i am 6.75 in length and 5.60 in girth and my girlfriend is not satified with my penis and this really hurts man i cant stop thinking about it. she says that the average male she was with was about 8 in length and very close to 7 in girth. is it in the realm of possibility that i can gain 2 inches in lengh and a inch and a half in girth. she says there sex was ALOt better than mine, she said she would scream with other men but just moans with me. can i expect to be the size the other guys she fucked were, i am dedicated to do anything to achieve these sizes any suggestions please i need help guys i am so depressed over it
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Why would your girl be comparing you (to your face, cause you know that girls can't keep their mouth shut about that with their friends!) with previous partners? Thats beyond rude and insensitive. Don't worry about it man. I seriously doubt that every other guy she's been with has 8 inches. Sounds to me, like she just wants to be a bitch. Sorry man....I hope that clears up soon for you!
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I find your story hard to believe, but lets assume its true.
Now we have to verify if HER story is true.
Some women here claim that they just have luck and run into 8 inchers all the time. See, if you do the math, statically it is very unlikely, unless she was a porn star and the job provided her with endowed men. Besides, the true average around the porn indusrty is really 7 inchers, (from what I have read). Camera tricks and angle manipulation make things look bigger.
OK, lets give her the 8 inchers in length. But when she says her average is 7 inches in girth, you dont need a lie detector for that. You cant even get many 7 inch girthers here. And the few guys that have it, got it by pumping, for YEARS.
Now the bad news. If what she is telling you is true, then the two of you are NOT sexually compatable. Meaning, you cant give her what she wants. Your body was not built to satify her.
Even if you start to do PE, you are looking at a minimum of 2 years, for the length, and longer for the girth. Is she going to wait 2 years?
And the weird part is, you dont have a small dick. You are on the upper side of average. In other words, you are above average. Especially in girth.
And, do you like blow jobs? Because you will not get them anymore with a 7 inch girth.
You need to find someone you can be sexually compatible with.
My guess, is that she is trying to break up with you and found the cruelest, meanest way to insult your male ego by:
1. Stating how you dont measure up
2. Comparing you to past experiances
No caring woman would ever bring stuff up like that. Somebody is lying, and that is bad. But the only thing worse than that is if all of this is really true.
(actually no. Because then you could find someone else that you could make you feel good about yourself and will apppreciate you.)
good luck
Now we have to verify if HER story is true.
Some women here claim that they just have luck and run into 8 inchers all the time. See, if you do the math, statically it is very unlikely, unless she was a porn star and the job provided her with endowed men. Besides, the true average around the porn indusrty is really 7 inchers, (from what I have read). Camera tricks and angle manipulation make things look bigger.
OK, lets give her the 8 inchers in length. But when she says her average is 7 inches in girth, you dont need a lie detector for that. You cant even get many 7 inch girthers here. And the few guys that have it, got it by pumping, for YEARS.
Now the bad news. If what she is telling you is true, then the two of you are NOT sexually compatable. Meaning, you cant give her what she wants. Your body was not built to satify her.
Even if you start to do PE, you are looking at a minimum of 2 years, for the length, and longer for the girth. Is she going to wait 2 years?
And the weird part is, you dont have a small dick. You are on the upper side of average. In other words, you are above average. Especially in girth.
And, do you like blow jobs? Because you will not get them anymore with a 7 inch girth.
You need to find someone you can be sexually compatible with.
My guess, is that she is trying to break up with you and found the cruelest, meanest way to insult your male ego by:
1. Stating how you dont measure up
2. Comparing you to past experiances
No caring woman would ever bring stuff up like that. Somebody is lying, and that is bad. But the only thing worse than that is if all of this is really true.
(actually no. Because then you could find someone else that you could make you feel good about yourself and will apppreciate you.)
good luck
I highly doubt she's telling the truth. I've counseled thousands of men, and the stats you're describing are exceedingly rare.
She's either extremely delusional or (more likely) she's saying these things to hurt you :frown1: What kind of GF would say those kinds of things?!
There's a beginner's PE course here, but don't do it to please this person that you're with- do it because you want to do it.
well to tell you guys the truth she didnt really come out and say those things i mean the first time she saw my dick she was like thats it and that hurt but ever since then ive been wondering how big her past partners were so i did the probing and thats where she came out and told the supposed truth i should have kept my mouth shut and not asked certain questions but since the degrading comment i guess curiosity killed the cat but the catch is she only likes black guys and ive seen black dick before and let me tell u most of them are hung as hell so thats wut leads me to believe what she had said u kno but i dont think i will ever be happy with sex with her and if what she says is true she will never enjoy it with me it sux because i really love this girl
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Dude, you REALLY need to back up and take a look from the outside. Even if "That's It??" was all she said, that's still cruel and humiliating. I'm not big, and I've never had anyone say that to me, even just plain hook ups.
Good Luck with your PE, but you're doing it for the wrong reasons.
Good Luck with your PE, but you're doing it for the wrong reasons.
- Toes,
You may love this girl but lets be honest for a moment. This girl has been with many different partners right? She has seen plenty of cock right? And I want to give you the benefit of the doubt and say that you have probably seen plenty of pussy, when comments like this are said men tend to do crazy things. Like hanging a car from their cock in order to get any sort of gain.
TRY THIS.....
Get butt as naked, take a good long look in the mirror and realize that if you dont love yourself no one else will. The comment that you should have said when she first saw your cock should have been "do you need a baseball bat" because she has enough issues as it is to say "that's it?"
