Jealousy between Father and Son

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by shyguyftl, Jul 23, 2009.

  1. shyguyftl

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    Before any wierdo's and creepo's start getting excited about this topic, I am refering to a Dad in his 60's and Son in his mid 30's.

    Just curious if anyone has ever had this problem with thier dad. I never thought it was an issue between mine and myself. But over the last couple of years, I am starting to pick up signs on it. I inherited a very big penis and balls from my dad's father and a low hanging sack from my mothers father. Apparently my father did not inherit his fathers penis and is not very big at all. I was never sure untill a couple of years ago where I inherited my size from, becuase my dads father died when I was 4. And my dad never really saw me naked post-puberty, so he was not aware of how I developed. I had gone out shopping with my dad one day and needed some pants. I lived in south Florida at the time, and choose to not wear underwear to avoid heat rashes (and also, unless I freeballed, I either usually drew too much attention to my crotch area, or I could not fit comfortably with the inseam or when sitting.) After about 3 hours of shopping, he asked why I was having such a hard time finding pants. I joked and told him I was having problems finding an inseam that fit. I am also 6'3 and thin, so finding size 32"x36" are not easy to find. Most of the time I end up with size 32"x32" or 32"x34, and display way more then I want to. He thought it was just becuase of the pant length I needed a longer inseem. But then we went over to SYMS, which if you are familiar has group dressing rooms. And of course thats when my dad saw me changing and saw how big I was. He made a quick joke about it then, and I just brushed it off. I have taken some teasing from from friends and in the locker room over the years, and have a thick skin about it. But several years have gone by now, and my fathers jokes have started getting meaner about it. I try to ignore it because he is my dad, but it is driving us a bit appart, and not speaking as much anymore to each other. I thought over time I have explained to him that it has been as much of a burden as a blessing to have been this endowed. But I guess to someone who isnt large, they don't understand the other issues it causes.
    Now to make matters even worse, I moved back in with him and my mom so I could go back to college and the tension is through the roof.

    Has anyone else had this problem? How did you deal with it?

    Thank you.
     
  2. invisibleman

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    Sounds like my dad. He is a closeted homo. Maybe your father is jealous because you have a big cock and get a lot of sex.

    You probably should have a talk with him in front of your mom about his jokes about your penis and how cruel they are. You should tell him that he should stop it. The problem isn't your penis any more that it is about your color of your eyes or the shape of your ear. Establish a NO JOKE POLICY about your penis.
     
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    I am actually confused why it bothers him. I mean, as a man in his 60's, you would think he was comfortable with himself and had STOPPED thinking about his dick/with his dick. There are so many more important things to consider in life.
     
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    There are men who are sooo not secure when older. There are older men with penis size issues.
     
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    In front of the mom? That just seems like a bad idea all around.

    The mom knows what the father is working with and father knows she knows. Having her there for this discussion just means he's more likely to get embarrassed which won't make him more receptive to your request.
    Having the woman he sleeps with participate in discussing his envy of your penis? Not likely to restore harmony.

    Worse if she teases him about it later he might just become more cruel with his jokes toward the OP.

    And why would you want mom speculating about your penis size. Eek!
     
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    Gil--

    FACTS:

    OP lives with parents: Mom and Dad.

    The dad is known to make mean jokes about OP's penis in front of his friends.


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    REMEDY: I figured that OP could tell Dad to stop making jokes about OP's penis (while Mom is in the room as a witness. A witness that a problem exists between OP--the son and the father.) The OP doesn't have to tell her that the penis is big.
     
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    That isn't what the OP said.

    Regardless I still think it's a bad idea to bring the mother into it unless the penis subject can be left out altogether.

    Best to confront the father one on one first.
     
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    Learn to live with it. You're going to be under his roof. It's a bit about respect for your old man. So what if he makes fun of your big cock, better than making fun of your little cock.
    At least you have a normal mother, how many of us could stand to live with our mothers again?
     
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    This is one of those odd posts that seem most likely some type of fantasy. OP originally stated that he 'inherited' his large penis from his paternal grandfather and his large balls from his maternal grandfather. How does he know that information? He said his paternal grandfather died when his father was four years old. So many of the 'facts' of this story just don't add up. Another fantasy I am guessing. But if it is not, I seriously doubt that many men on here would have a problem at the age of thirty plus with their father being jealous of their large penis. Just a guess.
     
