Jacking off (light grip slide) or (firm grip)

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  1. 7"24

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    Hey guys I usually will jack off with lube and use a light grip to slide over my head and shaft. My boyfriend I have a feeling is a firm grip and slide the skin up and down the shaft kind of person. As we have been messing around and I am starting to realize that is what he likes, since it's how he gives me a handjob so gotta figure he treats himself the same way. What is your preferred method?
     
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    varies but usually cum hardest when I do it light, playing with the head and lightly stroking the shaft then gripping super tight when getting close to cumming. Sometimes I enjoy extremely tight pressure and bending and slapping it too
     
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    varies here as well - usually harder grip when not much time to enjoy!
     
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    i looove light n gentle first , gets me rock!
    then tight wen rock
     
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    I obviously don't have my own cock.....BUT..... I practice Tantric Sex techniques when i am masturbating men and i focus lightly with pressure being applied to certain nerves in the shaft.

    Using this technique i can have a man have multiple dry orgasm's. :) I have never had a complaint and lots of men say i am better then themselves.
     
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    I prefer a firm grip... especially if someone else is jacking. I hate being handled gently. :s If I want to edge, I'm a bit more gentle towards the PoNR.
     
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    fck all this fancy stuff
    choke the bastard..fast & furious
     
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    Haha I love the responses, I never really thought about how other guys would jack off differently lol. It's funny because normally I would only be able to cum from what I like light, with lube. But he has gotten me into this new way of stimulation, but I really only like it when he does it its not the same when I do it myself.
     
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    When I have enough time, I actually like to not even touch the head, instead concentrate on the base of my dick. That will give me the most intense orgasm. I would say a medium grip and slow sltrokes.

    When I don't have that much time, then a firm grip and over the entire dick.

    Craig
     
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    Some type of lube (preferably Astroglide) and a lightish grip. I used to do it dry for years and with a firmer grip, but am spoiled now and don't. Not fully sure why, but maybe because I'm used to the wetness of vagina.
     
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    When i masturbate i use a deathgrip
     
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    firm grip most of the time. but when alone, with porn, and poppers, i bring on the lube and scream.
     
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    Love this answer, I really do!
    Anyway, I'm usually go slow and dry at the start, then use spit and precum to make things more messy and stimulating.
    When I can't stand it any more, I surely use the "fast and furious" approach... the stronger the better!
     
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    I've always tended to use a firm grip I think mostly because I did not use any lube when I was younger and wanked off a lot (heck, come to think of it, I wanked off a lot as I got older too...). Because that is what I was used to I never got into using lube and when I've tried it I wasn't impressed with it.

    Now however, as I've gotten older I've discovered that I need a VERY tight pussy to get me off because my cock is use to a tight grip. I can get off from a good blowjob using a lot of tongue action around the head but I have extreme difficulty having an orgasm from intercourse.

    I find when I've tried lube and a light grip and teasing the head, etc. that it was too sensitive at times and while it felt "kinda" good, it really wasn't very good. I guess it is what each of us get used to.

    Of course if someone wants to lube me up and show me how it's done, I might be open to experiencing something new...
     
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    C, all the above,.. When I was a teen it was firm grip, no lube, an fast jack off, 3 times a day.
    Now I have precum an lube, I very my grip. Light grip to start and edge, firm grip during orgasm. Usually once a day, unless I'm on this hot site, then more.
     
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    Mine varies, although I go for a light grip more often than not. I'm pretty sensitive and find that light touches can be really exciting. When I'm ready to finish, though, I'll usually take two hands on the approach. I also like to slap it around :p
     
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    I'm a tight-and-fast kinda guy, with LOTS of lube... then as I start to explode, I slow down a lot, but I tighten up on the base of my dick as I'm shooting. I dunno why, it just feels REALLY fucking good.
     
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    Some guys don't grip it at all. I always humped a pillow to get off until I was 17 and saw guys strokin it in porn then decided to try it that way. Been strokin ever since. I usually am a firm grip kind of guy but occcasionally if I have plenty of time I will lube it up with Astroglide and lightly stroke it and edge it until I can't hold back anymore and explode. If I have got the lube out I usually finger my ass while I am at it too. lol
     
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