j/o buddies' escape

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  1. Throbby

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    Let's say you are two married prospective j/o buddies who want to get together. Naturally, the respective domiciles are out of the question. Where could you go for a nice afternoon of man-fun other than a motel?
     
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    a hotel? LOL
     
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    Go camping, go work out at the gym and hit the sauna, head for the beach, send the wives on a girls night out and crank up the porn.

    I'm full of ideas. Now if I could just get them going...
     
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    Hook up with a third person who can host!!!
     
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    Works for me. I have 3 buddies, two of whom are married. We make a point of meeting on Thursday nights at a local bar for "boy's night out." Sometimes, the girls will join us for drinks and informal dinner. Afterwards, leaving the girls on their own, we go back to other buddy's townhouse. Hey, it's Thursday and almost 5:30 p.m. Gotta run. :bye:
     
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    I'm thinking the same as Rico. Find a third person to host the event. Has worked for me more than once. Fishing trip also is a good excuse to travel far enough away and spend the night in a motel for some unexpected (by the wife) action.
     
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    Hey guys,

    Just out of interest, do those of you who are married consider having a J/O buddy cheating? I'm in a serious relationship right now but kind of ruled out any action of this sort as I saw it as being unfaithful, I would like to hear your thoughts.

    Thanks
     
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    No I don't think it's cheating...it's primarily a guy thing, you're all doing what you would do alone anyway right? I admire you guys who can sneak out for some guy time....how'd you find out your buddies were into j/o?
     
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    Yeah, I'd like to hear how you guys figured out your buds were into that too.

    I still have a problem considering it 'not cheating' simply because it is an 'all male activity'. If it were a man and his female friend doing this would it be considered cheating? Probably.

    The fact that you are still engaging in a sexual activity around others is cheating in my opinion, but I'd still be very interested to hear more haha!
     
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    I'm in no way in need of a j/o buddy, but "send the wives on a girls night out and crank up the porn" is just begging for failure. What happens when they come home early or something else goes wrong? There's too many chances of something going wrong in that scenario...

    There are two types of people in this world: smart people and stupid people. Smart people lock their doors when doing something sexual. Stupid people don't lock their doors...
     
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    Sorry but to me this is still lying to your g/f or wife. That's the real issue. If I needed to go & jerk off or whatever with a buddy, then I think it's important to know why I'm doing it, and to let the woman in my life know what's up. I don't get why it has to be a shameful or negative thing unless I'm sure that my g/f won't like it or I don't have enough courage to tell her.
     
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    That's not always true. If I wanted to have a j/o buddy over to the house my wife would be cool with it. Of course, she'd probably insist that she gets to play with him too.
     
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