Steveo,
I LOVE those jeans and the bulge they show! Wish mine showed that well!
As for showing too much, I would say don't worry about it! You can't help it if Mother Nature was very generous to you. No law against that!
As long as you don't intentionally try to draw attention to it (like grabbing yourself all the time), then I would think you should be fine.
Enjoy the admiring glances you'll get--you lucky dog!! :smile: