jealousy from tha brothas

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by B_blackmeatpounda, May 6, 2006.

  1. B_blackmeatpounda

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    i got a question for all tha brothers up here in lpsg.

    first lets clear the bullshit. all black men know that the black big dick myth ain't true. true i got a fat 9 inches but none of my boys, i learned from showering after basketball, circle jerkin, talkin about our cocks, or hearing gossips from tha ladies, has anything bigger than 6.5. even the 6'9'' ni**a (cleaning up my language for the white folks) on the team said he was only 6 and a quarter.

    so i actually got 2 questions for my fellow brothas here on lpsg:

    1. do your boys have big cocks too?
    2. if they don't like mine don't, how do you handle all the jealousy and shit talk?

    holla
     
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    A question i should like to pose to Shane Diesel. Good topic fella.
     
  3. Lex

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    I love new members who have some SENSE. Welcome to the site.

    To your questions:

    Only one of my black buds is hung big (way bigger than me to the tune of something like 10.5 x 6.5 or something insane like that). I have a few white buds who are actually ALL hung (7x7.5, 9x6, 6.5x7.75). I should mention that all of my black buds are straight and my white buds range from straight to gay.

    I have never gotten a bunch of shit from my straight friends about my cock size (a few have seen it as we have done MFM stuff in and after college). I have a few gay buds (the white men mentioned above) and they like to talk about it, etc--but they don't give me shit for being hung.

    I would ignore it and tell them to find something else to talk about. Or when they got all homophobic, I would remind them how silly that shit sounds coming from people who were just obsessing about MY dick.
     
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    Well first of all, the myth seems to work two ways. One way is when people believe in it, stereotyping us and putting unnecessary pressures on us all to live up to fantastic expectations, even those of us who are way larger than normal anyway.

    The other way it works is when people (some here) try so hard to dispel the myth that one almost comes off wondering if there are any big black dicks at all.

    We should all know the answer to the latter. All we have to do is look at the video evidence (in porn). Fact is, some of the biggest and baddest black dicks weren't even in mainstream porn. (So while everyone was running around making noise about J. Holmes and the like, there were equally hung brothas who were practically never heard of). Well, go figure...

    But to address the question, I haven't personally met many hung black or white guys for that matter, none that is, I would consider hung. (Keep in mind though that the number of white guys I've met outnumber the number of black by about 10 to one.) So what does that mean?? Nothing at all.

    I think there are huge white guys, and huge black guys. What percentage is in the majority or who's generally the largest? Who knows? It's a question that can NEVER be answered, though many seem determined to lose a lot of sleep over it, (as evidenced by the never ending threads on the subject).

    It seems to be an obsession.
     
  5. B_blackmeatpounda

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    Come on my ni99as, help a brotha out.

    Holla
     
  6. Lex

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    Dude--watch your mouth. Few around here answer to that word.
     
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    i'm a 30yo black guy with a very large size cock. i totally agree with blackmeatpounder about the myth of all black dudes having huge cocks. it's maybe a little bit more true than for other guys but not alot.
     
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    First of all.....let me clarify one thing.....i'm black too, believe it or not....Yeah i know you can't tell from the pic...but I am. Secondly.....I don't know if it's a myth or not.....but ALL of my black friends seem to be hung heavy. Hell, I'm the smallest and I'm 9 inches. One is 10 inches, one is 11 & one is 12 1/2. So i guess i can't really be a good judge.
     
