Jealousy!!!!

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I'm not the jealous or competitive type either. My boyfriend is so much hotter and better looking than I am, I've grown used to guys (and girls) paying more attention to him. If we're walking down the street and some guy happens to glance in my direction, he'll say "he was cruising you." It's not really true -- but it's always nice to hear him say it.

I can't imagine how difficult it must be going through life (and a relationship) burdened by jealousy and suspicion.
 

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Agreed. Not to say I'm never jealous, but I know where my partner's heart lies, so I'm not concerned about minor flirtation or even minor elation. I think gay men tend to be less jealous than there straight counterparts.
 

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Definitely not with online flirting. If you played with my dick, and I with yours, he might be a little jealous, but then I'd give him the salacious details, pull his dick out, and suck the jealousy out. Is that your way of asking me out?
 

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My gf gets at least 30 stares (or hits) a day with or without me being there. It doesn't bother me in the slightest, some guys get nervous when after they start hitting on her, I go "Would you like my girlfriend's number by any chance?" But I just laugh and shake their hand, because my gf used to be a huge slut and getting over her reputation makes me numb to that kind of thing. I take it as a compliment on my behalf that I have her and everyone else wants her (kind of like being married to a porn star)...but she only wants me. Besides, I've had a threesome with her with one of my good friends before, but she got nothing out of it and felt guilty. She's a good girl. Any jealousy or anger you get from someone showing interest in your partner just shows your insecurity and lack of confidence in her. She's not an animal, and if she doesn't know to do the right thing, then she just doesn't deserve you.
 

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I didn't tell the whole story in my above post, it was somewhat of a cop out. My ex-from-hell looked like something from an International Male catalog. He had that lean muscular build and the height. We were both attention whores. We'd both start working the room the second we walked in. It took me a while to figure out just how jealous he was of me. It drove him crazy that we were the same age and he had a bunch of wrinkles and I didn't. It consumed him and helped ruin our relationship (that and the fact that he was a total fucking psycho). He had the bod, the face and was dumb as a box of rocks. He was mean too.

My lesson from this whole thing was not to date any more actors.
 

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Well I never thought I could get jealous, until recently, I dont think its jealousy as much as anger.

My girlfriend I am dating now, seems to get a lot of attention from guys. Some of which she hooked up with so it bothers me, but I know she wouldnt cheat on me so its not that. But whenever It happens it just annoys me lol I honestly dont know if it is jealousy or not.

I told her how I felt as well. :).
 

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horny8 said:
Definitely not with online flirting. If you played with my dick, and I with yours, he might be a little jealous, but then I'd give him the salacious details, pull his dick out, and suck the jealousy out. Is that your way of asking me out?

Basically.
 

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When I was dating women in my late teens/early 20s I got so so jealous of a guy who was on the same scene as me and I realised after some time I was jealous because he was notorious for having a massive cock and I wanted him (and it). Jealousy is not always a bad thing and I ached with it over him - i didn't know whether he was gay or straight but I used to get really jealous of other guys he might be appearing to get close to or be friendly with. I use dto actually try to intervene and make him notice me. I was a model at that time - early 90s - and I think I was always trying to make him fancy me and although I denied it to any of my mates at the time, I was obviously already gay (and very very very into cock).
 

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i am the jealous type in some ways.
i used to get real jeaous when i was a teen...but here is what i
i like to keep in mind the human form is mesmerizing.
90% of the female figures in this world,i would be sexually affectionate towards
and LOVE IT due to the fact that they are a representation of all women.

when i fuck a girl i am fucking "the world of woman".
it is all "COCK" and "WOMAN" and that is my exit from the grips of jealousy.

my gf is hott...but so is her friend isobelle and her sisters friend laura
and my moms co-worker lisa...WOMEN are hot.
not just YOUR gf....that is what made me less effected by dudes wanting
to stick their schlongs in my babygirl.