and I don't know why. If you don't know, I am straight and in the middle of my college years. It seems earlier I was fucking around more frequently and things slowed down...now it's at a screeching halt. I'm pretty sure that I look the same physically, if not better. When I'm at a party or bar or something, I have issues breaking the ice, or when I do, the conversation flops (it didn't really seem to at the start of college). I'm at a point where most girls my age (actually, they're usually younger) just seem really dense to me and I can't start a conversation without feeling like they don't understand (or care) about what I'm saying. It's like I'm trying too hard to dumb down my words in hopes of communicating with them better. I am basically just failing at socializing with girls as of late in settings designed for hook ups and it's destroying my sex life. What should I do?