  9. B_blackmeatpounda

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    yo Lex man i'm sorry,

    where i'm from that word's aight, but i respect that it ain't here. i just want to build some pride among the brothas here. i personally love bein called that word by my bros - it makes me feel united with them in the struggle. at my college there are very few brothas or sistas and i guess we use words like that to fight off assimilation.

    again i'm sorry


    i was just hopin to get some support from my brothas here but have received very little. some guys on the intro forum are even breaking my balls over my pics saying that my shoulders are narrower in my head shots than in my body shot or some shit and that my pics are fake. ain't those muthaf**ckas heard of a jacket? i don't front. that's me.


    anyway it's been my experience that black men hide and don't talk about their cocks, i even think a lot of black men are ashamed of their dicks, which is upsetting cause i read in the book Hung that our ancestors were hung from trees for supposedly having donkey dicks and for looking at white women. our dicks caused our ancestors pain and we should respect the sufferin and fight against its return by being proud of our dicks today. the black dick myth is a myth, it ain't true, but that doesn't mean we don't all have dicks and we should be proud of our dicks no matter how big they are. i think the fact that a lot of brothas ain't proud or even content is why we big brothas face jealousy and i want to know how to handle that jealousy for the better of all. that's why i asked about jealousy cause it ain't what we should cultivate amongst ourselves.


    we should have love amongst the brothas and amongst all races

    peace

    Ty
     
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    Err on the side of caution. You assumed too much and used a difficult word in unfamiliar company. Too many young men of color use their "fight against assimilation" as an excuse to not learn the skills needed to navigate the large society. In the end, using ignorant language just makes someone look ignorant. MHO.

    Your "urban posturing" is off-putting as is your use of slang and expletives. Also, you did not really give many people an opportunity to respond to your thread. Calling people niggas is certainly NOT going to get a huge response. Also, there are less African Americans on this board overall, so the responses to this "niche" thread will be less than some others based on a combination of factors.


    This part more accurately hits at the rampant level of HYPER-homophobia that exists within the black community and its impact upon men's comfort in speaking about their genitalia. THAT is a meaty issue worthy of intelligent discourse.
     
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    senior moment alert:

    i'm not understanding your question. you wanna know how who "handles all the jealousy?"
     
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    Same goes for Italian stereotypes about Big dicks. If you are Italian you have a big cock. Bud of mine is 100% Italian and his is smaller than me, I only have about 25% Italian in me. Italians might have thicker ones from all those carbs in that pasta...Oops another stereotype. >>>>Thats a joke btw.
     
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    Any chance this is a put-on:confused:
     
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    Yes, homophobia is rampant in the black community, and to a large degree it certainly affects the behavior of young black men in the locker room, but the negative comments directed toward better hung black men, that I've personally experienced, fly in the face of this. Some of the comments I have received made every guy in the room stare at my penis and no one was called "fag" or "gay" for doing so. It seems that ridiculing well hung black men stealthily evades the homophobia radar, like straight men dressing like women on Halloween. It's not a mob mentality effect either, as two of my friends who made jokes about me in front of a YMCA locker room full of men can attest to.

    Ty

    P.S. I have learned my lessons and will show respect by writing better in the future, only interjecting with slang when I feel it will have its best effect.
     
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    Locker room behavior is lockerroom TESTOSTERONE behavior. being black or white doesnt make a difference when you have the balls to comment on a dudes appearence whether you are applauding them of their built BACK, CHEST,, QUADS or cock. Just like you said "two of my friends who made jokes about me in front of a YMCA locker room full of men can attest to." There is no doubt Friends and knowing a dude is easier to say damn bro, your breath stinks, take care of that zit, and even damn bro your nuts smack against your knees. Yes all dudes get the looks and the stares. Its HUMAN nature to compare, contrast and live together. Maybe b/c we are in the U.S some of us use Race as an excuse when in reality it ignoring the fact that we are humans. In Europe, Satellite tv has porn at 8 in the evening. Dudes are very fashionable and if they were to walk the streets of the U.S they would be stereotyped for being a "fag". Largely though NYC is very fashionable so not much of that goes on here. But our society is very homo and sex phobic compared to abroad.
     
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    Lex, you are the best! You really broke that down and expressed everything I was thinking. You are too great.
     
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    I'm still not clear on all that you're asking, but I'm have a few questions, nonetheless.

