J/O buddy - gay or straight?

[LSebastien]

This is a question for guys who consider themselves mostly straight or totally straight.

If you were looking for a J/O buddy in your area and someone responded, would it matter if they were gay? Or do they have to be str8 or at least bi?

For that matter, are there any straight guys on here who have a gay J/O buddy (meaning it doesn't go beyond just jacking off together)?

 

[harleyduo71]

Well I’d like to have a JO buddy. He’d have to be Bi because I want to stroke his cock and he stroke mine ! Also my wife would be watching and she’d want us to fuck her sooner or later .
Anybody in the San Antonio area ?

 

[virginboy08]

I’ve jerked off with a friend before. He was pretty straight like fucked chicks all the time but we had a very open friendship. Nothing weird just popped some porn in and rubbed one out. Went back to playing video games.

 

[thongboy]

A lot of us have participated in circle jerks that have involved straights, gays and bis like myself. It's hard to define those as genuine homosexual happenings. We were just having fun

 

[NIMBUS]

From past experience I'd say that it has to be a straight or bi guy. They're more likely to accept where the limits are. I'm happy to sit watching another guy(s) wanking and equally happy to sit stroking my cock in front of someone else and I don't have a problem if a curious mate wants to stroke my cock for me (or let me reciprocate) as long as they accept that that's as far as it goes. I've wanked with gay guys before and the experience hasn't been good, they always seem to overstep the mark and start fondling and groping where it's not appreciated! Many of them then won't gracefully take no for an answer, expecting it to be an open invitation for sex.

Straight guys seem happy for it to be a bonding experience and just a bit of fun, sitting waving your stiff dicks at each other, slightly competitively, or just an exploratory experience, getting the feel of the difference in thickness or length of another cock, of the handling of a circumcised one versus an uncircumcised one etc., or just who can shoot the most or the furthest - for a laugh.

 

[1454612]

This is a question for guys who consider themselves mostly straight or totally straight.

If you were looking for a J/O buddy in your area and someone responded, would it matter if they were gay? Or do they have to be str8 or at least bi?

For that matter, are there any straight guys on here who have a gay J/O buddy (meaning it doesn't go beyond just jacking off together)?

From my experience...

Straight or as curious as yourself would be my suggestion. If you open the door to sexual activity with a gay man and invite the lust, it could lead to way more than you may be ready for. That isn't necessarily a bad thing ,but you may not be ready for it. However, a blowjob from a gay man can be pretty amazing. Stay in your confort zone.

 

[tysonwhit11]

I’m a straight man looking for a JO buddy...I would prefer a gay jo buddy however

 

[D_Eric Banana]

I wouldn't care if they are gay/straight/bi... it's all the same for me!

 

[B_R_I_E_F]

No it doesn't matter to me if the J/O bud is gay or straight. I'm not looking for more than a bud to get off with from time to time. I do have to relate to them on some level. Jacking off together is a bonding experience and I honestly have to like the guy to be comfortable enough to watch porn and stroke with him. I'm not meeting in some dark alley to just play with my dick with a total stranger. (okay there was that one time...but never again!) LOL

 

[luvmycock]

I wouldn't care if they are gay/straight/bi... it's all the same for me!

i agree

 

[B_Lightkeeper]

I know there are Alabamians. Let us hear from you.

 

[LSebastien]

ok here we go.....

1.male
2. another male
3.touching each other's penises until ejaculation
if I have to go to 4., then thats insane....

just because it may be a male fantasy by many males don't make it straight...there are many closet gays out here.

J/O with another guy doesn't mean there has to be touching involved. And if there is, you'd be jumping to conclusions by assuming they'd have to be at least bi.

If you're not attracted to a guy but your touching his cock then you're not gay. Action and attraction are different things. Touching another guy's cock doesn't make you gay/bi any more than touching your own makes you sexually attracted to yourself.

Some guys like knowing they can make their friends feel good. Some guys like the feel of a hand that's not their own. Some guys like the 'taboo' aspect of it. There are lots of different reasons why guys jack off together. It would be arrogant for you to assume it always has to be a 'gay' reason.

If you don't think you can jack off with another guy without being considered at least bi then you're not very secure in your own sexuality. Going on and on about it in this thread instead of just letting it be is only proving that.

 

[Sky Tyler]

Just wondering what the limits might be (for you and for the other guy). Also what would set the mood for having a real person to JO with?

I ask as a gay guy who has had a number of JO buddies who were gay. We were quick to bond since we had the same motivations even though some guys had never had m/m experience.

What would allow a mostly straight guy to enjoy some form of JO with a guy in the same room? Any idea how you would proceed? And what you would want from the other guy?

Well, basically, I don't want any part of a man inside of me any way. Otherwise, if things click, it would be a fun sexy encounter.

 

[B_Craiggers]

Hmmm.

I do share porn with other guy friends (and a couple girl friends as well, yay women's lib). If I find something that I've really enjoyed, I'll pass the link along with the hope they get some enjoyment out of it as well.

But I'd never want to jack off with another guy. I'm not worried about what that means, societally or morally or whatever. I'm just not interested in watching any of my male friends jack off.

PS: Female friends though, if you're ever in the mood, you know how to reach me! :biggrin1:

 

[D_Phallus P Phyllum]

Frankly, I'd feel a bit odd jacking off with a guy that considered himself absolutely 100% 'straight' - I'd think there was some degree of self-dishonesty going on with him. He would have to admit to being at least a bit bi-curious, imo.

I'd prefer to jack off with bi guys, because then we can still both enjoy 'straight' porn, but I'd jack off with gay guys too.

 

[D_Jared Padalicki]

I don't mind gay, straight or bi or even the ones with an edge off :wink:, as long as they suit my personality I'm more than happy :biggrin:

 

[Kimahri]

I've had both straight and gay guys as stroke buddies. The straight guys were really into it as a bonding thing. One even jacked me for a few seconds. Gay guys...eh..it often becomes a sex thing. LOL.

 

[actioncfc]

I would not mind a JO bud! Anyone in southern Mississippi?

 

[D_CountdeGrandePinja]

just a buddy! not a relationship!

 

[Rodin2008]

I'm straight but will love a j/o buddy anyone in orlando fl?