I've stopped masturbating and...

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  1. flipctflingo

    flipctflingo Member

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    Aside from waking up trying to penetrate my couch, I've enjoyed a better sex life. Orgasms are more complete and last longer and I feel a greater sense of satisfaction afterwards for a longer period of time.

    Now the strange part.

    If I'm in certain positions it seems that my threshold for orgasm is higher, and if me and my partner switch positions its as if my threshold drops as if im already past orgasm. But I don't orgasm, I just partially ejaculate? Its not the cloudy sperm color just more of a clear liquid and it wont shoot, it just runs out. Now I haven't lost my erection when this happens and can continue to perform, just strange?

    Any thoughts on this? Anybody here abstain from hand love before? Or perhaps, just non-masturbaters?
     
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    My theory for what is happening to you is that your sex drive now is higher and you produce more precum that is the clear liquid oozing out and your kegels muscle are now stronger too since you gave it the chance of resting between a intercourse and another... So you are able to last longer especially in certain position and produce more precum.. I never stppped maturbating for more than maybe a week in a row so i cant tell you my own expetience..
     
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    I haven't for 20-some days now. I still cruise porn and stroke occasionally, but I just watch a good vid or two.

    Thats kind of what I thought, a rush of precum almost. Idk the feeling is really strange. I can feel muscles working and it come out, but its not even close to an orgasm.

    I smoked a joint yesterday and attributed it to prostate cancer, but I was just high.
     
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    Haha yes u were high as fuck mate!
     
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    20 days and counting for me with no masturbation or porn.
     
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    What spurred your decision?
     
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    Like I've said before here I can come flaccid and this has lend, well, a hand (pun intended, lol) in my daily and I should say compulsive masturbation. Couple this with a partial circ that's been botched and I find extremely hard to impossible to come with my girl. She's away now and I m jacking off more frequently and finding it hard to get off with porn as I used and I am going into harder and harder stuff. I wish I could quit both jacking off and porn, but I can't seem to find a resolve to do it, and I really like that calming effect jacking off has on me and the pleasure... In terms of erections jacking off hasn't cost me, and I am much much harder with my partner than I am when I get a spontaneous erection, plus I can get it up and be really hard most of the time for 2-3 times again after fucking, but still to have to jack off then by myself or with her to orgasm is a piece of shit.

    I guess I ll have to try better, because sex is much better non solo. But it's fucking hard. Maybe I don't know what to do with my sexual energy if I don't jack off...

    (I've also found this site candeo which is supposed to be a neurobehavioural program to abstain, seems legit, and it's seems it could help, but I am averse to the christian angle it has...)
     
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    I started watching internet porn and masturbating to it about one year ago. I'm in my 50s.

    I stopped watching porn about a month ago because of the article quoted below. It was starting to interfere with my regular life.

    I did not find it difficult to quit. For the first two weeks, my penis was dead and this worried me even though the article told me to expect it.

    Now I'm back to normal. It was a good decision for me.

     
  10. D_Judith K Rantz

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    I don't think the trick is to stop masturbating. Especially not cold turkey either.

    You just need to lessen the amount you do it. Also, try using your own mental images and scenarios and stop watching the fake pornstars. Put your imagination and brain to work. When you're masturbating less you'll find other things to do to burn that energy off...
     
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    Thanks g. Good to hear the female perspective too, some of us guys have a tendency for either or solutions and all or nothings...
     
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    well the idea isnt to stop masturbating forever, just untill your brain returns to normal sensitivity.Then when you do start again just to do it when you really feel the urge and not just for the sake of doing it, which is what happens when you watch porn all the time.
     
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    I just felt compelled to do this? I've never let masturbation or pornography get in the way of a personal relationship or my life. Idk. Something about delaying gratification makes sense to me? Thought I'd give it a try and the only things that have come from it have been positive.

    Good luck to those battling an addiction, however.
     
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