Jerk Off Buddies

[ActionBuddy]

If I ever decide to take the risk (Because it really does sound like a lot of fun) I'll never do it without permission of my girlfriend. She is obviously much more important to me.

OK... Well, here you are posting in a major Big Cock website... Hope your GF has fun here, too.

Don't judge us, and we won't judge you.

A/B

 

[yehudanahmias]

OK... Well, here you are posting in a major Big Cock website... Hope your GF has fun here, too.

Don't judge us, and we won't judge you.

A/B

I'm not judging, just telling my considerations.

It's silently agreed between us that what we do online is private, but doing something physically that's another story.

 

[yhtang]

With regards to doing it when you are married or in a committed relationship, but that is between you and your significant other. For me, I would not feel right
doing it while in a relationship or married. But that's just me. :shrug:

I am not in a relationship or married. If the opportunity presents itself, I would play around, and if it ends up being jerk off buddies, that would be even better.

However, if the other party is in a relationship or is married, I would not jerk him off or go anywhere further. If we happen to be watching porn or something and start to stroke our own cock, I would do it, but no touching each other. That is as far as I would go.

My stance stems not from any moral reasons. It is just that I can do without jealous lovers/spouses ruining by day.

 

[silvertriumph2]

Right on......well said...

 

[c_smith]

wondered about this....basically N.S.A. kind of situation.....just too meet up.... rub one out...or rub one out on him.............

would be cool to try this sometime.......

 

[blue2red699]

Jackoff buddies is nice but hard too find.. lol

 

[Notsobigbutenough]

Many of you are a bunch of hypocrites. If it feels like it is something that should be kept a secret, it is cheating, it doesn't matter if you are doing it with a guy or a woman.

If your wife knows about it and is ok with it, go ahead, have fun.

 

[Silvertip]

... I'll never do it without permission of my girlfriend. She is obviously much more important to me.

Kudos to you for your openness and candor with your girlfriend. If she is OK with the idea I envy you for your relationship with her.

... I don't want people I know think I've crossed the lines ...

Trust me, it's a line very much worth crossing. And if it should ever become a reality for you there is no reason that anyone but you, your girlfriend and your JO bud should know about it.

 

[Stephenmass]

OK... Well, here you are posting in a major Big Cock website... Hope your GF has fun here, too.

Don't judge us, and we won't judge you.

A/B

In the transverse, aren't you judging him? He didn't say anything was wrong with what you do; he only stated what it would be for him and how he himself would find it acceptable.

I am like him and I don't judge you. I don't really care what someone else does that I am not personally in a relationship with IRL.

It seems to me you judged him and not the other way around.

 

[AndyPJacker]

So if I understand correctly what your are telling here, there's nothing wrong to have a jerkoff buddy even if you are married or in a relationship with someone...

I don't see anything wrong with it. I am not going to form an emotional attachment to my buddy, so no harm as far as I am concerned. I also think that having a jack off buddy does not make you gay.

 

[myhappypants]

Sure do wish I had a JO bud
It would make the long stretches of no sex with my wife
easier to cope with

 

[Novaboy]

I think a lot of people get too hung up on sex. If a person is in a sexless relationship or has desires to have a JO buddy. I'm not really sure if it hurts the relationship (as long as it's just JO buddies) I mean how does it affect a guys marriage if he meets a friend and the jerk off together or if they play chess? I know that technically it's cheating but it does seem unfair that the only option is leave an otherwise comfortable relationship that would hurt a lot people or meet someone occasionally for a bit of fun....

 

[conntom]

JO buddy in Boston wanted...

 

[ERSTF]

I have a JO buddy. We were JO buddies while he was still in a relationship. His girlfriend knew and she just laughed about it. So she was totally fine with it. They broke up for other reasons not related to us jerking off. We still are JO buddies. So it depends on the girl

 

[Florida Boy]

So if I understand correctly what your are telling here, there's nothing wrong to have a jerkoff buddy even if you are married or in a relationship with someone...

.....or if you are straight.

 

[mngusher]

I have a number of jerk off buddies. Some I get together with pretty regularly, some more sporadically. All different sexual orientations. Its my favorite sexual outlet these days. I do different things depending on who I'm with. Sometimes its sitting on the couch and watching porn intently and commenting on it, other times its really getting into each other, with cock play, standing up and showing showing off, admiring each other's cocks close up, being verbal, frot, talking through sexual fantasies and cock play. Sometimes, especially the first time, I get so turned on that I can barely touch my cock, because if I did, I would come. I definitely prefer to hook up with the same person over time. Its less nerve racking and more relaxed. Its fun to explore different things each time. I think it would be great if more guys were open to it and it wasn't seen as a form of "cheating" on a partner or spouse.

 

[asuitedguy]

Looking for a jo buddy in Louisiana.

 

[deleted892921]

I've had a couple of JO buddies in the past. It was always me that initiated it, I'd suggest we play truth or dare and it'd escalate from there.

Some of my friends have been comfortable showing me their dick but nothing more, whereas others have been totally cool with anything. Mutual masturbation, handjobs, blowjobs, frotting etc...

If you haven't tried it I would definitely recommend it.

 

[MilstarSD]

when it happens, its just same room watching porn and jerking our own cocks. Not really in to touching, although it has happened. Not opposed to it but just like being able to control my own hand.

 

[Layne0033]

I'm in Louisiana - I'd love to find a jerk off buddy.