Never had a jerkoff buddy. I'm wondering for those who used to have one or currently have one. What do you do with your buddy? Just sit there and jerkoff? Do you have one while you are in a relationship with someone?
Jerk Off Buddies
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Me and my jerk off buddy have been doing it for a few years now, we went in knowing each others limits, we mutually masturbate, give each other handjobs and blowjobs, frotting is always a favorite, there's a pic in my "Cock and Ass" folder of both of our cocks together. As for during relationships, it continues as a secret, we've both been dating girls for the duration of our arrangement, we get off looking at each others chicks while we fool around sometimes
My JO buddy and I had close to the same experience 40 years ago before we moved on - girlfriends and marriage. Camping and fishing trips were prime opportunities for us, either inside the tent or, when secluded "up river", playing nude in the great outdoors. Never moved beyond wanking, frot and some oral. Fallchilds cock reminds me of my bud, long and heavy. Good memories.
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My best friend is my jack buddy, and I got to tell you, it's great.
We usually start off by making out, undress each other, then we suck each other for a while until we start getting close. Then I jack him off, and he jacks me off.
We both have girlfriends, but they don't know about it. We've been doing it as long as we've been best friends. Four years now.
Any other questions you have, ask.
We usually start off by making out, undress each other, then we suck each other for a while until we start getting close. Then I jack him off, and he jacks me off.
We both have girlfriends, but they don't know about it. We've been doing it as long as we've been best friends. Four years now.
Any other questions you have, ask.
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Having a jerk off buddy is great. When nothing is going on and I want to lose a load we get together for some stroking and sucking and frot. After we bust it's usually time for a beer and later maybe round 2
So if I understand correctly what your are telling here, there's nothing wrong to have a jerkoff buddy even if you are married or in a relationship with someone...
Well, that would depend on what the person you're married to or in a relationship with thinks about you having a jerkoff buddy.
Because if someone's breaking their word and lying to someone they're committed to, that's pretty damn shitty of them, isn't it?
Erratic- that's far too heavy, and more than a bit ridiculous. It doesn't count if it's a jerk off buddy for Christ's sake! It's only wanking with another guy possibly helping (not even that sometimes). Are you one of those people who regard masturbation as 'being unfaithful'? That is a very weird response.
I've just seen you're gay. Is 100% faithfulness that important. Being all same sex is I suppose a bit different, but really, just releasing the pressure a bit- is it that important to gays?
I've just seen you're gay. Is 100% faithfulness that important. Being all same sex is I suppose a bit different, but really, just releasing the pressure a bit- is it that important to gays?
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If it's something you feel you have to keep secret from your partner, then yes, it's cheating. If you're ok with what you're doing with your friend, there's no reason not to tell your significant other, regardless of sex. It's that simple.
I love jerk off buddies, groups, etc! I don't consider it as cheating but agree that if it is kept a secret from a partner it could be a problem.
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I've had many JO buds in various stages of life. Teen years were fun, but, it was all about just getting off to porn, and "experimenting". College years, it was more about enjoying a good bate session, usually watching porns together, sharing good ol' male horny energy and the camaraderie of it. Some of those guys, even a few that married and moved to the burbs, kept in touch for "Guys Night Out" times... Beers, smoke and porn... Yay!... We don't really get into the "morality" questions about it. Just having fun with our dicks, jerking off and sometimes mutual masturbation. But, our get-togethers are sporadic now.
My most current JO bud loves watching porn as much as I do, and we have had some great edging sessions together... Kinda like having stamina competitions with each other. Sometimes popping loads, and then get going again for more boner time. Last time we also went on cam at a couple of cam sites, and showed off together, with lots of viewers... That was really fun!
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My most current JO bud loves watching porn as much as I do, and we have had some great edging sessions together... Kinda like having stamina competitions with each other. Sometimes popping loads, and then get going again for more boner time. Last time we also went on cam at a couple of cam sites, and showed off together, with lots of viewers... That was really fun!
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I agree. If a spouse has no knowledge that her guy is masturbating and sucking off another guy, best friends or not, it's cheating. The sex of your "buddy" doesn't matter; if it were a woman instead of a guy wouldn't you consider it cheating? I would. The sex of the parties whether it's m2m or f2m or f2f doesn't matter if it's without the knowledge of the other spouse.
Simple really.
Simple really.
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having a good jerk off buddy is great. It is great male bonding and sexy as hell.
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Having a JO Buddy(s) can be, and is great fun.....oh yeah!
For me...a JO Buddy is just that...jacking off with each other, and sometimes actually jacking off each other.
I think that when JO Buddy(s) an you go further....ie. frotting and sucking (or even more)...then it becomes something else...maybe a JO Buddy.."with privileges?"
:biggrin:
With regards to doing it when you are married or in a committed relationship, but that is between you and your significant other. For me, I would not feel right
doing it while in a relationship or married. But that's just me. :shrug:
For me...a JO Buddy is just that...jacking off with each other, and sometimes actually jacking off each other.
I think that when JO Buddy(s) an you go further....ie. frotting and sucking (or even more)...then it becomes something else...maybe a JO Buddy.."with privileges?"
:biggrin:
With regards to doing it when you are married or in a committed relationship, but that is between you and your significant other. For me, I would not feel right
doing it while in a relationship or married. But that's just me. :shrug:
Sounds like fun.
I've never let any male see my erection, I don't want to be thought I've crossed the lines.
I've never let any male see my erection, I don't want to be thought I've crossed the lines.
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Well, I'm a male, and I just looked at your pics of your erection... What's the big difference?
Regarding the "morality" issue that some of you wonder about with guys having JO buddies while also in a committed relationship, obviously opinions about that will be up to the individuals involved. Some will feel best if they are open about it to their partner, (if their partner is 'open-minded'!), some will prefer to keep it as a secret part of their sex lives, and perhaps might even get turned on by the fact that it's secretive.
That's life!
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I don't know you and you don't know me... I don't want people I know think I've crossed the lines.
If I ever decide to take the risk (Because it really does sound like a lot of fun) I'll never do it without permission of my girlfriend. She is obviously much more important to me.
