I can't take it anymore. There is no satisfaction in gay sex, at least for me. I'm going to switch over. I cant stand going at it and they orgasm than leave. I can please them, but what the hell? I'm not supposed to orgasm? I WANT TO FINISH. It's frustrating because it feels like it will never happen. O.k. so I only have had two experiences but I can safely say from those experiences that 1) if you don't get there first you are SOL 2) different positions yeild different results, and him on top does nothing for me. I think I'm going to switch over because I doubt that a woman after having an orgasm will say O.k. that was good now let me go take a shower. I'm sure she would at least let me finish. SO I'm sort of proving my own point that men are selfish but come on I need luvin' too.