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    I'm inclined to agree with piratebulldog. I was also curious how someone could be so intimately familiar with the endowments of his grandparents, especially as at least one of them had passed away long ago.

    And just how cruel could these jokes be? Perhaps the OP could elaborate on what dad sad to get him so riled up?
     
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    Perhaps you should have just asked me how I found out about my grandfathers sizes. I asked, you nitwits!
    Why would some create a "fantasy" about being insulted by thier father? That is the so stupid. Perhaps if you had balls the size that I do, you would have more guts about asking people ackward questions.
     
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    Well, I never faced this problem with my dad, so I can't help much. However, curiosity has gotten the best of me-- Who did you ask???? And how the hell does the topic of your maternal grandfather's balls and paternal grandfathers cock size come up? (pardon the pun)
     
  13. Northland

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    If you are really as large as you say you are, then why oh why would you feel any need to go about asking the size of other family member members? (actually, I don't know why you'd ask anyway. To start asking what size grampa is/was is a little weird). Then again, I see no pictures of your alleged size so maybe it's you who are lacking. (now shyguy will post purloined pics from the web and state they're his own)
     
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    At his age I think I'd be more worried about death looming around the corner than how small my dick is... LOL
     
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    As anybody who's been coming to LPSG for a while knows, how we feel about penis size, our own, other people's or just in general, is often far from rational.

    It's far from uncommon for somebody of the age of 60 to still have issues when it comes to penis size.
    Your father could probably benefit quite a lot from being pointed in the direction of www.lpsg.org

    Without knowing you or your father at all, I am thinking that it's possible that he's aware of his dad's above average sized penis and quite probably have been feeling somewhat shortchanged in that department himself due to that, making it a source of insecurity for him.

    For him, finding it out that you too are of above average size may have triggered this insecurity with him again.

    My personal suggestion to you would be to try and reassure your dad, keeping in mind that how us men tend to think of our sizes isn't exactly rational.
     
  16. Principessa

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    :eek: I wondered the exact same thing! :yup:
     
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    Both grandfathers decide to skinny dip in the lake. The young gents were taking off all of their clothes and they look at each other's genitals. They are both in shock.

    PG:Hey, you have some big dino balls!

    MG:Hey, you got a really big whangerbanger!

    Invisibleman: Oh, you beyotches put together...You'd be Porfirio Rubirosa.



    (All laugh...)
     
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    this is another fantasy thing that is sick. first of all the guy posts no pics that show this monstrous cock and balls that he is dreaming he has. next who the hell did he ask how hung his dead grandpa's cock was and doubtful his dad would have remembered seeing it when he was 4. did grandma tell him? next how does he know how big his mom's dad is/was? did he ask mom or grandma?

    i think these stupid people that make up these fantasies are sick as hell and need some psychiatric help. i am sure if he posts any pics after this they will be net pics or someone he has talked to will get used. the guy with the screen name str8guy posted one of my pics on his profile and swore to me that it was his ass and of course could only supply the one pic. he now has one of my buddies pics on there and claims that my buddy is him.

    i hate little dicked guys that make up that they are so big and impressive yet have nothing to show for it but a sick fantasy story.
     
  19. WideAndDeep

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    Here is the dead giveaway:

    :rofl: :rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl:

    Any guy who has serious junk hanging knows that just the opposite is true: while freeballing is certainly more comfortable, it definitely draws more attention!
     
  20. shyguyftl

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    The topic of this category is: Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy

    This is not a section where someone needs to make up stories about themselves. This is where people come to ask other members for advice or help.
    And thats all it was, a request for advice.
    What some of you have posted in response is truly bothersome.
    Someone asks for help, and rather then help them, you accuse them of making up the entire situation? Why would anyone do that in the first place?
    And then to ask them to post pictures of themself to "prove their size", and then just assume they would post pictures of other people instead?
    SERIOUSLY!!!!
    Just as a reminder, this website is called LPSG, which stands for Large Penis Support Group. So when a member on this website comes to the community seeking support, try and offer some. If you can't or aren't able to, then don't respond to the postings. There are tons of websites out there for people to blog and gossip, and make crap up. If thats what you want to do, go there, and leave this website for those who actually need the support.

    To those of you who offered suggestions to help, Thank you. your advice was greatly appreciated.
     
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