245DL: Life is full of mysteries. Like how I found this place. Good to know there's a support group. I'm 40 and married. My wife is 5 years older than me. We've been married 6 years. At first, she really seemed to enjoy my size. Something changed, dunno if it's me or her. Now she can't take me AT ALL. Well, I've been thinking of looking elsewhere, but I live in a very conservative area. The number of women who are willing to have sex with a married man seem to be near zero. For the meanwhile, I just take care of things myself (sigh). Well, thanks for being here.