Jelousy = Aroused?

mikej

Expert Member
Gold
Platinum Gold
Joined
Aug 25, 2004
Posts
72
Media
4
Likes
178
Points
503
Location
Seattle (Washington, United States)
Sexuality
90% Gay, 10% Straight
Gender
Male
I've been thinking a TON about this the last few days, and I figured if anyone would get it it would be this crew.

Hopefully this isn't super fucked up, and I think I might have a fetish for jealousy. Let me explain... I don't know what it is, but lately the feeling of jealousy turns me on. Like a lot. And nothing gets me more of that jealous goodness than being envious of another guy's bigger dick.

My dick is fine. Perfectly average. On the big side of average even depending on what study you believe. I even get called big sometimes when I hook up. I don't want to be humiliated for having a small one, at least I don't think I do, because honestly it's not. I might be one of the only dudes that wishes he had a smaller dick, so I could feel jealous more often because I love it.

I don't know how to find guys that will let me explore this. The combination of hung and willing to show off, brag, and compare isn't something I quite know how to advertise. I've even worked on hiring an escort so I can try this out, but so far when I've explained what I want to try out they all disappear on me.

Am I crazy? Are there big guys out there that would be willing to scratch this itch? Sometimes I feel rude or something for wanting this kind of interaction.
 

bigbull29

Worshipped Member
Joined
Apr 24, 2006
Posts
7,577
Media
52
Likes
14,087
Points
343
Location
State College (Pennsylvania, United States)
Sexuality
Pansexual
Gender
Male
Totally get you...completely, in fact.

Jealousy is what all my attraction to men is about. With women, my sexual attraction, of course, has nothing to do with jealousy.

I thought about renting a male escort, but could never bring myself to it. I would want him to role-play in a very specific way; in fact, it'd be a way that 99.99% would not be able to fulfill. I don't have interest in sucking dick. Gay porn does nothing for me in general (there are exceptions, of course) in regards to fulfilling my jealousy attractions. There are a couple "cuckhold" videos I've seen that really get my juices flowing. I think I'd need to bring a sexy woman to make it all happen somehow. I love pussy, and that would perhaps make another dude less fearful to bring my fantasy to fruition. In other words, a bisexual situation will bring a greater pool of men to choose from, I think.

Best of luck, buddy. I know the itch.
 
  • Like
Reactions: amazzzed2

bigbull29

Worshipped Member
Joined
Apr 24, 2006
Posts
7,577
Media
52
Likes
14,087
Points
343
Location
State College (Pennsylvania, United States)
Sexuality
Pansexual
Gender
Male
@bigbull29 plus judging from your pics you'd have an even harder time than I finding someone to be jealous of!

It is the very specific roleplay part that seems to drive escorts off when I bring it up to them. <sigh>

Yes, I would have major trouble finding a bigger-dicked dude; but also, to get him to fulfill my fantasy would even be harder. I'm going into more a semi-cuckhold direction, but only half-way or so. Hard to explain.

I don't think you're into women at all. If you were, you could up your chances a tiny bit in finding a more bisexual dude who could your satisfy your fantasy.

It's a great thread. I hope it gets a lot more posts.

Take care, buddy, and stay safe.
 

philip92

Legendary Member
Joined
Feb 15, 2011
Posts
225
Media
32
Likes
1,591
Points
613
Location
Austin (Texas, United States)
Sexuality
100% Gay, 0% Straight
Gender
Male
I've been thinking a TON about this the last few days, and I figured if anyone would get it it would be this crew.

Hopefully this isn't super fucked up, and I think I might have a fetish for jealousy. Let me explain... I don't know what it is, but lately the feeling of jealousy turns me on. Like a lot. And nothing gets me more of that jealous goodness than being envious of another guy's bigger dick.

My dick is fine. Perfectly average. On the big side of average even depending on what study you believe. I even get called big sometimes when I hook up. I don't want to be humiliated for having a small one, at least I don't think I do, because honestly it's not. I might be one of the only dudes that wishes he had a smaller dick, so I could feel jealous more often because I love it.

I don't know how to find guys that will let me explore this. The combination of hung and willing to show off, brag, and compare isn't something I quite know how to advertise. I've even worked on hiring an escort so I can try this out, but so far when I've explained what I want to try out they all disappear on me.

Am I crazy? Are there big guys out there that would be willing to scratch this itch? Sometimes I feel rude or something for wanting this kind of interaction.


