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  1. Imported

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    245DL: Life is full of mysteries. Like how I found this place.

    Good to know there's a support group.

    I'm 40 and married. My wife is 5 years older than me. We've been married 6 years.

    At first, she really seemed to enjoy my size. Something changed, dunno if it's me or her. Now she can't take me AT ALL.

    Well, I've been thinking of looking elsewhere, but I live in a very conservative area. The number of women who are willing to have sex with a married man seem to be near zero.

    For the meanwhile, I just take care of things myself (sigh).

    Well, thanks for being here.
     
  2. surferboy

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    Welcome to the board. But brah, don't cheat on her. Like, unless you've talked it over and she's all "shure, you can go out and try another woman". But if it's behind her back, that is so uncool.
     
  3. Imported

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    245DL:
    Oh yah, it's all good. She know she can't take me. She thinks no woman could. But she said "if you can find someone who fits that thing, go for it."
     
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    245DL,

    Welcome,

    as many of the guys here can testify sometimes its not easy being "Mr Big". All joking aside , I think you will find much support here and most folks are pretty understanding and at times down right crazy! So settle in .Oh , just remember the vows, "For better or for worse..."

    Naughty
     
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    welcome to the site, i would at least try talking with her before you cheat on her
     
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    Welcome to the site! As was said before, just be totally open with your wife and dont do anything until you both have full consent for the others decisions.
     
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    245DL,

    First off, welcome to the board. So does not being able to take you at all mean there's no intercourse whatsoever? Have you tired lubes and other 'alternatives'.

    There are things you can do...
     
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    245DL, welcome and enjoy yourself while here. Sorry that your wife can no longer take you.
     
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