Maybe you should start a club in your neighborhood!
Thanks for the posts guys, I'm very curious about this. It seems exciting and intimidating at the same time. Don't know if I should go by myself but, then, I don't have any j/o buddies to go with me. (Anyone in the Seattle area let me know
) So, I guess I should grab myself by the balls and go.
Any more advice for a total novice?
I've been several times and it is uber hot.... below is my "review" from the first time going.
" First.. let me start off by saying thanks to everyone for an amazing
time tonight.
And now.. the rest of the story.
I will be honest, I was quite apprehensive about going. Despite a
raging review from a good friend of mine, I almost chickened out. My
advice if you are in the same shoes I was... suck it up... it's worth it.
Upon arriving, I was greeted by some great people who explained
everything, the code of conduct, ect...
After the tour and orientation it's time to strip down and be naked.
The temperature of the space is perfct. Not too hot and not too cold.
My suggestion if you are shy and kinda skiddish about being touched
out of the blue is to get yourself a red wrist band. Not saying
anything bad or scary is going to happen, just a layer of protection
so to speak... and as your comfort level increases you can always
ditch it.
Personally.. it took me a little while to get "in the mood". A great
place to start is the little "cave" in the back and to the left. This
is a great place to kinda veg and you don't feel all out in the open
and exposed.
Speaking of exposed... let's chat about bodies for a second. If you
aren't a perfect gym bunny and don't look the way you look....get over
it. There are all sorts of shapes and sizes of men (and penises)
there. The whole self conscious is a bit of a mood killer.
So once you warm up and have your trusted friend up and running (you
can ditch the arm band now), go out and mingle in the play space. The
wall is a great place to stand. You will be approached... have no
fear... this is what this whole thing is about... mutual masturbation.
Just let someone reach out and grab it. It feels good once you let
go. If you feel uncomfortable.. just reach down and grab it back. I
found everyone there to be very respectable of one's wishes to both
not and to be touched.
Wander around a bit. There is most likely a few (or one) guy(s) that
you click with.
As time goes by. Guys start to blow thier load. Either assisted or
in the open for all to see. This seems to happen about 45 min into it
and then people start to trickel out.
I spare you the details of my finale and let you experience it yourself.
All in all.. it is a truly great experience. The setting and the
people are great. The energy in the room is awesome. And most
importantly everyone is respectful of you and your body. At no time
did I feel degraded, scared, or fearful of my safety and well being.
Cheers! to all of you hotties that I stroked with tonight. It was
awesome.. and I will be back.
To those of you that are on the fence about going to one of these
fantastic events. I hope that you have gleamed a bit more comfort and
confidence this. It isn't worth missing out on."