I know the 3 word combos that kill every mans ego
"is that all"
"is it in"
Just take some personal time and realize that you are perfectly hung as it is and if you want to get bigger it wont happen over night. Love thy self and the world will follow suit. Never let your confidence down and you will find the true love of your life both sexually and physically.
TRY THIS.....
Get butt as naked, take a good long look in the mirror and realize that if you dont love yourself no one else will. The comment that you should have said when she first saw your cock should have been "do you need a baseball bat" because she has enough issues as it is to say "that's it?"
I know the 3 word combos that kill every mans ego
"is that all"
"is it in"
Just take some personal time and realize that you are perfectly hung as it is and if you want to get bigger it wont happen over night. Love thy self and the world will follow suit. Never let your confidence down and you will find the true love of your life both sexually and physically.
i love this girl because i can see the good in her but she is pretty much racist and in those terms if u define racist it simply means the belief that your race is better than anyother she says that black guys are the best in bed she says that black ppl are the best singers and what really bothers me is that she thinks black men are more attractive than any other race which i dont kno if i will ever get over but she is a huge liar she lies to me at least 2 times a day but i still love this girl call me crazy i kno i should have cut her loose a long time ago but i dont think she loves me in the same respect and honestly i want to leave her for someone who can accept me for me and not make me feel like shit but love can do crazy things to a man and im sure that alot of you may aggree
i love this girl because deep down in back of all that corrupts her a see a person who is willing to change and some one who one day will only want me and only me but will i ever see that day i think not but im trying to be optomistic about it. but she is pretty much racist and in those terms if u define racist it simply means the belief that your race is better than any other she says that black guys are the best in bed she says black ppl are the best singers and what really bothers me is that she thinks black men are more attractive thatn any other race which i dont kno if i will ever get over but she is a huge liar too she lies to me at LEAST 2 or 3 times a day but i still love this girl call me crazy i kno i should have cut her loose a long time ago but i dont think she loves me in the same respect as i love her and honestly i really am thinking about leaving her for someone who can accept me for me and someone who wont want another man in the back of her mind and a woman who sees all men as equals no matter what color they are and she makes me feel lesser then shit but love can do crazy things to a man and im sure that some of you may aggree
Well, only up into the point you develop some self respect and some self worth. Who is chasing who and why? You call that love? Sorry, but that is an infatuation because you dont think you could do better for yourself. Was it Snoop Dog that said, "Trust no bitch, love no Ho." ? The point being, that you have to be bigger inside than that. No woman wants a whinny, no confidence puppy dog following her around.
Thats why chicks like that like the assholes. I am willing to bet that if you treat that girl like shit, all the sudden she will be more interesed in you. Why? Not because she likes being treated like shit, but because she wonders why you are no longer interested. Now she is on the defense. She is in self doubt and will do everything to get with you to fulfill her own ego.
The problem is that you have to keep your "game" on and make it seem you can do better than her. I mean, you really have to not care if you get her or not. And she has to believe that. If you get another chick, watch her try to get with you. And if she doesnt, Who cares? You are with a new chick that will probably treat you better.
I wish we lived in a world where you get chicks by being nice to them. Correction: Being nice to chicks like that. You will find that this "game" still works with all chicks to some level or degree. You dont have to be an asshole to nicer chicks, but you still CANNOT be that puppy dog no matter what.
Good luck, develop your game, and see how the world turns out better for you.
Thats why chicks like that like the assholes. I am willing to bet that if you treat that girl like shit, all the sudden she will be more interesed in you. Why? Not because she likes being treated like shit, but because she wonders why you are no longer interested. Now she is on the defense. She is in self doubt and will do everything to get with you to fulfill her own ego.
The problem is that you have to keep your "game" on and make it seem you can do better than her. I mean, you really have to not care if you get her or not. And she has to believe that. If you get another chick, watch her try to get with you. And if she doesnt, Who cares? You are with a new chick that will probably treat you better.
I wish we lived in a world where you get chicks by being nice to them. Correction: Being nice to chicks like that. You will find that this "game" still works with all chicks to some level or degree. You dont have to be an asshole to nicer chicks, but you still CANNOT be that puppy dog no matter what.
Good luck, develop your game, and see how the world turns out better for you.
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i wouldnt consider myself a puppy dog in any way shape or form, i am a man with feelings and a man that expresses his feelings openly u aint a man if you keep your emotions bottled inside your juss a robot programed to only show anger but i am a man with real feelings, i think you are getting the whole puppy dog thing wrong, i dont follow her around like u say but rather let her choose her own destiny and this so called game u talk of is juss bullshit cuz the golden rule is to treat others how u want to be treated and i dont want no bitch runnin game on me srry i mean i could try this game thing but i would only be stooping down to her level but u are right tho as far as saying that i dont deserve a girl like that and u kno wut man ur right i could do so much better i mean i could get a girl so much prettier then her and one that would be real to me but there is some truth to what snoop dogg says " u cant turn a hoe into a house wife" i mean i have personally seen that they can be housewives but in the back of her mind im sure she is missing sluttin around. but honestly part of me does want to play the game that she is playing on me and i think im leaning towards that i kno i said it was wrong but fuck it she deserves it after all that she has done to me and put me through u kno wut its on game night starts today im gonna give back what she has given me and then some trust and believe
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