Not crazy, I’m 100% the same way. I have a great cock but nothing gets me harder than being the smallest in the room.
 

love2compare

Worshipped Member
Verified
Gold
Cammer
Joined
Nov 13, 2012
Posts
2,751
Media
310
Likes
18,710
Points
483
Location
Switzerland
Verification
View
Sexuality
90% Straight, 10% Gay
Gender
Male
But dudes, isn't this what sph is all about??
Add me stephenbeck92 on skype and you will be put into a group of 500+ guys who are into this very much too. And believe me there are some true monsters inside who put large guys on their place hehe...
 
  • Like
Reactions: bigbull29

love2compare

Worshipped Member
Verified
Gold
Cammer
Joined
Nov 13, 2012
Posts
2,751
Media
310
Likes
18,710
Points
483
Location
Switzerland
Verification
View
Sexuality
90% Straight, 10% Gay
Gender
Male
Ok. One thing then is to compare a lot. There's a skype goup for that too where guys just compare and jack off together if they feel like a fun match.

[I for one love 2 compare for real too - which is tooooally crazy, as the difference of average to 8in or bigger is absolutely breathtaking to see "dick to dick"!!]*

Also a tribute or toll/trophy can be involved and you have to do something for the winner - if you mutually agree before, what the loser has to do after the compare. Doing something for the bigger man can be very arousing, e.g. most common is that you have to cum for the bigger man. Jeez how many times i was the smaller man in my life and had to take embarrassing pictures or do dares in public etc. haha.

The other thing is that you both show off and let's say you are the smaller man in the sph group. There it totaĺy depends on the dynamic of both guys. It's totally role play and you give hints by your own statements. Like you answer back "yes, you are so much larger and thicker than me" - HE will take up the direction. HE will certainly not tell you that you have an ugly dick next and make you feel bad..... but rather enjoy showing off his bigger dick to you and make you more jealous.

sph is never cruel for real but horny and fun to play along. I often say stuff like "you could spread my wife's pussy so much more than me and reach places inside of her like no man ever before" - you bet you hear some horny response to that hehe... just play along with creativity and passion!

So sph is never to destroy the smaller man "for real" - but just to tease along the horny lines of the role play. Often it happens that after me cumming they tell me "wow, huge load, little man" and such so it's like saying hey we had some real good fun together, hope to see you again soon...

so don't be worried about feeling bad about yourself with the sph play, there is plenty of hidden love involved in sph which not everybody can see right away. just try it out, i bet you'll enjoy this, too!

* some of my real comparisons with 8in and +++
[album=medium]142585[/album]
 

curiousfireman

Legendary Member
Joined
Jul 14, 2011
Posts
293
Media
31
Likes
1,580
Points
463
Location
Tallapoosa (Georgia, United States)
Sexuality
No Response
Gender
Male
Ok. One thing then is to compare a lot. There's a skype goup for that too where guys just compare and jack off together if they feel like a fun match.

[I for one love 2 compare for real too - which is tooooally crazy, as the difference of average to 8in or bigger is absolutely breathtaking to see "dick to dick"!!]*

Also a tribute or toll/trophy can be involved and you have to do something for the winner - if you mutually agree before, what the loser has to do after the compare. Doing something for the bigger man can be very arousing, e.g. most common is that you have to cum for the bigger man. Jeez how many times i was the smaller man in my life and had to take embarrassing pictures or do dares in public etc. haha.

The other thing is that you both show off and let's say you are the smaller man in the sph group. There it totaĺy depends on the dynamic of both guys. It's totally role play and you give hints by your own statements. Like you answer back "yes, you are so much larger and thicker than me" - HE will take up the direction. HE will certainly not tell you that you have an ugly dick next and make you feel bad..... but rather enjoy showing off his bigger dick to you and make you more jealous.

sph is never cruel for real but horny and fun to play along. I often say stuff like "you could spread my wife's pussy so much more than me and reach places inside of her like no man ever before" - you bet you hear some horny response to that hehe... just play along with creativity and passion!

So sph is never to destroy the smaller man "for real" - but just to tease along the horny lines of the role play. Often it happens that after me cumming they tell me "wow, huge load, little man" and such so it's like saying hey we had some real good fun together, hope to see you again soon...

so don't be worried about feeling bad about yourself with the sph play, there is plenty of hidden love involved in sph which not everybody can see right away. just try it out, i bet you'll enjoy this, too!

* some of my real comparisons with 8in and +++
[album=medium]142585[/album]
Well said. I feel the same way.
 
  • Like
Reactions: lttle1