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I'm pretty new to actually participating in the forum part of this, so I thought Id give it a shot. On here a lot of people talk about jacking off/having sexual encounters with friends and even family members, and the question I have is how do you get a friend to know that you'd wanna be a jack off buddy? It seems like an awkward thing to 'propose', but it seems so common for friends to jack off with each other/have circle jerks, so I guess out of my own interest I was wondering how to get the hint across to a friend that you wanna jack off with them. any ideas? how did you all come to have jack off buddies?
 

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great question...have often wondered myself...i suspect bringing this subject to the table may cause a loss of friends...some will think you are gay and well that alone will get your ass kicked by some...maybe honesty is best...that way you find out who your real friends are??...also may depend on your age...younger generations think nothing of rubbing one out...most guys my age 50 something are just needing to bust a nut anywhy we can...thus the 10% gay thing on alot of avatars...some freinds here who are GAY, find it easier to start a j/o club...i can see it being easier for them...
 

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my best friend taught me about jerking off. he flat out said "have you ever jerked off?" and i said no and he taught me. he's bring over his big brother's playboys every day, and some vaseline, and we'd just go at it.

oddly enough, i can't fucking stand vaseline now. i hate anything oily on my body
 

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It's all about porno. If watching porn doesn't make it spontaneously occur it won't. Some people suggest alcohol, but I find that a bit sketchy...
 
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i suppose im just curious... i havent been exposed to too many other dudes and i guess i just wanna see what itd be like to JO with a friend. i know i have a couple friends who hang in the double digits.. wouldnt mind just gettin a glimpse i guess haha
 

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well from what I've learned here, the formula goes like this:

:beerchug2: + PORN = :bukkake2:
which sometimes leads to :069:and :087:, depending on the variables...
 
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In my case, I usually begin by just talking about how horny I am and that I need to bust a nut. Sometimes my friends will agree and say they need the same. I then just gage the conversation from there. If we have a few drinks in us, when I am ready to leave, I might again say...."I think I am going home to watch some porn and JO. If my buddy says that sounds like fun....I might ask...."Do you want to join me? I have a great new porn movie" It all depends on the relationship I have with this guy. Some will say "NO"...and I can just return and say "You jerk, I was only kidding" If they say "Yeah"....then we go from there.

I like the ladies and not into sucking dick. But I enjoy bonding with my male buddies and if we get comfortable enough around each other, watching each other spank the monkey is fun. If they have hang ups, then I usually know this from our conversations, and never would bring this up. The jerks who are constantly making FAG jokes or calling everyone a FAG, are not the ones I would discuss this with. So be cautious and I am certain in your group of friends, there are one or two who will take you up on the offer. Hope it works out for you.
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It all depends on the relationship I have with this guy. Some will say "NO"...and I can just return and say "You jerk, I was only kidding"
That sounds less than honest, and probably unconvincing. I'd try and gauge the guy better and avoid that, but if they say "NO", I'd say, "cool, no prob" (with a note of "no big deal"). Remember, their problem is not with watching porn or J'ing O, but with being close to you, another man. So I'd be careful to back off them for a while, and avoid intimacies like changing, showering etc.
 
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The jerks who are constantly making FAG jokes or calling everyone a FAG, are not the ones I would discuss this with.
Though, paradoxically, those are the ones who are very likely to want to do it. Doing it with them is problematic though. I don't know how they negotiate it, but probably only with each other, ie you'd have to make FAG jokes and call everyone a FAG to reassure them that J'ing O with you wasn't going to make them a FAG too.
 
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That sounds less than honest, and probably unconvincing. I'd try and gauge the guy better and avoid that, but if they say "NO", I'd say, "cool, no prob" (with a note of "no big deal"). Remember, their problem is not with watching porn or J'ing O, but with being close to you, another man. So I'd be careful to back off them for a while, and avoid intimacies like changing, showering etc.

In my experience, straight guys could care less about showering, changing, being naked around guys (unless they are repressed nut cases). It's the closeted gay guys who need to keep up a facade.

Life is short. If you want to try something, give it a shot. If you lose a friend over it, he wasn't much of a friend to begin with. Find better friends. Do NOT spend much time worrying about things before you act. Worrying solves nothing. Think a little bit, and then do it.
 

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thanks everyone... i almost kinda wish i had a friend who wanted to get me to do this haha... whatre ur experiences with having a JO buddy?
 

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no expiernce with this club activity...but keep asking around it will happen...maybe from someone here...seems harmless and a thrill to induldge in...just guys busting a nut..
 

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thanks everyone... i almost kinda wish i had a friend who wanted to get me to do this haha... whatre ur experiences with having a JO buddy?


it was fun! you end up being able for share techniques, yah?

i'm sure one of your friends would wanna do it brah. like, find a porn that you think one of your friends would really dig, yah? like, if you have one friend that digs on red headed haoles, find on porn with some red heads being fucked. be all "brah, look what i found! i found da kine porn you like!"

as you watch it, say "damn, this is making me hard (or horny, whichever you wanna use). what about you?" but like, kinda rub your crotch a bit. not in a creepy kine way though. and not jerking it. but rubbing it. he should full on be all "yah, i'm hard too" that's when you should be all "wanna jerk off?"
 

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So annoying. I've been trying to jerk off with a few friends of mine for about ten years now. Nothing gay at all, unless if you're someone who classifies two guys in a room-trow down jerking off together looking at MMF porn at the most.

It's funny how my friends are. Now the aforementioned situation above is gay, but if you throw a girl in the situation it's automatically not gay! Voila! So fucking dumb. I don't even bother trying to explain to them.
 
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I've had a JO buddy for a few years- we jack together when we go to the nude beach- the first time was a bit awkward- both of us had throbbing wood and eventually I said - dude I hope you don't mind, but I really need to rub one out- once I'd started he joined- do it everytime we go there now.
 

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I've had a JO buddy for a few years- we jack together when we go to the nude beach- the first time was a bit awkward- both of us had throbbing wood and eventually I said - dude I hope you don't mind, but I really need to rub one out- once I'd started he joined- do it everytime we go there now.

so wait, you jerked off on the beach?