I don't often post on this forum, I'm more a reader but I'm in need of advice and a place to vent my thoughts & feelings! I've been in my current job for two years and work in a team of 6 and I've really fallen for one. Where do I start? He's charming, he's great looking and we get a long like peas in a pod. He is how I picture my perfect man. Whenever I'm feeling upset/down I think of him and it makes me feel better. If I'm having a bad day at work he never fails to bring a smile to my face. When I'm around him I have this strange feeling, almost like everything is alright in the world. Most days I spend 80% of my time working with him. We always have moments where there's a "tension" in the air and we go silent, We always find an excuse to work together. His body language and the way he acts around me vs. our colleagues makes me believe the feelings may be mutual. The problem? I'm a young 20 something gay male and he's a "straight" male in his mid 30's with 3 kids and a partner. I could tell him and potentially ruin our friendship and the healthy work environment or he'll echo my feelings. If so I could potentially ruin any contact he has with his kids and really hurt his current partner. I've had these feelings for about a year and a half and it's starting to get me down. I'm struggling to keep myself quiet and don't know what to do. I've dated other guys but I'm constantly comparing them to him. He always wins. If you were in this situation, what would you do?