Jacking off w/o Porn

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  1. dikidiki

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    So I'm trying to watch less porn these days, but I've found that I can never get as hard without porn as I do when I watch it. At the most I get semi-hard and as soon as I shoot I go limp. Does anybody have any suggestions/techniques to get harder without using porn?
     
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    Think of a hot sexual experience you were really into. I don't always jerk off to porn and sometimes even prefer to go to the memory bank lol. You can also try pictures or hot stories to help weed yourself off porn vids
     
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    I experience the same thing. I can get it up and jack off, but my orgasam is much less intense and as soon as I'm done, I go soft.
     
  4. B_Hornaplenty

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    You don't mention how young you are so this may not be what you want, but the obvious suggestion is to use some Viagra or a similar med. At my age I need it, but I also know younger men who want to stiffen up, and they take about 1/4 tab before "playing" and that's enough to give them a rock hard erection. Shortly after taking the partial tablet, all these guys have to do is think about a pussy and their cock climbs to the sky. Good luck getting some satisfaction when you go at it.
     
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  5. Touch_here

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    Honestly when I view porn, my sessions are only 5-10 minutes and the orgasms aren't as strong. If I'm reading a sexy story, I can go for 45 min -1.5 hours reading and slowly jerking. That's when I achieve my most powerful orgasms, and cum squirting over my head. I guess for some nothing beats the imagination. :)
     
  6. Catharsis

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    ^^ Yes, I love reading erotic fiction! It's a great substitute for porn, I think. The teasing that usually occurs is such a turn-on, and I like how (usually) the writer takes time to write in detail about the whole process, and reading the moaning and groaning just adds to the imagination. I'm a huge fan of making love as opposed to simply having sex, so the added plot and mix of love into the sex is great - but, that's just me.

    I don't have much personal experience to build off of, so I do a lot of fantasizing, and the fiction really help to build a storyline for these fantasies.
     
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    I can jerk off just fine without porn. Porn actually makes me last longer though, and cum more.
     
  8. Touch_here

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    Thank you! Drawing it out through true love making coupled with "sex" is an art form. Imagination is so critical. Erotic stories provide a blank canvas, even though the author is telling their story. You can mentally fill in the individuals in your mind, and enjoy the ride. Perhaps the main character is a woman you see at the market that is so unbelievably hot. Or a guy at the gym you wished was a little attracted to you. Or whatever floats your boats. :)

    The mind is truly the most powerful sexual organ, and allowing it to control the sexual experience (vs the LITTLE head controlling)...produces celestial-like orgasms.

    Even though you say you don't have a lot of experience, trust you can enjoy great times doing what you're doing. :) Keep reading!
     
  9. hoterboy

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    I can't exchange porn with anything while jacking.
     
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    I've always had a vivid imagination. All I need to do is imagine a past or perhaps, future encounter and just conjure the dialogue and motion along the way. If you can't do that, just think about one picture, say, a memory of someone pretty naked, and whack to that.
     
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    Even at my advanced age I can still work out a batch of sperm without the benefit of porn/pictures, etc.

    My mind and my hands provide all the stimulation I need.

    So to the topic orginator I would suggest that frequent practice may be required to overcome the need for porn/pictures to achieve a proper ejaculation.

    Mature, but still playing and enjoying life.
     
  12. midlosole

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    I agree, a well written erotic story can be awesome alternative to watching same ole porn video.
    http://literotica.com/stories/index.php
    I've found this site to have the best free source of erotic stories. Some great stuff there.
     
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    dikidiki:

    I got completely off porn a month or so ago. Cold Turkey. Let me tell you how it went for me, maybe it will help.

    - the first week, my libido was totally dead. Difficult to get an erection to jack off, and no desire to jack off. [sounds like this is where you are right now]

    - after that libido started coming back. As did imagination.

    Now I just close my eyes and fantasize. I will either recreate a really hot encounter I've had, or use the start of a hot encounter and then take it in different direction.

    At this point fantasizing is WAY BETTER than I remember jacking off to porn was. For one thing I am focusing on my own sensations and pleasure, rather than the pleasure of the porn stars.
     
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  14. D_Pokin Joe Frazier

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    I look at myself in the mirror as I jack off nothing gets me harder as looking at myself in the mirror.
     
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