    If your friends, who possess smaller penises than yourself, are jealous of your having a larger penis, what exactly are they saying? If you let us [me] know that, perhaps the support you seek will come a little more hastily.

    Furthermore, if you are in fact experiencing a lot of jealous behavior amongst your friends that really shouldn't keep you awake at night. That last thing you should be terribly worried about is what someone else thinks of your penis. However, if your issues are more along the lines of them actually not speaking to you, then I suggest you play with a different group of kids.
     
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    I made quite a few mistakes in my first postings and many would say disgraced my race. For that I apologize. It was in no way my intention. I just wanted to reach the young guys on here who would otherwise not speak up unless they felt like they were talking to one of their friends. I am an Ivy-League educated black man, the son of two university professors, and have been told by fellow black students at my college that I would "be mistaken for white in the hood." I spoke in slang to some of my classmates at public school growing up, and to other classmates I spoke in the way that I spoke at home, which is very proper English because my mother is an English and Romance Language Studies professor. This "proper" way is the way I speak here at college and, by speaking that way, was the reason why I was rejected by some black students as being "incognegro." Those same students talked with street slang and were accepted by everyone. Therefore, I thought I would come across as less "know-it-all" and more "one of the guys" if I wrote in that manner. I wanted to foster a community spirit but went about it the wrong way. All I ever see on this site is "Black Men who like White Cock" or "Why are Black Men Bigger?" and it sickens me. I hope I didn't sicken my older black brothers with what I wrote.

    My point was that I wanted to show everyone that black men face the same problems every other race faces with regard to penis size; that is that most black men, like all men, feel that their penis is too small and/or would like to have a bigger one. Black men also face the added pressure of having to live up to the big black myth and I believe that is the reason why I have faced antagonism for my large black penis from my modestly and averagely endowed black friends. I have no black friends, out of the 50 or so I have seen naked or talked to about penis size, that have penises that are any more than slightly above average when soft and/or hard. I wanted mainly black respondants, with other races responding too, also testifying that the black big dick myth is untrue. I know it is but the myth still persists, even on this website. I also wanted everyone to see that being black and having a big dick has its downpoints, which it most definitely does. My black friends, as I went to a predominately black public school, would make quasi-racist comments about my penis in the locker room or on the few occasions we masturbated in group settings. I would be compared to animals, such as donkeys, but not in a positive "yo man, props for the big dick" sort of way, more in a degrading way, just as the black slaves were compared to animals. Now I don't want to get into a slavery or black history discussion, but as I read in the book "Hung," in which the author makes a strong case for the animalization and fetishization of black men based on the big black dick myth, there is a disturbing trend towards defining black men as sexual beasts with big dicks. That is a shame and I'd like to stop those sorts of threads on this website. Sure, I find myself sometimes describing my penis as "a big black dick" and that goes against what I'm trying to stop. I guess I get too wrapped up in trying to impress and get a reaction, but it is true that my penis is big and is black. I just wish that it wasn't assumed that it is big because it is black. It is the cause that my friends never talked to me and rarely passed me the ball in gym class and why this animosity lasted for at least one period after gym class. More selfishly, the myth also makes women see me as less special because I have a big penis because, in their view, all black men have big penises like mine. Hung white men are wowed at, hung black men face reactions from women llike "well, I guess that's average for a black guy."

    Anyway, as there has been some confusion as expressed by GoneA, my two questions were:

    1. Do the black men you (you being LPSG readers - I initially thought black, but of any race) have seen and/or are friends with have large penises?

    2. Do you, as black men who have big penises (which I assume you have since you are on this forum) face jealousy from other black men because of your big penis and how do you deal with it?

    I hope this thread can clear up some misconceptions,

    Ty
     
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    I agree the myth is not true. I myself am 7x6 in. From circle jerks, showers and talk I have friend who are 7x5, 8x6 and the biggests is 8.5x6. Although we are "larger than average" they are not all HUNG beyond belief as the myth would make one believe.
     
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