am over the moon with what she posseses naturally, but we are vain creatures to a certain extent. Maybe it's a first world problem, but, this is the woman I love. Sometimes confidence is in a womans chest. As it is in a guys undies at times :)

Quandry item :)...I sort of know the answer, trust my intuition. It's only let me down on the occassions I've ignored it.....:) :)

Xmas voucher to the Breast Augmentaion clinic?
 
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Hmmm..... If she had never mentioned it, obviously you wouldn't go there. I think another conversation might be in order. I guess I would wonder why she thought age had anything to do with it? I think the way you said it here would be a great way to ask in person. Perhaps she'd rather have a nip or tuck instead?
 
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I think it is a personal confidence thing. Also if she were to have it done there would be the undoubted looks and unsaid questions in the workplace etc...'there is something different here...oh yeah, her boobs!!' Why?. Would it inhibit her confidence or increase it? Quizzical glances not only from male members of the workplace but the female.

For me it would be a buzz if one had the confidence to go through with it if they wished. But I think for many, it is what others will think, and not what one thinks and their personal opinions of themselves.

Which can be the ultimate persuasion or debilitator in a persons decision. Not how one views themself, but how others will view them.

It's the age old question. Does my arse look big in this? Cept, if it were about breasts..Do my breasts look big in this? :)
 
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She's probably read what I've said already anyway :) She is not a vain person, and always put her kids before herself. Sometimes I get shitty with her for doing this and say splurge a bit on yourself....but she enjoys being a mum/grandma, being a grandad myself I understand it.

I just don't want her to think it's for me is all. And was looking for a bit of input from independent sources :)

Well maybe I get to choose the shape :) :)
 
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